Izinhlobo ezahlukene zemidlalo yengqondo nokuzivocavoca ezinganeni zisiza ukudala isimo somusa nobungane nabantwana, sakha ubudlelwano bokuthembela. Namuhla, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthuthukisa ikhono lezingane ekuqaliseni nasekugcineni ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo, ngoba esikhathini sethu inamba ekhulayo yezingane izwa unesizungu futhi ihlupheke kuyo.
Iyini imidlalo yengqondo nokuzivocavoca?
Umkhathi esikoleni nasemndenini ushintshile. Othisha baphoqeleka ukuba bazinike isikhathi esiningi sokuqeqesha ekilasini, futhi lokhu kuthinta ukukhulumisana kwezingane omunye nomunye, kanye nothisha. Futhi esikhundleni sokuthuthukisa nokuqonda amakhono okuxhumana, labafana baqala "ukungalawuleki" futhi banonya. Emindenini, ngenxa yokuphila okukhulu, kunesikhathi esincane sokuxhumana.
Ngokunikeza imidlalo ehlanganyele ezinganeni, ubapha ithuba lokuthola okuhlangenwe nakho okusha, ukuthola okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangenwe nakho ekukhulumisaneni. Ungakhohlwa ukusebenzisa imfudumalo yakho ekukhulumisaneni, uqaphele futhi uzwele. Ngemuva komdlalo, qiniseka ukumema izingane ukuthi zihlaziye futhi zixoxe ngokuhlangenwe nakho abazuzile. Ungakhohlwa ukugcizelela ukubaluleka kweziphetho abazibeka ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Idlalwa kanjani imidlalo
Ekuqaleni, nikeze imidlalo ngokwabo. Futhi lapho izingane zidlala kakhulu nawe, zizokucela ukuthi udlale amageyimu nabo, okubonakala sengathi zidinga khona manje.
Emva kokuphela komdlalo noma ukuzivocavoca, sisiza izingane zichaze, futhi zixoxisane ngokubonakala kwazo. Yiba nesihawu futhi ubonise isithakazelo sakho ezenzweni zezingane. Bakhuthaze ukuba bakhulume ngokuningiliziwe futhi ngobuqotho ngakho konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo nezinkinga zabo. Cishe, kuzodingeka ulawule inqubo yokuxoxa. Qaphela indlela izingane eziza ngayo kulezi zinkinga noma lezo zincumo, ukuthi zizama kanjani ukusiza omunye nomunye ubunzima. Uma bengakwazi ukulawula okuthile, basize baqonde futhi baqonde. Uma izingane zibeka noma yiziphi izinhloso ezithile futhi zizama ukuzifeza, zisekele ekufisweni. Chaza kubo njengengane lucid ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuthi ukubonakaliswa kwanoma yimiphi imizwa kuvunyelwe, kepha ukuziphatha kungase kungabi khona. Khuthaza izingane ukuba zikhulume ngobuqotho ngemizwa yazo, kanye nokuhlonipha ezinye izingane. Izingane zidinga ukufunda indlela yokuziphatha ngayo kanye nemizwelo phakathi kwabo, ukuze bangabhekana nobunzima emisebenzini yabo yobuchwepheshe nezomuntu siqu.
Namuhla, kunezinye izinketho eziningi kubantu abadala, intsha kanye nezingane, eziyinkimbinkimbi ebuhlotsheni babo. Ngakho-ke, ukugcina ubuhlobo obuhle kanye nekhono lokuxhumana nabanye abantu luba lukhuni ngokwengeziwe. Ukusiza ingane ifunde ukuxazulula izingxabano, ukuqonda nokulalela abanye, ukuhlonipha hhayi eyakhe kuphela, kodwa nombono womunye umuntu angasiza uthisha nomndeni.
Isikhathi esibalulekile lapho usebenza namageyimu asebenzayo nokuzivocavoca inhlangano yesikhathi. Ukuze kucacise isimo futhi uthole indlela yokunqoba ubunzima, izingane zidinga isikhathi.
Imidlalo yengqondo nokuzivocavoca
Ungabanikeza izingane lokhu umdlalo wokuzivocavoca olandelayo: cela izingane ukuba zibhalele emaphepheni abo ephepheni izindaba zabo ezingathandeki, izimo, amacala, imicabango engafanele. Uma bebhala lokhu, babuze ukuba baqhube leli shidi bese beliphonsa emathinini okudoba (ukukhohlwa konke mayelana nokubi kwayo okuhle).
Ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo nokukhipha izingane kunganikezwa umdlalo olandelayo: izingane ziphonsa ibhola, ngenkathi zibiza umuntu ozoyiphonsa futhi zithi: "Ngikuphonsa uswidi (imbali, ikhekhe, njll)." Noma ubani obamba ibhola kumele athole impendulo ehloniphekile.
Ungaphakamisa umsebenzi olandelayo phakathi kwezingane nabazali noma phakathi kwezingane. Ingxenye yabadlali iboshwe futhi ihlinzekwa ukuya kwenye ingxenye bese ithola umngane wabo (noma umzali) lapho. Ungathola ngokuthinta izinwele zakho, izandla, izingubo, kodwa ungahloli. Uma umngane (umzali) atholakele, abadlali bashintsha izindima.
Ngezemidlalo nokuzivocavoca, uthisha nabazali bangasiza izingane ukuba ziqonde iqiniso, zithole incazelo yokuphila, zifundise izimiso zansuku zonke ezilula: gwema izimfihlakalo namanga, ufunde ukuphumula, njalo ufeze umsebenzi oqalisiwe. Isikhathi ngasinye, esiza ukunqoba ubunzima bezingane, senza uhlobo lokumangaza. Futhi umphumela ungaba nemizamo ehlangene yothisha, umndeni kanye nezingane.