Utshwala
Kanye nokulutha kwezidakamizwa, lokhu kuyisifiso esiyingozi kunazo zonke, sinamandla okubulala umuntu kukho konke, futhi uphoqelekile ukuba uzisole ngokudabukisayo ukuthi uma uhlobanise ikusasa lakho ngophuzo oludakayo. Kodwa ukuletha indaba kuleso simo akufanelekile. Yini okufanele uyenze?
1. "Bamba" inkampani umuntu aphuza utshwala. Kuzodingeka ukhiphe konke ukuhlakanipha kwakho kwabesifazane, ukuze - okokuqala - ukuba ubeke ezinye izinto, ngakho-ke wayengekho isikhathi sokudakwa, futhi okwesibili - ukumphoqelela ukuba ashiye "abangane" abathatha ukufuya kaningi ngaphezu kwesifuba kanye ngesonto. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukuphuza ngokweqile ubhiya akuphephile nakakhulu kunewayini noma i-vodka. Ibhodlela lezinyosi yansuku zonke yisinyathelo sokuqala sokulutha umlutha, esiza kakhulu kunomlutha weziphuzo ezinamandla.
2. Ukuphuza ngokweqile kuyisifo sokuziphendulela, ukwesaba, ukunganeliseki nokuphila. "Dug" ekubambeni izimbangela zesifiso sokuthi "uphumule futhi ukhohlwe", zama ukuqeda. Ngokuvamile zihlobene nokuhluleka emsebenzini, emndenini nasembhedeni.
3. Ukuphuza ngokweqile njengesifo esiyingqayizivele yindabakwane. Ungakholelwa! Ifa lingadluliselwa kuphela kulezo zici zobunjwa obenza oshade naye aphele futhi aphuze. Lolu lwazi kufanele lulethwe kulabo abathandekayo uma eqinisekisa ukuthi uyaphuza, ngoba unina akazange alale ngaphandle kwesabelo esihle se-potion, futhi ubaba akazange amile izinyanga.
4. Ungafungi nhlobo naye - akusizi ngalutho! Zama ukukhohlisa, ukukholisa, ekugcineni, ukusongela. Ngenye indlela, akunakwenzeka ukuqeda lesi simkhuba esiyingozi kakhulu samadoda.
Umkhuba "wokuhamba kwesokunxele"
Uma umkhuba onjalo awusiwo ngempela, kodwa kubonakala kuwe ukuthi umyeni ulele futhi ubona ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani, akeke uhlele izigcawu ngezinsongo, kwenzekani uma yena, uNkulunkulu engavumeli ... Amadoda ashukumisa izinto ezinjalo lezo zikhathi lapho kufanele zibuke khona, "kuyoba yini", kwakubhekwa njengendaba yodumo lwesilisa. Uma kwenzeka kuqala, zama ukumchazela ukuthi akusijabulisi kangakanani, kungani, futhi yimiphi imicabango "embi" oyithola "ekuhambeni" kwakhe. Ungakhathazeki: hamba naye nomaphi lapho unga khona, ngaphansi kwanoma yisiphi isizathu esicacile. Ungalungiseleli amaqembu amaningi asezinkukhu nabangani abangashadile ekhaya - kungani bathula "owesilisa" esilingweni? Ngokuvamile udlala ngothando nomyeni wakhe - nazo zonke amahlaya, amahlaya kanye "namaqhinga wesifazane", ukuze angazizwa ukuhlakanipha kwakhe ukuzingela "ku-prikole". Endabeni yalo mkhuba, izigcawu ezimbalwa, zingcono. U-Skalki ezandleni zendodakazikazi ehlangana nombukeli emnyango ekupheleni kobusuku, "yenza" kuphela ngochungechunge lwamahlaya.
