Sonke silwela injabulo, sifuna ukufeza umuzwa wenduduzo nokuvumelana nezwe elisizungezile. Futhi kubantu abaningi, nabesifazane ngokukhethekile, uthando luyingxenye yezingxenye ezibalulekile zalesi senjabulo. Kodwa uma ubulili obuhle kakhulu bethanda ukuncoma, amehlo ashisa abathandayo, iziqabetho zezimbali kanye nokunye okuthakazelisayo kubonisa njengothando lwezinsizwa, ngakho-ke ubulili obuqine kangaka yilezi zifiso zobulili zenkosikazi yenhliziyo ekhelini labo ...
Namuhla sikumema ukuba uxoxe ngezimfihlo eziyinhloko zokuvumelana kocansi. Yini thina, besifazane, esingakwazi ukujabulisa abalingani babo embhedeni, ukuze basinike ukushisa okungokomoya nokukhathalela? Ukuze uqonde, ingxoxo ngeke ibe yikho okudingeka yenziwe, kodwa mayelana nokuthi akufanele kwenziwe. Ngempela, ngenxa yokuthi umehluko wokubona umhlaba, abesifazane nabesilisa ngezinye izikhathi babheka izinto ezifanayo, njengoba bethi, kusuka ezinhlokweni ezahlukene. Futhi lokho esikubona njengento engokwemvelo, abathembekileyo bethu bangabamba ukushisa okumhlophe.
Imfihlo 1: "UKUHLELA KWENKULU!"
Yiqiniso, emvelweni kukhona abesifazane ababandayo abanobubili bobulili ngaphambi kwe-isibani sokukhanya. Kodwa-ke, njengoba ochwepheshe bekutholile, azikho eziningi zazo. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ngokuvamile ukubuka kwezwe elinjalo kungalungiswa. Kodwa ngobuningi bamacala lokhu ukunganaki akuyona yangempela, kodwa ngaphandle kukhona umphumela wokukhulisa. Sesaba ukuthi sibonakale sithukuthele futhi sihlukumeze abalingani bethu, ngakho-ke sivimbela ukufisa okuthukuthele kithi ngamandla okucabanga. Futhi bahlupheka futhi bathukuthele.
Khumbula: ukuhlambalaza umuntu ngokuthi uhlala ehlakalweni lesikhangiso socansi, unikeza izinketho ezintsha zomdlalo wothando - ngamazwi noma ngokuziphatha kwakhe - sibacasula kakhulu. Futhi ngisho nalabo abangenacala nabangokwemvelo, kusukela kumbono wesifazane, ama-nuances okuziphatha, njengamahloni okuvela ekunikezeni ubulili, amadoda athambekele ekubheka njengesihlambalazo. Lesi sihlamba singasungulwa cishe kanje: "Ukuzama ukwenza ucansi ngendlela engavamile, lezi yizifiso zezilwane ezivela kuphela ezidalwa eziphansi."
Njengokwenqaba noma ukuhlambalaza abameleli bobulili obunamandla bacabangela ukungahambi kahle kwabalingani phakathi kwemidlalo ebuseduze. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bephoqeleka ukuthatha isinyathelo kuqala kubo, besaba ukuzwa ukwenqaba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bavame ukucabanga ngale ndlela: "Njengoba engaphenduli emakhayeni ami, khona-ke ngingumthandi omubi, angiwutholi". Kodwa empeleni, akekho othanda ukubi, okungalungile, ikakhulukazi amadoda. Yingakho bathukuthele.
Ungaba kanjani?
Akusizi ngalutho ukuvimbela abalingani ngokuphambene, ikakhulukazi ngamazwi. Uma unesithakazelo ebuhlotsheni obufudumele nobuvumelanisiwe nale ndoda ethile, khona-ke udinga ukucabanga kabusha ngesimo sakho sengqondo esondelene naye. Hlola amakhono akho ngokucophelela: ungakhohlwa konke okufundisayo ebuntwaneni bakho bese uveza ukuziphatha kwakho kobulili noma kufanele ufune usizo kumthandi wezocansi? Phela, eqinisweni, amadoda ajwayelekile aphilile ayajabula kuphela uma abesifazane babo bethandana futhi bathatha isinyathelo, banikeze zonke izinketho ezintsha zokulala ngesikhathi sokulala.
