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Okuzikhethela

Uhlala isikhathi sekwephuzile, ungakhumbuli mayelana nezinhlelo nezenzakalo, uphinde uthumele imihlangano, ukhohlwa ukuxwayisa mayelana nokucindezela amandla futhi ungene enkingeni? Ekuqaleni lokhu kungase kubonakale njengento ekhangayo yomlingiswa, kodwa qiniseka - imizwelo izoshintsha ngokushesha.

Ukukhathazeka

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale futhi ukuthululela umphefumulo wakho othandekayo mayelana nezintombi zakho ezingaphezu kwesisindo / iziphukuphuku / umsebenzi ongenamsebenzi - buka isimo kusuka ohlangothini. Uma izikhalazo mayelana nokuphila zenza okungaphezu kwengu-half of your monologues, yimisa kuze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu. Okokuqala uzoyeka ukulalela, bese ulalela futhi ulalele.

Ukuzithoba

"Angikwazi ukukholelwa ukuthi sisebonke," "lokho akutholile kimi," "uphelile kakhulu, nami ..." - le micabango idinga ukuxoshwa kuwe ngokwakho ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakhulumi ngokuzwakalayo. Ukubukeka okuvela ngezansi kuya komlingani kuyindawo yokulahlekelwa ngokuziwayo. I-logic ilula: uma okhethiweyo wakho enhle kakhulu, ufanelwe ne-pair efanelekayo. Kanjani ngokushesha uzoyiqonda, uma ungazitholi ukuzethemba kuwe?

Ukuphathwa

Sikhuluma ngendaba evelele yokuthi "ukuthukuthela ukuthula", okuyinto bonke abantu abazondayo, ngaphandle kokunye. Izindebe ezinamahloni, ubuso obusabekayo, izinyembezi ezithule, ukubukeka okubuhlungu - izikhali ezinzima, okungafanele zisetshenziswe ezinkingeni. Futhi ungalindeli ukuthi "uzoqonda." Ungaqondi! Futhi uyobe ethukuthele ngokuthukuthela kwakho okuthula. Chaza ngokucacile izizathu zokunganaki kwakho nezindlela zokuxazulula impikiswano - ukuvuleka okunjalo noma yikuphi umuntu oyohlangana nokujabula.

Ultimatum

Cha, futhi futhi cha! Ukusongela ukuhlukana kobudlelwane, lungele ukuqinisekisa ukuzimisela kwakho ngesenzo - ngaphandle kwalokho, uzozibeka ekungalungeni futhi ulahlekelwe inhlonipho ngokhethiweyo.