Okufanele ukwenze.
Okokuqala, ungazami ukuqala impilo entsha, ukhohlwe futhi uqede uthando lwakho ludala. Kungenakwenzeka ngokomzimba, uthando akuyona indawo kwi-jeans - ezinsukwini ezingu-2 ngeke uphume. Lungiselela ukuthi kuyoba uhambo olude lobude obungesonto elilodwa. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi umuntu angakwazi ukubhekana nanoma yikuphi ubunzima, ngisho nokuhlukaniswa nomthandekayo wakhe.
Okokuqala, isifo esiyinhloko ngemuva kokuhlukanisa yilokhu okucabangayo ngakho. Ekhaya nasemsebenzini, eholidini nalapho ulungiselela amadokhumenti abalulekile. Okokuqala ungalokothi ushiye umcabango womuntu owayengumthandayo oye wangikhathaza wena kuphela, kodwa futhi nemizwa yakho, amathemba nokulindela. Awukwazi ukulawula ukuthanda kwabo ngamandla. Zizovela kunoma yiziphi izinto ezincane nezinhlangano eziyinkimbinkimbi. Ngakho-ke, konke okukumkhumbuza, kufanele ulahlekelwe, noma unikeze kubangani bakho (umama, ugogo, unina away.). Uma kuyinto ongenakuyenza ngaphandle, awukwazi, okungenani uyibeke ekamelweni. Vumela izikhumbuzo ngaye zibe mncane ngangokunokwenzeka.
Okulandelayo, zithinte, noma yikuphi okukuyo. Akunandaba ukuthi uzenzani ngempela, cabanga nje ngesifundo ngokuthanda kwakho. Kungcono into ehlelekile yokuthatha isimiso esithatha isikhathi nokuzikhandla, kodwa akuyona into yokusebenza. Ukuhlanza indlu, ukuhlukanisa izincwadi ekamelweni bese uzibeka ngokuhlelekile, uthathe umsebenzi wokuzibophezela komsebenzi, imibiko yendlu. Ngokuvamile, noma yini, nje uhlale ungenalutho ngangokunokwenzeka. Yiqiniso, ukwenza lokhu kunzima, kodwa ungaqiniseka ukuthi kulokhu ngeke ucabange ngomuntu owangaphambili, futhi uhlale ngokuthula uhlukaniswe nabathandekayo bakho.
Cela usizo kubangani (abangane abaseduze). Akukho lutho olungcono kusuka ekuhlaleni kunengxoxo eyimfihlakalo nomuntu oseduze, uthele umphefumulo wakho, ukhale, vumela le platinum iqede. Izinyembezi ziholela ebuhlungu, futhi ziletha ukukhululeka. Ungayisebenzisi kabi. Ngempela, ngobuhlungu bakho, kufanele uqale ukuzibusa futhi ukhale njalo futhi akudingekile.
Ekugcineni udinga ukushintsha okuthile ekuphileni. Qala kancane, hamba ezitolo. Ukuthenga kuyindlela enhle yokungahlambani ngemuva kokuhlukanisa nomuntu othandekayo. Hlela imvume endaweni, uthenge izithombe bese uholele ezithombeni zakho naye! Uma kunzima kuwe, khona-ke ungakwazi ukuzihlela kancane (noma indlela enkulu, uma kungenzeka) ukuhamba. Uhambo olulula ukuya ngempelasonto, kwenye idolobha elinomsebenzi omuhle, luzothula izinzwa, lihlanze ikhanda futhi linikeze icala lokuzizwa kwemizwelo.
Futhi, ukuze ungaphili, i-adrenaline rush izokusiza. Noma iyiphi i-adventure eyedlulele, gxuma kusuka ku-parachute, ipayipi yendiza noma into enjalo. Futhi cabanga nje ngesidlo sokuzilibazisa, ngena emidlalweni.
Okungafanele ukwenze.
Ake sithi ngaso leso sikhathi ukuthi akufanele usheshe uqale izintshisekelo zothando bese uzama ukumisa ubuhlungu ngokumnandi okungavinjelwe. Lokhu kumnandi akunakwenzeka ukuba uqotho, futhi uma uzama ukubuka ngaphandle ujabule, kuyakuba nzima ukushayela. Futhi ungagqoki umaski kuwe, yiba nesibindi ekudabukeleni kwakho, imizwa ephikisiwe ngaphakathi kwakho, yingozi kakhulu kunelabo abakhululwa ngentando.
Noma kunjalo, khumbula lokho okwakushiwo ngenhla. Noma yikuphi ukwehlukana, ukwehlukana, ukwehlukana kungahle kube nakho. Ngempela, ngisho noma kuyisikhathi esibi, kodwa udokotela. Into esemqoka ukulwa nezinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala, bese ubuhlungu buzoba lula.