Yiqiniso, izinyathelo zokuqala kule ndaba enzima kuzodingeka zenziwe ngingeke ngikwazi. Into ehle kakhulu ukuthi kulesi simo akunakwenzeka kuphela, kodwa udinga ukucela usizo kumlingani wakho. Zama ukukhuluma naye, kodwa hhayi ngesikhathi sokusondelana. Mtshele ukuthi ungathanda ukushintsha ubudlelwane bombhede wakho. Buza ukuthi yini angathanda kuwe, ngitshele, yiziphi izindlela, amagama, angakusiza uphumule.
Abanye besifazane basizwa ekutholeni ukuxhumana ngokocansi izincwadi noma amavidiyo. Omunye kulula ukujwayela ulwazi olunjalo kuphela, futhi othile akahambisani nomakhelwane wakhe noma umlingani wakhe. Into eyinhloko ukwenza isinqumo ngokuthi yikuphi okufanele uvuselele isimo sakho sengqondo ngocansi, futhi ungagxila kulo mzuzu "awufuni."
Imfihlo yesi-2: "SISHA INGXENYE YAKHO NEMINININGWANE YEZINHLOKO"
Ubani ongathandwa yiqiniso lokuthi owesifazane kukho konke uncike emibonweni nangolwazi lomlingani wakhe! Kodwa-ke, abaningi, njengalabo kuphela ekuqaleni, ngoba kusuka kumlingani uqobo, ubuhlobo obunjalo budinga ukungezwani okukhulu. Yebo! Eqinisweni le nkosikazi izinikezele yona, leyo yanikezele yona ngakho umthwalo wayo. Futhi uma lo mthwalo wemfanelo awukona nje kuphela isiphetho sakhe, kodwa futhi ne-orgasm yakhe? Yilapho inja ingcwatshwe khona. Amadoda athokoza uma elalelwa. Kodwa uma noma yikuphi ukukhuluma 'noma isenzo esibhekwa njengeqiniso eliphelele, alizwa kahle, ngoba libhekele. Ngokufanayo, abameleli bethu abakhulu bombuso banesibopho kunazo zonke.
Kunjalo ngokuqondene nobulili. Kuhle ukuba ngumthandi onolwazi. Kodwa uma le nkosikazi, engeyona into edlalayo, ngokungazelelwe ingatholakali, ingasho ukuthi: "Awu, kuthiwani ngawe? Kumele wazi konke futhi ukwazi ukwenza konke! Futhi angizange "ngishisekele". Kodwa lokhu akujabulisi neze. Indoda izwa njengesivivinyo, izinkathazo, isaba ukuthi ngeke ibhekane naso. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukugwema imihlangano ngokuphindaphindiwe. Futhi lokhu kakade kungathandeki ngenkosikazi yakhe.
Ungaba kanjani?
Okokuqala, ake sikhumbule ukuthi i-orgasm iyisithelo semizamo ehlangene. Okwesibili, wonke owesifazane uyimfihlakalo, ngamunye unemfihlo yakhe eyinhloko. Yebo, kunezindlela ezithile ezithokozisa iningi labesifazane, kodwa nguwe ongase angenzi. Ngakho-ke, ukuphawula ukuthi indima ekuthandeni imidlalo efana nethi "isigqila-umholi" ayiphutha futhi nje iyayizonda. Okwesithathu, indoda ayikwazi ukungena emicabangweni yendodakazi yakhe, ngisho noma ihlala eceleni kwayo isikhathi eside. Yini engalungile ngalokho, uma umtshela ezinye izinketho zesenzo ezizoletha injabulo kokubili?
Kodwa-ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba uhileleke emaqenjini. Abamele ubulili obunamandla abathandanga okungahambisani nemibandela. Futhi uma isimo esisodwa se-"merges" yakho sifana nomunye ... "Okokuqala cima i-blouse yakho. Cha, kuhamba kancane. Manje i-pantyhose. Kiss in the neck. Cha, lokhu akusikho intamo, kubuya. Ngabuza entanyeni! "Awu, njalonjalo. Kuyathakazelisa? Kunoma yikuphi, amadoda kusuka "ezinjalo" ziqala ukuzizwa abathandi ababi futhi abahluphekile kakhulu.
