Ubudlelwane bugcwele uthando, ngokusho kwamadoda anamuhla, akudingi neze abesifazane besimanje. Ngizobhala okuthile abesifazane abaningi abangayithandi. Abesifazane ngokwabo bangamangalela ukuthi amadoda anamuhla abheka ukuthi uthando aludingekile, lube lusizi futhi lube yinsali yasendulo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abesifazane abaningi banamuhla baye bathola kalula. Yiqiniso, lapho ehlangana nomfazi onjalo futhi eqaphela ukuthi udinga ukunqotshwa, indoda yanamuhla izokuthola kulula ukuyifinyelela, okuyinto okungafanele iyenakekele, inike izimbali, ubhale izinkondlo. Kuyadabukisa kakhulu, kodwa abesifazane abaningi, ikakhulukazi amantombazane amancane, manje banomshwalense nge-chocolate ne-rose, noma kubi kakhulu - ibhodlela le-vodka, futhi ngokushesha bawela kumfana olele embhedeni. Futhi abantombazane abasha abayisiphukuphuku kakhulu, kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ngenani elikhulu kangaka lamantombazane afinyeleleka kalula kumuntu, kungumuntu ovilapha kakhulu ukuba anakekele owesifazane ongenakufinyeleleka, lapho eseduze egcwele "ukuphangwa okulula." Besifazane, sondela iziphetho. Uma sasingatholakali kakhulu kubantu, khona-ke babeyoba nesisusa sokunqoba futhi basinqobe.
Nakuba, akuzona zonke izinto ezidabukisayo. Ukuthandana kusemhlabeni wethu wanamuhla, futhi kukhona amadoda abathandanayo kakhulu, kodwa awaningi kakhulu. Konke okufanayo, ukuthandana ngokwemibono yamadoda wanamuhla, kuhlobene eduze kocansi. Indoda izakwazisa isidlo sothando ngekhandlela futhi izomkhumbula kuphela uma konke kuphela ngocansi. Lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ungalindeli umuntu ukuba ahloniphe isibhakabhaka esinezinkanyezi, uma ngemuva kwalokho ungenzi uthando ngaphansi kwalezi zinkanyezi. Ngokusho kwamadoda, ngumthunzi wezocansi, okhulayo owenza umcimbi othandekayo. Cishe wonke umuntu uzocabangela ukuthandana njengobulili ogwini lolwandle noma emfuleni, ubulili ngesimo esibi kakhulu, isibonelo, e-elevator, ogwini, epakini. Lokhu kufanele kukhunjulwe ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngoba laba besifazane bangamaqiniso angcolile, futhi kumuntu umbala wothando womcimbi awunakwenzeka ngaphandle kombala wezocansi.
Uma umuntu wakho engekho othandana naye, udinga ukumcindezela kuwo unobtrusively. Ungathatha isinyathelo ngokwakho futhi uhlele isidlo sokuthandana ngokukhanyisa amakhandlela noma ukuhamba olwandle olwandle, noma ipikiniki phakathi kwensimu yekolweni, futhi uqedele lo mcimbi ngezocansi ezinhle. Khona-ke ungabonisa indoda yakho ukuthi uzojabula kakhulu uma ethatha isinyathelo futhi ekwenzele izinto ezimangazayo, wanikeza izimbali kaningi, ukuhlwa ebusuku okuhlelekile. Kuzo zonke izenzo zothando, noma ngabe kwakungeyona into enhle futhi ekhethekile, indoda kufanele ikhuthazwe, idunyiswe futhi igcinwe isikhumbuze ukuthi imnandi kangakanani kuwe futhi yenza ujabule. Indoda ekuthandayo iyofuna ngempela ukukujabulisa, njalo ngangokunokwenzeka, uma ubona kubaluleke kangakanani kuwe, nokuthi izenzo zakhe zothando zithinta kakhulu ubuhlobo bakho.
Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi amadoda angaqondi lutho, khona-ke kuzodingeka utshele othandekayo wakho ngokushesha ukuthi ngaphandle kokuthandana awukwazi, ukuthi ngaphandle kwakhe ubuhlobo bakho buba buhlungu, futhi ngokuvamile, uthando lwakho luyisidingo esibalulekile. Indoda enjalo idinga ukuchaza ngqo ukuthi ingabonisa kanjani uthando, mtshele konke ofuna ukuthi akwenzele khona. Ngitshele ngokuqondile, okubalulekile kuwe futhi udinga ukuthola izimbali kulo hhayi ngamaholide, kodwa ngenxa yalokho, amathoyizi athambile, amakhadikhadi adumile, njll. Ngokuvamile, kufanele uchaze ukuthi yiziphi izenzo zothando ezisekuqondeni kwakho. Lokhu kungaba nomthelela omkhulu, ngoba indoda yakho ayikwazi ngisho nokuqagela ukuthi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.