Kubili kokukhashelwa komuntu - lokhu kuyinto evamile kakhulu. Ngenxa yokucwaninga kwezenhlalo, kwacaca ukuthi amadoda amaningi avumela kakhulu abesifazane, ngaphandle kwalokho, amadoda akholelwa ukuthi bonke abasekela ukuziphatha okuvunyelwe amadoda futhi benqabela abesifazane. Indoda eyashintsha intandokazi yakhe kulula ukuyibala. Uma isikhathi eside ukuxhumeka kusehlangothini, kulula kakhulu ukuwuveza. Cabanga ngamaphethini avamile okuziphatha kwabantu emva kokuhlukunyezwa. Okokuqala, uqala ukuchitha isikhathi esincane nawe kunokujwayelekile. Ngokuvame ukubambezeleka emsebenzini, kunemihlangano kaningi futhi engazelelwe, ukubuyela ekhaya ngokuvamile kuvimbela ifoni ephathekayo. Ukushintsha ukushintshwa kwekhadi, ukushintsha izinwele, izingubo zokugqoka, mhlawumbe ukuvela komqondo "wesitayela", uma engakafuni ukuzwa ngakho.
Ukuziphatha komuntu ngemuva kokukhashelwa Kunesithakazelo ezemidlalo, akukhiphi ukuvakasha okuvamile ukuya ejimini. Isihlalo somoto singashintshwa endaweni engakhululekile kuwe. Isimo se-backrest sinjengoba kuhle kumngane omusha womthandekayo wakho. Emindenini enezinzuzo ezilinganiselwe, ngokuvamile kuvame ukuba umuntu lapho eqala ukuchitha imali encane emndenini kunalokho ayekusebenzisa. Kusobala ukuthi isizathu asikho emnothweni ovele uvele, kodwa izindleko nezintshisekelo ezintsha kungenzeka zingabikezeki. Ukuphila obuseduze kungaba okungajwayelekile. Ukwehluleka kuyisisusa esidlule, ukukhathazeka kungenye yezizathu eziyinhloko. Ukubonakala kwesithukuthezi ekuphileni komndeni osondelene, njengento ejwayelekile ekuziphatheni komuntu emva kokungcwatshwa. Umqondo wecala uzibeka ngokwawo - ngokucasula nokungalingani. Ukuziphatha kufana nomuntu ovikelayo. Omunye wobufakazi uyiselula. Uma ngaphambi kokuba ifoni yakho ishiye noma ikuphi, manje uyayivala noma ayithwale nayo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Amaphasiwedi webhokisi leposi nezinye izinhlelo zishintsha. Umvelo ngokwawo uye wabeka umehluko ekuziphatheni ngokobulili phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Amadoda anzima neze nobunzima nokuzisola angakwazi ukubopha inoveli ngakwesokunene, mhlawumbe hhayi ngisho nanye. Ukuhlambalaza indoda kuyisimo sokuziphendulela, okungazenzisi. Amadoda ashadile, ubulili nothando yizinto ezihlukahlukene njalo. Owesifazane ngakolunye uhlangothi, uye ekuthengisweni kothando. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokucabanga, mhlawumbe ngemva kokuxoxisana nomngane wakhe, uxhumana nohlangothi.
Ngakho-ke, izinhlobo zokuziphatha kwamadoda emva kokuhlukumezeka zingahle zihlukaniswe ngezigaba ezilandelayo: - Ngemva kokukhaphela, amanye amadoda abuya, nomaphi lapho aya khona, lawo ma-boomerang abesilisa. Kulokhu, yonke imithetho, ekubuyiseni kwamadoda alahlekile, kufanele abhalwe phansi ngokuqondile yilo wesifazane.
- Abanye basheshe bathole indawo, ngokuqondile ngosuku olulandelayo - balungele ukugubha ukunqoba okusha. Uma kunjalo, ungasheshi ukulenga ilebula kuwe "Ngibi kakhulu kunkosikazi" futhi ngiya ekucindezelekeni okungaqondakali.
- Olunye uhlobo, amadoda, enza amahemuhemu. Kuyadingeka emva kwekhefu lakho ukuzilungisa ngokwakho kungakho ukuhleba kohlamvu oluhlukile kuya. Ungancoma kuphela ukutholisa phansi bese uqala ukuhlala.
- enye yezinhlobo ezinhle kunazo zonke zamadoda, zibhekene nokuziphatha okuzolile ngemva kokuhlukanisa
- Abangani abahlanganyele ngokugcwele kwezwi. Awuzange ube yindoda yakho, kodwa kwakukhona umngane wangempela ongase asekele futhi asize nganoma yisiphi isikhathi
- abantu abangajwayelekile - lokhu kwenzeka uma, ngemuva kokuhlukanisa, uyaqonda ukuthi awuhlangene nalomuntu, ubuncane bokukhulumisana futhi uziphatha njengokungathi wayengazi kahle futhi awunakukwenza lutho. Lezi yizinhlobo ezingokomfanekiso nezenzo zokuziphatha, kodwa icala ngalinye lihlukile ngendlela yalo futhi sifuna ukuba kunoma yikuphi ukuhlala umuntu kuphela ngencwadi enkulu futhi ufunde ukuthethelela izinto ezibonakala zingenakwenzeka ngempela.
