Kulo mhlaba, impilo iyinkimbinkimbi ngokwayo, ngoba inani elikhulu lamandla angokomoya ligeleza ngaphakathi "emgodini omnyama" wesikhathi. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umbono wakho uqondiswa kuphi, esikhathini esidlule noma esikhathini esizayo, awukho "lapha nango manje". Kukhona umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwalezi zizwe ezimbili: umuntu ongokoqobo ongenakuqaphela ngokucophelela uzama ukuphinda aphinde abuyele impilo yakhe "ukuze aqale", angasithola ngemuva kwengxoxo ngokuzwakalayo - ulahlekelwa engqondweni yakhe kusukela esikhathini esedlule, ecabanga ukuthi angenza kanjani. Lona okuthiwa "impilo enemizwelo enemibandela": "uma ..., ke ...". Ngokungafani nalabo abahlala esikhathini esizayo, "umuntu osuka esikhathini esidlule" kulula ukuphuma kulo mbuso futhi aqale ukuphila "namuhla": ukuqonda kwesikhathi esidlule kubonakala kwabanye, futhi abantu bavame ukuzibamba ngalokho okubukeka emuva. Umkhuba wokuphila kusasa ngosuku awubonakali kangako. Uma uhlala "esidlweni sasekuseni" njalo nabanye, khona-ke cishe usaphila - "cishe" eduze "namuhla" nethi "kusasa", okuzofika. Kodwa lokhu akukwenzeki! "Akukho lutho olungapheli kunomphela," kusho incwadi ethi Changes, I Ching. Abanye baphila esikhathini esedlule, abanye ngekusasa, futhi bambalwa kuphela okwamanje - indaba yendaba.
Kusasa kuhlakaniphile kunokuhlwa ...
Indoda isetshenziselwa ukuhlala izithembiso zosuku olusasa ukuthi, ngemva kokuthola injabulo eyifunayo, idala isizathu esisha sokuhlehlisa impilo "ngokuhamba kwesikhathi". Lesi "isimo sengqondo": "Ngizofunda isiNgisi ngenkathi ..." Sekuyiminyaka, kulindeleke ukuthi indlu igcwaliswe, umuntu uphupha ngokuthi impilo izoshintsha kanjani ngokuhamba. Lapha kufika umzuzu osalinde isikhathi eside, yisikhathi sokungena endlini. Futhi nokho kukhona "kodwa", okuyinto ehlehlisayo housewarming. Futhi, iminyaka idlula ngaphambi kokuba umuntu aqhubekele ekuphileni okusha endlini.
Ukulandela iphupho
Kodwa-ke, bekungeke kube kuhle ukugxeka ngokungenangqondo abantu abaphupha ngekusasa. Esikhundleni somuntu, ukuhlehlisa impilo "kamuva", okungenani kukhona "okunye" okunye: laba bantu banesimo sengqondo sengqondo esihle, futhi lokhu kungamandla abo. Into eyinhloko ukuqaphela lokhu futhi ukuguqula ubuthakathaka bakho. Yebo, uma umuntu ephupha, akeke! Kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokungahambisani nalesi sikhathi. Ukuze umsebenzi womhlaba wonke uxazululwe, kubalulekile ukusetha imigomo encane futhi uzuze njengoba befika. Ukuze ususe ukunganeliseki kwangaphakathi nomkhuba wokuphila kusasa, sincoma ukuthi uthathe izinyathelo ezine ezilandelayo ukuze ufeze umgomo wakho othandekayo.
Iphupho nomqondo!
Qaphela ukuthi amaphupho wekusasa awabi kakhulu. Futhi ngokuqinisekile kungcono kakhulu ukuphupha nokuhlela kunokuthi, isibonelo, ukuthola umholo, ukuwusebenzisa ngosuku lokuqala lwezinjabulo zomzuzu wamanje, ngoba nje ufuna kanjalo. Unenzuzo phezu kwesimo esinjalo - funda ukunambitha iphupho lakho.
Jabulela ukuphila!
Ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungakujabulela kanjani okwamanje, qala ngokuzwela ngokomzimba. Ingabe ubuyile ekhaya ngemva komsebenzi? Zizwa ukuthi kumnandi kangakanani imilenze ukuba ingabi nezicathulo kwi-carpet elithambile noma phansi epholile. Ungacabangi nganoma yini - uzizwe nje isikhumba ngenjabulo kanye nenjabulo. Unamathiselwe ngaphansi kwezibani zesolarium? Zizwa imfudumalo egcwele zonke izingqamuzana, ungacabangi ngobuhle be-tan esizayo, gxila ekuzweleni ngokomzimba. Yidla i-ayisikhilimu? Hlala ucezu ngalunye ... Futhi uzame ukuhlela ngokwakho emini njengeziqhingi eziningi ezinjalo zokuzijabulisa ezilula.
Zinike ukufakwa!
Uma uthola ubuciko bokuzilibazisa ngezikhathi zenjabulo, hamba esiteji esilandelayo - kusuka emzimbeni wezinto ezilula kuya kumqondo wengqondo. Zama ukuphawula izikhathi lapho ukunganeliseki kwangaphakathi nomzuzu wanamuhla kukwandisa kuwe futhi isifiso sibonakala futhi ukuveza "i-akhawunti enemibandela" yokuphila: "Uma lesi simo sigcwaliseka, ngizojabula." Zigxile kulezi zizathu bese uzibuza umbuzo: "Nginamuphi umphumela kulokhu?" Isimo sezulu esibanda sifikile - kuhle, ngoba asishisayo; imoto yaphuka futhi ubambezelekile emhlanganweni - kodwa uthola icala lokujabula kusukela ekuhambeni ngezinyawo ... Akulula. Ekuqaleni, "umgxeka" wangaphakathi uzozama ukuvusa ukunganeliseki kwakho. Ungakuqapheli!
Zilalele wena!
Ukusebenza nawe ibhizinisi elibuhlungu, kodwa emva kweviki lokuphathwa ngokucophelela uzobona ukuthi ukhululekile kakhulu ekuphileni. Kuthiwani ngezinjongo zomhlaba wonke? Uyomangala ukuthola ukuthi uqale ukuchitha amandla angokomoya angaphezulu ukuze uwafinyelele, futhi konke okufisa ukukwenza kuzokuthuthukisa ngokwakho. Iphupho lizogcwaliseka uma ungalindeli! Into eyinhloko akumele ukuyekezela phambili futhi ungahlali phansi.