Kukhona izimo lapho ingane eneminyaka eyi-3 kuphela inkulumo kuphela nabangane bayo abaqamba amanga, ngisho nangaleso sikhulumi esingenakuqondakala, kuyilapho ontanga bakhe sebeqedile ukukhuluma nabazali babo.
Uma uqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho isiqalile ukukhuluma nabangane abangekho, akufanele neze umemele futhi umcasule.
Izingane ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene zakha abangane babo abangabonakali, isibonelo:
Uma ingane ingenayo isikhathi esanele sokuxhumana nabantu abadala kanye nezingane zabo futhi uma ingenabo abangane empilweni yangempela.
Uma ingane ivame ukuhlaselwa emndenini, uyazicabangela umngane ongase ahlasele futhi ajeziswe, futhi ingane ingabandakanyeki emidlalweni yakhe amakhophi ukuthi ilungu lomndeni elijezisa ingane ngokwayo.
Isibonelo esincane kunazo zonke lapho ingane isuke isithukuthele, yize inosuku lonke elibhalwe kumags.
Izingane azichotshozwa yinoma yiluphi uhlaka lwezenhlalakahle, ngakho-ke zibona yonke into kahle futhi zizwa futhi uma ingane inenkinga ethile engakwazi ukuyixazulula nokutshela abazali bayo, uqala ukwakha ngenhloso enembile inganekwane yokuqala futhi kule ndaba ihlezi phansi leso simo esibucayi, esingenakukwazi ukubhekana nayo ngakho-ke uzama ukuyixazulula.
Noma yimuphi umama uzokhathazeka ngesimo somqondo wengane lapho edlala nabangane abangabonakali bese ekhuluma naye ngolimi lwabo, okungaqondwa ngabantu abavamile. Iningi lazo zonke izingane zivulekile ekubonweni kwezwe elifanayo kuze kube yilapho zibamba intambo, lelo liso lesithathu. EMpumalanga, kucatshangwa ukuthi lesi sihloko asigcini (umgodi e-skull okhula kuze kube unyaka) awuvimbeli ingane ukuba ikhulume ngokukhululekile ne-cosmos kanye nemvelo futhi inesibopho samakhono akhe aphakeme angqondo.
Ngokusho kwengqondo, isikhathi esibucayi ngemibono yezingane iminyaka engu-7, okungukuthi, ngemva kwalesi sikhathi, ingane kumele imise yonke imibono nokuxhumana nabangane abaqamba amanga.
Abazali kufanele bazi bonke abangane bomntanakho, ngakho-ke kuhle ukubuza ingane mayelana nabangani bakhe ngezikhathi ezithile. Uma umntwana etshela ngabangane bakhe abangabonakali, khona-ke unekusasa elihle, ngoba izazi zengqondo zicabanga kanjalo. Izingane ezinjalo ezimweni eziningi nazo zibhekene nokulala.
Ingabe labo bangempela bangane bomntwana wakho ongaboni, kunoma yikuphi okudingekayo baqonde ukucabanga kwengane, ngisho noma besaba.
Izazi zengqondo zeluleka labo bazali abafuna ingane yabo ukuba isuse abangane abacabangelayo, banakekele kakhulu ingane.
Naphezu kokungabonakali kokungenangqondo kanye nokwesaba okwamanje kanye nomngane onenkohliso emntwaneni, kwezinye izimo umuntu kufanele acabange ngokuya kudokotela uma:
- Umntwana udidekile empeleni futhi uhlala ezweni elikhohlisayo futhi lapho elwa nabangane bakhe abangenangqondo bawela ekucindezelekeni.
- Ingane ayinasithakazelo kunoma yini enye ngaphandle kwabangane bakhe abangabonakali futhi exhumana kabi nabazali bakhe.
- Ingane iziphatha kabi futhi ilula.