Qonda ukuthi izinhlobo zengqondo zengane zifana nani-ngakho uzokwazi ukuyiqonda kangcono kakhulu. Ngokuqinisekile, uye waqaphela ukuthi izingane ziziphatha kanjani ngendlela ehlukile, kusukela ekuzalweni: i-karapuz eyodwa ihlezi ngesitulo sabakhubazekile futhi ilinda ngokucophelela konke ukuzungeza, nomunye uhlangothi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unamathela kanjani amabhande akho esihlalo, uzama futhi "ukukhuphuka" esivela "esidlekeni". Futhi ngani? Yebo, ngoba uhlamvu, ngokuqondile, luhlobo lwentando. Ingane izalwa inesimo esizuze njengefa, esizibonakalisa ebuntwaneni bese isinquma ukuziphatha kwengane, indlela yokuxhumana, okuthandwayo emidlalweni, izici zokuphila ngokomzwelo. Izazi zengqondo zihlukanisa izinhlobo ezine zokuziphatha: i-choleric, i-melancholic, i-sanguine, i-phlegmatic. Kodwa-ke, abantu abanesimo "sokuhlanzeka" abavamile. Yiziphi izinhlobo zobumnene bomntwana? Ngokuvamile kunezinhlobo ezixubekile.
I-choleric enamandla
Lolu hlobo lwezimfanelo lulula ukufunda ku-diaper. Izingane ezinjalo zingakwazi ukuchitha amahora zizama ukuthola lokho azifunayo ngokumemeza, zingene ezinyangeni ngenxa yezinto ezincane: hhayi ngesikhathi se-diaper eshintshiwe noma ithoyizi elikude kakhulu. Bacasuka kakhulu kunabantwana abanamanye ama-temperaments, abangakhululekile. Futhi bazincipha kuphela emamelweni. Izingane ezinjalo zinamandla kakhulu. Ukunyakaza kwabo kuvame ukukhalipha futhi kuyashesha, futhi imizwelo iqinile futhi ikhulunywe.
- lo msebenzi ugijimela ukwenza, ungazange ulalele ekupheleni, konke kusebenza ngokushesha, kodwa kungakhathali, kungaboni ukuthi kukhona okulungile nokungalungile;
- ukuzethemba ngokweqa ngokweqile, ukuqhutshwa kwengozi kanye nezenzo zokukhwabanisa kungaqhubeka "ukudweba" ama-adventures angathandeki.
Amathiphu kubazali:
1. Dlala nomntwana, yenza ubuhlakani bakho, funda. Mqaphele kusuka komunye umsebenzi ukuya kwenye. Ukubunjwa nokudweba - yilokho kanye okudingayo i-karapuza ekhuphukile.
2. Qinisekisa ukuthi ufika nemikhuba yakho yokulala, okuzophindwaphindwa nsuku zonke. Kusihlwa, izinto ezingaphandle zifakiwe: umculo ophezulu, amathangi, imidlalo enomsindo. Funda le ncwadi kubantwana.
3. Ingabe ufuna ukufundisa ingane ukuthi ifike icala ekugcineni? Yiba nesineke esanele. Okokuqala, i-crumb kufanele ibe nesithakazelo kulowo mphumela wokugcina, ngakho-ke khetha izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zokukhuthazwa. Futhi khumbula ukuthi imizuzu engu-15 yamakilasi kuye - kuze kube phakade.
4. Abantu abancane be-choleric bazwela kakhulu ukugxekwa. Ukunikeza imibono kubantwana kuyadingeka ngokuqinile, kodwa kuyathula. Ukuklabalaza nokujeziswa, futhi ngisho nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, kungabhubhisa ngokuphelele ubuhlobo bakho. Uhlobo luni lomoya wengane?