Ake sivume: uma unesithakazelo kule ndoda futhi uzama ukwakha ubuhlobo obuqinile nobuhle, zama ukuphatha izikhathi ezithandanayo njengento yokusebenzisana. Uma kunjalo, ababili bahlukile. Namuhla - wena, kusasa - yena. Ukubikezela kunoma yiliphi ibhizinisi kungekudala lizoholela ekupheleni kokufa. Zama ukukhumbula lokhu!
Imfihlo yesi-3: "FUNDA UMSEBENZI WOMPHAKATHI"
Abesifazane abaningi nje abazi ukuthi bangakanani amadoda abonakala nge-penis yabo. Cishe ngokusho kukaMayakovsky: "Sisho" iqembu ", sisho" uLenin ". Sithi "uLenin", sisho "iqembu". Nansi nendaba efanayo.
Ukuqhubekela phambili kulesi sikhangiso, khumbula: ukunakekelwa okwanele kumzimba wobulili womlingani ngesikhathi sokuthanda uthando, ukwesaba ukubathinta - kuhlambalaza. Futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi uthintane nomqondo. Uma owesifazane, ecindezela ipeni lomuntu, ngokusobala ephikisiwe noma esaba ukuthi le nto "isanda kuqhuma" ezandleni zakhe, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzofuna ukuphindaphindiwe. Ngempela, yonke imizwelo yethu, uma ingabhaliwe ebusweni, kuvezwa ngokucacile. Ummeleli ocansini oqinile uyaqiniseka: uma "ubuhle bakhe" bubangelwa imizwelo emibi, yena ngokwakhe akafanele ahambe enkantolo.
Esinye esingathandeki ukunciphisa yonke into ethandanayo ne-caresses ye-penis eyodwa. Le ndoda iqala ukuzizwa sengathi uzama ukumenza ukuba aqale ngokushesha ukuqedela ukusondelana ngesikhathi sokurekhoda. Ucabanga ukuthi ngokwalo akusijabulisi kakhulu.
Ungaba kanjani?
Uma ukhetha indlela yokunqoba ukungaqiniseki komuntu nokwesaba kwakhe, umuntu kumele aphinde enze isinqumo: ungasebenzisi ngokunenzuzo usizo lochwepheshe. Uma kwenzeka uthatha isinqumo sokwenza ngokuzimela, zama ukukhuluma nabangane bakho abasondelene nabo bese ucela iseluleko sabo: indlela yokuxazulula le nkinga. Mhlawumbe kuzoba lula kuwe ngemuva kokuba abanye abangane bakho bevuma ukuthi bahlangabezana nezinkinga ezifanayo. Okuhlangenwe nakho kuyisondelene, ngakho-ke sizizwa sinesizungu kulezi zinkinga futhi kaningi asiqapheli ukuthi ubunzima bethu buyinto evamile. Yebo, kungaba kuhle ukufunda izincwadi, lapho ochwepheshe abanolwazi abathola khona izixazululo zenkinga.
Uma uqiniseka ngobuqotho ukuthi indoda yakho inomzimba owodwa kuphela owenziwe emzimbeni wakhe - izitho zangasese, zama ukumbuza umbuzo (kuphela hhayi embhedeni, kodwa ngaphambi kokuthi "lokho" noma ngemuva): yiziphi ezinye izinto ezilindelekile kuwe? Mhlawumbe ulele futhi ubona ukuthi uzoqala u-love foreplay ngombukiso wokugunwa noma ekugcineni ucabange ngokusikhahla ngemuva kwendlebe yakho? Futhi awulali noma umoya. Khumbula wena, ngoba awuthandi lapho izandla zakhe emininini yokuqala zihlala endaweni yakho ethanda. Ngifuna enye iqale. Futhi amadoda nawo abantu.
Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke uzwe noma yini ehlakaniphile ekuphenduleni umbuzo wakho. Umlingani wakho, njengakho, ngokuthobeka ukholelwa ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe okusondelene nakho kuhlala kuphela endaweni ye-penis. Khona-ke kuzodingeka sibheke lokho okubizwa ngokuthi indlela ye-poke. Zama ukusikhathaza ngakho-ke, ke-ke, buza u-unobtrusively: ingabe kuhle?
Imfihlo 4: "ZITHANDA KANJE!"
Sonke sizwela kakhulu ngobuhle. Futhi ngoba imicabango yokubukeka kwayo ithatha isikhala esiningi kakhulu emakhanda ethu. Yizo ezinye zezocansi ezenza kahle, ngenxa yezimo, zibheke njengabantu abangekho ngokocansi futhi zihlala zibuhlungu ngakho. Futhi enye, ngokuphambene nalokho, imini nobusuku kusebenza ukuze kubonakale okukhangayo nokukhanga kakhulu, njll. Ngakho-ke, ngasinye salezi ziqhingqangi sigodla amadoda angaphandle. Ufuna ukujabulisa umyeni wakho noma umlingani wakho, thola indawo ephakathi maqondana nokubukeka kwakho.
Ukuqonda ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka ngempela empeleni kulula. Cabanga ngalesi simo: ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukucindezela, owesifazane uqala ukugabha futhi anikeze imishwana efana nokuthi "Bheka, yini engikhululile!" Noma "Nkosi, kungani nginemilenze embi kangaka!" Le ndoda ikhula, ngoba kudingeka iphikise, khona-ke ukuncoma ukushelela isimo. Kodwa uma kuphendulwa ukuncoma kokuncoma kuzwakala, kuqala ukucasula. Ekugcineni, umnumzane ufika esiphethweni sokuthi wayephutha ekukhetheni owesifazane.
Kodwa-ke, inkosikazi esesikhathini esibucayi kunazo zonke ithi: "O, i-eyelashes yami iyawa!" Noma "Ngokucophelela, uzosusa ukuzenzela kwami!", Kanjalo, akunakwenzeka ukuba kubangele umzwelo omnandi kumuntu wakhe. Akwenzeki ukumanga ngothando-i-lipstick izokwenziwa. Emathathini amaqabunga e-powder - akunambitheki. Khona-ke indlebe yakhe ibanjwe emaphethelweni eshidi, khona-ke isandla sesandla sagxuma le ringlet! Ngokuvamile, esikhundleni senjabulo - ezinye izinkinga. Ngakho ukucasuka, futhi mhlawumbe ukwehla kobudlelwane.
Ungaba kanjani?
With the complexes kungenzeka ukulwa, nakuba kunzima. Kunezinketho eziningi lapha. Enye yezinto ezithandwa kakhulu ezikhathini zamuva kuyisithombe. Thola i-photographer enekhono futhi umcele enze isithombe sakho ngendlela yokuthi ukwehluleka komzimba akubonakali ngokuphelele, futhi izihlonipho zanikezwa, njengoba zisho, ngokugcwele. Hlala endaweni evelele kakhulu futhi uzijabulise, uqiniseke ukuthi unezinto eziningi ezinhle futhi ezinomusa. Abesifazane abaningi bangcono kunanoma yiliphi i-anti-depressant ezimweni ezinjalo kusiza ukucabangela isithombe sabo siqu ngesitayela se "nude." Mhlawumbe lokhu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokukhipha yona? Ingozi!
Indlela enhle ukuqeqesha ngokuzenzakalela. Ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukuzitshela ngezikhathi zonke amagama onke anomusa nomnandi, ebuka ngqo emehlweni (okungukuthi, esibukweni).
Futhi ngaphezulu. Njalo uma uzwa ukuncoma ekhelini lakho, vuma ukulungele ukukhipha izikhalazo. Kungcono nje ukuthi: "Ngiyabonga!" Futhi smile.
