Abantu abaningi bayazi ukuthi ingane kufanele ikhunjulwe, igxile futhi ihlonishwe. Yebo, akekho nolwazi lwaleso cala, iningi labantu abafuna ukuhlala libonisa uthando lwabo ngalesi simangaliso esincane sokukhwaza. Umama intuitively ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka nengane yakhe, ube mnene futhi uzwele naye. Futhi uyakwenza ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukuthi ukuthinta ingane akuyona nje injabulo kuphela, kodwa futhi kuletha izinzuzo ezibonakalayo ekuhlakanipheni nasezempilo.
Ingane yazalwa!
Wenzani umama? Izingane ezincane zifakwa esiswini sikamama, zivunyelwe ukuba zibambe isifuba somama. Ukunakekela umntwana ngosizo lokuthinta kukuvumela ukuba uzizwe uthandane nothando lwakho. Umama uthinta futhi abukeka emehlweni omntanakhe, ezama ukuyibuka kahle, ukumbumbana nokushaya. Ngolimi lwesayensi, lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukubopha. Emqondweni wengane kukhona inqubo yokuthatha isithombe somama, ingane ikhumbula indlela ibukeka ngayo, indlela ehlabayo, futhi ebaluleke kakhulu - iyaqonda ukuthi emva kokucindezeleka okuzalwa kokuzalwa akekho owamshiya, eduze noMama, nakho konke kuyokwenza kahle. Kwenzekani kumama? Ukuxhumana okuqinile ngokomzwelo kusungulwa phakathi kwalo nomntwana. Ubuchopho besifazane buthola isibonakaliso sokuthi "uqale" ukuncelisa, isisulu sokubeletha siqala ukusebenza. Futhi elinye iphuzu elibalulekile: ingane izalwa yinyumba elula, lapho umama ethinta okokuqala, uyinika amabhaktheriya ayo anenzuzo.
Wenzani umama? Ugeza, uguqisa izingubo, udla, udlala ama-gymnastics ngemvuthu, ahlambalaza, ahlabelela i-lullaby ... Nsuku zonke Umama wenza izinyathelo ezifanayo zokunakekela ingane. Ngolwazi lwesayensi, izinyanga ezintathu zokuqala kwengane emva kokuzalwa kuthiwa yi-trimester yesine, futhi isikhathi sonke ngaphambi kokuzalwa kokuqala kwengane yinkathi lapho ingane idinga ukunakekelwa okuphezulu kanye nothando. Ukuzalwa komuntu kuzalwe emhlabeni wonke ngokuphelele futhi ngaphandle komama ngeke nje aphile. Futhi njengoba ukuzwa kanye nombono wengane kungakapheli amandla, umzimba onembile kakhulu futhi onokwethenjelwa wokuthola ulwazi ... isikhumba. Ingane isabela ngokuthinta ukuthinta umzimba wayo, uma ithembekile futhi inakekela - ingane ifunda: bayangithanda, konke kulungile. Ukuthinta okunzima, njengokungabikho okuphelele, mahora, ngikhulume ngokuphambene futhi angithinti nje kuphela ingqondo yengane, kodwa futhi nesimo sakhe somzimba - kuze kube yilapho kuguqulwa ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo. Ukunakekela ingane ngosizo lokuthinta kwenza umntwana abe nomuzwa wokuvikelwa.
Uphi amapeni ethu ...
Wenzani umama? Ukushisa. Kuhambisana nomama othobekile phezu kwengane, enakekela ingane ngosizo lokuthinta, okwenza ukuba amomotheka. Ngolwazi lwesayensi, ukuncelisa i-panacea yezifo eziningi. Usiza umntwana ukuba afunde ngokushesha ngomzimba wakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ama-exercises amakhono amakhono amancane (ukusikhipha iminwe yemilenze emincane kanye nezimbambo) kufakwe ukusikhipha. Uma umama ephunga iminwe yomntwana, amangqamuzana omzimba anikezwa izimpawu ezingxenyeni zobuchopho obangela ukukhulumisana kwenkulumo yengane.
Kubalulekile futhi kuyadingeka
Uma kuziwa emntwaneni, yonke into encane ibalulekile. Ngokuba imvuthu ene-hypersensitivity yayo-konke kubalulekile ngokulinganayo. Ngifuna ingane ukuba ingazizwa imizwa engathandeki ngenxa yokuthi bayigqoke? Yenza okuthandayo kwimikhiqizo yekhwalithi. Ngeke kube khona ukuyekethisa, kungcono ukusindisa kwenye into, kodwa "isendlalelo sokuqala" - othinta isikhumba somntwana - kufanele kube kuhle: ithambekele ekuthinteni, uvumele umoya ungangeni, ungavimbeli ukunyakaza, okungabangela inkathazo ngenxa yemibimbi futhi ihlanganisa, ukunikeza isikhumba sethemba umuzwa wokuhlanzeka nokuma ...