Kungani lokhu kuyadingeka?
Ngabantwana abangayazi imithetho yokuziphatha, kungaba nezinkinga ezinkulu. Ngisho nezinganekwane zixwayisa ngalokhu! Uyakhumbula ukuthi uMashenka ovela "Ezintathu Zobunzima" wasondela kanjani enkingeni ngoba wayengazi ukuthi aziphathe kanjani endlini yomunye umuntu? Yebo, futhi uNeznayka owaziwayo ngenxa yokungahambisani nemithetho eyisisekelo yokuzikhethela ivame ukungena. Futhi kuthiwani ngamaqhawe "Amabhunga Amabi" Grigory Oster? Ngokuqinisekile ngemva kokufunda lezi zincwadi, indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho encane yenza iziphetho ezifanele. Nokho, lokhu akwanele! Nsuku zonke badinga ukulungiswa ngomkhuba. Kuhle uma kwenzeka enkampanini yabangane nabazali babo (ngesibonelo sabantwana abadala, kulula ukuba wonke umuntu afunde!). Kodwa ekhaya nomama nobaba ungakwazi ukuzijayeza.
Imidlalo yezempofu
Khumbula amazwi amahle ingane ayisiza emidlalweni, futhi eyaziwa isikhathi eside ... uma ihlelwe kancane.
"Amazwi"
Abahlanganyeli bomdlalo baphinde bakhulume nanoma yimaphi amagama omlingo. Lowo onolwazi lwakhe uzophela.
"Dunno"
Thatha idoli, ibhere noma u-hare futhi udlale ngaphambi kwengane isikhala lapho isithoyizi senza okubi (angazi ukuthi siziphathe kanjani kudokotela, esitolo, etafuleni). Vumela umntwana azame ukulungisa amaphutha!
Kusuka kumqondo wokuzijayeza
Yiqiniso, kuhle ukufunda ngomdlalo. Kodwa ukuze kuhlanganiswe lolu lwazi, izimo ezithile ziyadingeka. Sinikeza ukulungiselela futhi ... ukudala kubo! Tshela ukuziphatha lapho udla. Yenza ngendlela yezinkondlo - khumbula kangcono! Ngemuva kwengxenye enjalo yezinkolelo, hlela isidlo sakusihlwa ngokwemithetho yonke (ngesikhathi esifanayo bese ukhonza itafula lomntwana uzofunda!). Uyomangala kakhulu ngendlela yomntwana! Ngaphambi kokuya egalari yobuciko, ukuya embukisweni, uchaza ukuthi ungeke ugijime ezindaweni zomphakathi, ukhulume ngokuzwakalayo, amaphuzu amaphuzu embukisweni, i-yawn. Ungangeni ebhasini, i-minibus ene-backpack, isikhwama emahlombe akho, ukuze ungalimazi abanye abagibeli. Izinkondlo zifundwa ngenhliziyo, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izikhukhula zikhohlwa, lokhu noma umthetho wokuziphatha? Yiba nomusa futhi ... yenza okudingekayo, yisho igama lomlingo ngokwalo! Kuphela, sicela, ubaleke ukuphawula ngobuntu bomntwana. Imikhuba emihle yengane yakho iyoba neningi lapho ekhula ngokuphelele. Futhi yingakho okwamanje edinga ukukhuliswa kwakho okuningi. Phela, izingane zivame ukufunda okuthile okungcono, ngaphezu kwezinye izingane ezisencane, ngakho-ke uma ufundisa iziqu zokuziphatha okwamanje, uzothola okuningi kulo. Fundisa ingane ukuthi ikhulume kahle, ungalokothi uphinde ubuye nabantu abadala, uthande futhi uhloniphe abantu asebekhulile, basize futhi uxoxe ngezihlobo nabantu abadala. Khona-ke ingane izokhula futhi ikutshele okukhethekile ukuthi ngiyabonga. Siyabonga ngothando nokuqonda.