Eqinisweni, okufanayo kungalulekwa kulabo besifazane abangakwazi ukuthenga ngisho isinkwa ngaphandle kokwenza. Bheka okuhle, okuhle, okulungiselelwe kahle - kuhle! Kodwa-ke, uma lesi sici sakho sengozini ubuhlobo nabathandekayo bakho, kungani kunjalo? Zama ukufunda ukuthi ungathanda kanjani ubuso bakho bonke okungaba: kokubili kwemvelo - ngaphandle kokupenda, futhi "odwebe" kancane, futhi "odwebeni olugcwele lokulwa."
Imfihlo 5: "Ungayifuni" UKUPHUMA "
Lokhu kungenye yezimfihlo eziyinhloko zokuxhumana kobulili kwabalingani. Yebo, yebo, kunjalo, ungenzi ngokwakho, kodwa uthathe izinyathelo ezinjalo kumnumzane. Iqiniso lokuthi amadoda abathanda, uma enelisekile "ngeseshini socansi lomlomo," bayazi ukuthi akusibo bonke, ngakho-ke baningi kakhulu. Kodwa bayakujabulela ngokwabo ngokwabo! Futhi ucasuke kabi, lapho owesifazane enqaba ngaphansi kwalokhu noma lokho okuyisisekelo esivela "kwezipho" ezinjalo. Futhi iphuzu lapha akulona ukuthi abantu bayakujabulela le nqubo ngokwayo, kodwa ukuthi ubulili bomlomo bubhekwa njengesenzo esisondelene kakhulu nayo yonke imisebenzi yezocansi. Futhi uma le ndoda ingamamukeli, khona-ke ayithembi.
Futhi okunye okungafani. Izinga lokwaneliseka kwamadoda ngesenzo ngasinye somuntu othandwayo ngokuyinhloko kuncike ekutheni umlingani wakhe uneliseke kangakanani. Siyathanda i-blagovernym yethu ukuthi isinike injabulo! Amadoda amaningi athola i-orgasm ephathekayo ngokweqiniso ngokoqobo lokuthi inkosikazi yenhliziyo isezulwini zesikhombisa kusukela emaqenjini akhe. Zenziwe ngokwemvelo futhi azikho okumele zicasule.
Ungaba kanjani?
Yiqiniso, uma ubulili bakho ngomlomo kungacabangeki, yiba namandla ngokwengeziwe, ukuletha umuntu ujabule, akufanele uzuze. Kodwa ungazama ukucabanga kabusha ngesimo sakho sengqondo kulolu daba lobuhlobo bakho. Ngezinye izikhathi kuphakanyiswa ukuba uxoxisane nodokotela wezocansi. Buza indoda yakho ukuthi ingaphuthuli ngenkathi ikhuluma nge-caresses. Vumela "ivule" wena, usebenzisa amasu ahlukene ngokuphelele. Mhlawumbe, njengoba usujabulele kakhulu, uzokwenza ucansi lomlomo lube lula kakhulu.
Ungakhuluma nomlingani wakho endaweni ekhululekile bese umcela ukuthi akuchazele ukuthi kungani ephikelela kulo msebenzi nokuthi yiziphi imizwa ayenayo. Kukhona kungenzeka ukuthi ngemva kwengxoxo enjalo uzophatha ubulili ngomlomo njengesenzo socansi kuphela futhi ukhohlwe ukuthi ngokusebenzisa izidakamizwa, izinsalela zokudla ezicutshungulwa nazo zisuswa emzimbeni ...
Futhi abanye besifazane bahlangabezana nemizwelo enamandla ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuthi bayesabisa nje ngokuzwa kwalesi sikhundla. Kulesi simo, udinga ukuvumelanisa kusengaphambili nomlingani wakho ukuthi uzokutshela emhlabeni wezobudlelwane ezincane kancane kancane, okuwukuthi, u-dosed.
Futhi ekuphethweni ngingathanda ukukukhumbuza ukuthi ezimweni eziningi ukungaboni kahle kwethu (kufaka phakathi obuseduze) kuxazululwa ngenkathi ingxoxo. Ukukhuluma ngezocansi, ngisho nendoda yakho ethandekayo akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kodwa kuyasiza. Khumbula lokhu futhi ungaqedi izinkinga ezivela, kodwa zama ukuthola indlela yokuphuma ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Yini esikufisa wena!