Ubulili obuphephile

Cha, sizoshiya indaba yezokwelapha. Asikhulume ngenjabulo yomndeni. Likude nabantu bonke, izinkinga, noma zesikhashana, zivela kuwo wonke umndeni, futhi imicabango ifika engqondweni - okuhle futhi ehlukile. Uma nje ukhathazekile, ukwesaba, ukucasuka nokuthukuthela, endleleni yakho, angakwazi ukuhlangana - indoda ezoba inhliziyo yakho. Ukuguqula kungaphathwa ngezindlela ezahlukene, omunye uguqukile, kodwa uzilahla yena, kanye nezinye izifo ezinjalo, omunye uthule, omunye akanamahloni okuxhaphaza. Ake sithi awunasithakazelo ekuziphatheni kombuzo, kodwa ukhathazeka ngempela ukuthi ungayenza kanjani ukuze indoda ingazi lutho. Eqinisweni, kulula!


Ukushintsha, ungashintshi.
Abathandekayo bakho bayakwazi ukuthi "kusuka futhi kuya," ngakho baqaphela kalula noma yiziphi izinguquko. Uma iminyaka eminingi elandelana ngezimpelasonto ubopha, futhi maduzane waqala ukuya esiteshini ekuziqhenyeni okuziqhenyayo, lokhu kuzokwenza kube nokusola. Ngakho-ke, uzobe ujwayele ukujwayela abathandekayo bakho ukuthi ungashintsha izinto ozilibazisayo, isimiso nsuku zonke. Okwamanje, zama ukuhlangana nomthandi wakho ngesikhathi esiphephile nasendaweni ephephile.

Qaphela.
Ezweni lanamuhla, ukuxhumana akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kwezingcingo nama-computer. Ngokuvamile, lezi zimpumelelo zempucuko zivezwe. Ngakho-ke, kuzodingeka ufunde ukusebenzisa lezi zinto ngokuhlakanipha. Isibonelo, susa wonke amakholi - angenayo naphumayo, kanye nama-sms avela kumthandi. Yenza ngokushesha, ungashiyi kamuva. Ebusuku, cisha ifoni noma uvala umsindo - uma isoka elinamandla likhetha ukushayela, futhi wena ngalesi sikhathi uzobe usendlini nomyeni wakho, khona-ke ucingo lwakhe ngeke lube lukhulu kakhulu.
Kukhompyutheni, ungashiyi amabhukhimakhi, uma ungumdlali wezingosi zokuphola, ungalondolozi umlando womlayezo ku-ICQ futhi uhlanze njalo i-imeyili. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukushintsha amaphasiwedi ngezikhathi ezithile.

Yiba othintekayo.
Ngomyeni wakhe, kunjalo. Noma nini lapho ebiza, kufanele uhlale uthatha ifoni futhi ulale ngezwi elikholisayo. Izingcingo ezimbalwa ezingabanjwanga noma i-SMS-off, ifoni ivaliwe, futhi uzoqala ukuzibuza ukuthi uhambe ngempela kumngani. Futhi akukude nokuhlola, okungeke ukwazi ukuqagela, kuze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu.

Ziqaphele.
Hamba ekhaya ngendlela efanayo owashiya ekhaya, ikakhulukazi ezintweni ezincane. Ngokushesha, ungashiya ibrabhu futhi ungayiboni lokhu, futhi umyeni uzobe ebona imininingwane engekho yekhabethe lakho. Uma uhlale uthwala amakhondomu noma ezinye izisu zokubeletha nawe, futhi umyeni wayekwazi lokhu, ungavumeli lutho olulahlekile. Uma kwenzeke ukuthi uthathe ikhondomu kumasheya "omndeni", yigcwalise.
Ikakhulukazi unake iphunga. Uma uzwa iphunga lomuntu womuntu, akukho amanga angeke asize. Noma unike umyeni wakhe nomthandi amafutha afanayo, noma ahlanzwe ngokucophelela eshaweni ngemva komhlangano ngamunye. Ungazami ukubulala iphunga lesilisa ngamafutha akho - angeke alondoloze, kodwa izogcizelela kuphela umehluko kumnandi evamile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, qiniseka ukuzivikela. Uma uletha "isipho" ngesimo sesifo sokungena endlini, umshado wakho uzowela ngokushayeka okukhulu.

Yilungele.
Ukuhlasela. Yonke imfihlo ngokushesha noma kamuva iba sobala, futhi kuyisiphukuphuku ukukholelwa ukuthi indoda izohlale ikhona ekungazini. Okokuqala, ngokusola kancane, amadoda afisa ukuhlola amafoni namakhompyutha. Ake sithi uthathe lokhu futhi wathatha isenzo. Kodwa oshade naye angathatha ukuphrinta kwezingcingo zakho bese uthola inombolo engaziwa engabangela isehlukaniso. Abesifazane abahlakaniphile abanalo elinye i-SIM khadi kuphela, kodwa futhi nomakhalekhukhwini - ikakhulukazi emihlanganweni eyimfihlo. Ukuyifihla kuphela kuyadingeka ngengqondo.
Okwesibili, umshini. Uma ushayela imoto yakho, kungenzeka ukuthi kuyoba ubufakazi. Ama-butts, amakhondomu akhohliwe, konke lokhu kuvame ukufakazela ukuhlubuka.
Uma unomntwana, ungamvumeli ngisho azwe emaphethelweni endlebe yakho mayelana nokuhlangana kwakho nomthandi wakho. Ngisho nezingane ezincane, ezibonakala zingakaze zifunde ukukhuluma, ziyakwazi ukukhipha iqiniso ngawe ngesikhathi esingekho emthethweni.
Ungalethi izipho zasekhaya, izimbali. Lokhu kuzobangela imibuzo.

Ukuze uhlale uthembekile kumkakho ngisho nasendlini yomyeni wakhe, kuzodingeka uchithe amandla amaningi nezinzwa. Kuzodingeka ukwesaba ukuthi uzobonakala emetweni, emakhonsathini, endaweni yokudlela, noma ngabe ukuphi. Uzokwazi ukuthi ukuhamba kwakho kulula ukubala, ungazwa izingcingo, ufunde izincwadi. Kuzodingeka uqambe amanga futhi uzibekezele, ukubandakanya izintombi zakho ukuze usize ukudala i-alibi ekholisayo. Ekugcineni, into ephuka ngempela, umuntu uzobe esebenze noma uzokwenza iphutha elibulalayo. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuba uhlanganyele ezinkulumweni ezinjalo, cabanga ukuthi isahlukaniso esiqotho siyoba kubi kangakanani.