I-Active Sanguine
I-kid ibuhlungu kakhulu futhi ingabonakali. Uthanda izindawo ezintsha, abantu abasha. Ngokusho kwalezi zincuthu, kulula ukucacisa isimo sakhe sengqondo, isimo sengqondo emhlabeni. Ngomntwana onjalo, abazali bavame ukulula. Usheshe ulele futhi uvuke kalula. Ufuna wonke umuntu athande. Yilungiselele ukuthi esikhathini esizayo indlu yakho izogcwala nabangani be-karapuza yakho. I-Sanguine isheshe isetshenziselwe ukushintsha izimo futhi ngokuvamile ngokuzithandela iya enkulisa. Ngomusa. Ukufuna ukwazi.
- I-Sanguine iwa kalula kalula kokubili kokuthonya okuhle nokubi.
Amathiphu kubazali:
1. Kusukela esemncane, qapha ingane futhi ngobumnene, kodwa ngokuqhubekayo ujwayele ukujwayela ubulungiswa. Khumbula: i-s-ine-bred sanguine kalula iba ngumqambimanga. I-Sanguines iyigugu kakhulu, ngokuvamile ifuna amathoyizi amasha amaningi, ayishintsha cishe nsuku zonke.
2. Umuntu omncane wegazi uhlaziya ukuzethemba kwakhe ngakho-ke kufanele adunyiswe kuphela. Ukudumisa njalo "phezulu" kungathinta ubuntu obusasa.
I-phlegmatic enzima
I-crumb igwa ngokushesha, futhi ivuka, ilele ngokuthula. Udlala nezingane eziningi ezithandwa kakhulu, akafuni ukugijima nomsindo, kodwa uthanda ukudla nokulala.
Iziguli ze-phlegmatic zivame ukuba nezinkinga enkulisa, lapho kudingeka khona ukufeza ngokushesha izidingo nemisebenzi yabafundisi.
Amathiphu kubazali:
1. I-Phlegmatic akulula ukuhambisana neqembu lezingane. Ngokuvamile uhamba naye ezindaweni zokudlala, ukuze afakwe emdlalweni jikelele.
2. Kunzima kakhulu ukuba ingane ihloniphe umbuso wosuku. Emandleni akho ukufundisa i-crumb ukuba "uzizwe" isikhathi. Yiba nesineke futhi ukhumbule: akukho cala kufanele ulingane nomntwana!
3. Abacwaningi bezinhlanzi bashintsha kancane kancane, ngakho kunzima ukuba balandele, isibonelo, ukuthi uthisha uthini. Ukuze usize u-crumb, dala izimo lapho angazizwa ephumelele khona.
I-Shy Melancholy
Uhlobo luni lomoya wengane? Izingane zithule ngokwanele, ziyalula, futhi zilalele kakhulu futhi ziqaphele. Othobekile futhi onamahloni, eqenjini labantwana, uvele engabonakali. Imvuthuluka enjalo ikhetha ukudlala yedwa noma nezingane ezijwayele kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kokuzola kwabo kwangaphandle kukhona olwandle lwemizwa nokuhlangenwe nakho. Inkathazo encane ingenza izinyembezi zikhale izinyembezi.
Amathiphu kubazali
1.Umntwana unomuzwa ozwakalayo wecala. Ungamemeza, uphinde ugxeke noma uhlasele obala: usuvele enamahloni. Kwanele ukuchazela omncane ngethoni elithulile, yini engalungile kuye nokuthi yini engakaze yenziwe kanjalo.
2. Ukudumisa, ukukhuthazwa, ukwesekwa, ukuthintana nokuxhumana (kisses, hugs), ngisho nokuphumelela okuncane - kanti i-karapuz yakho izophendulela izintaba. Khumbula ukuthi ukuzethemba kwe-melancholic kungukuthi, njengokubusa, kwehlelwa phansi. Khumbula: ukudumisa njalo kuphakamisa ukuzethemba, futhi kugwemezela phansi.
3. Uma uqala umdlalo nezingane, qala ukuzinika kuye ukuze asinde isimo sobuholi, athole injabulo kuwo futhi amfune.
4. Abantu abancibilikisiwe bayithinta yonke inhliziyo yabo, bakhathazekile kakhulu. Khohlwa izindaba ezifundisayo eziyingozi. Kungcono ukutshela izindaba zezingane ezilawulwa yingqondo, umusa, umqondo wokuhlekisa.