Umdlalo nokulutha komshini
Isijeziso sesikhathi sethu: le ndoda ibuya emsebenzini futhi ihlezi phansi kukhompyutha. Uhlobo lokudakwa ngokweqile kulabo abafuni ukuphuza ". Isenzo sokuthembela kwekhompyutheni silinganiswa nomphumela wokuphuza utshwala: lokhu kungenye yemikhuba eyingozi kakhulu yamadoda. Kungani benza lokhu? Ukuze "unqamule" kusuka eqinisweni elizungezile, zihlukanise nezinkinga, ukukhathazeka, ukungavikeleki, ukunganeliseki nokuphila. Qala ngeqiniso ukuthi uvame ukuthatha ikhompyutha yakho: bheka imiyalelo, iseluleko sokukhulisa izingane, njll. - beza nganoma yisiphi isizathu sokuphulukisa ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo "kokudla kwikhompuyutha - iphupho." "Sebenza" nomdlali oyidingayo, njengengane: ungavumeli, futhi ushintshe ukunakwa. Ngokuvamile hamba nomdlali wegeyimu emoyeni omusha - izazi zengqondo ziqaphele: abagembula - abagijimi bezingcingo bazulazula ezitaladini, bajabule enkampanini, baphume "abangenalutho". Ingabe kubi ukwenza ubusuku bakho nomthandi wakho? Khumbula kuphela ukuthi ikhomishini kufanele igcinwe endleleni - "ukudonsa" kuyo kuyoba cishe engenakwenzeka.
Ukubhema
Uma umuntu engaphansi kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu, kulula ukumsusa ekubhemeni. Yiqiniso, uma ungabhemi, futhi ngomuntu othandekayo, ukucabanga ukuthi kuveza kuwe kuyabiza. Iphunga lamatshe libukhali - futhi inkulumo yakho ecacile mayelana nokuthi awujabuli kanjani uzizwa iphunga ekhaya, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu kakhulu ezindebeni zakho, kungaba nomphumela walo. Khumbula umgomo oyinhloko wokubhekana nalesi siko: umuntu ongavamile oqondayo uyaqonda "amacebo", kodwa lapha, nakakhulu, tshela ngokuqondile lokho okufunayo kuye nokuthi kungani.
Izindlela zokusiza ukuyeka ukubhema, hhayi ngaphansi kweshumi nambili. Indlela ephumelelayo - ukunciphisa inani lagwayi ukuze ekugcineni lishiye ngokuphelele. Abaningi bayeka ukubhema ngobusuku bonke: izinsuku ezintathu kuya kwezinsuku zokuphuka futhi, njengoba bethi, "mahhala". Kuyoba nesifiso - kubalulekile nje!
Imikhuba yasendlini
Lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi: imikhuba eyingozi kunazo zonke futhi enengekayo yamadoda athola abesifazane besuka kubo. Hlalani ngezwi elibi eshaweni, thola izipikili, niqale, nitshengise ukukhangisa, niyala wonke umuntu, nihlale ngamahora endlini yangasese, nidle ebusuku, nikhala ngezwi elibi ngenkathi nibheka ibhola, nibhala ngasese endlini yangasese kanye neminye imikhuba esibheka ngayo abesifazane ukungathembeki kanye "nobubi." Nalapha futhi, ehlakazekile emasokisi asendlini kubonakala sengathi i-prank yesilisa engenacala ... Eqinisweni, ngamasokisi angakwazi ukulwa - futhi nazo zonke ezinye imikhuba efanayo akunakwenzeka ukusebenza. Ziyizithelo zemfundo endlini yabazali, eqinisweni igcwele ubisi lomama. Kufanele babuyisane. Futhi futhi: amadoda ayenaso njalo umsebenzi wokubonakala nokuziphatha "kahle" - ahlukile! Ekugcineni, kungaphinde kuthukuthele umkhuba wakho wokukhuluma, kuyilapho uhambisa izipikili zakho. Noma isifiso sakho sokususa umbhede ngesikhathi avuka kuphela okwesibili ukuze afike endlini yangasese.