U-Jolie, ngenxa yalolu daba, uyingozi nakwabesifazane - akafihleli ubulili bakhe. Uhlehlisiwe ngokungenakwenzeka, kodwa, okwesibili, akayikuhlehlisa. Indaba ejabulisayo kaBrad Pitt no-Angelina Jolie izositshela okuningi, okuthakazelisayo kakhulu ...
UJolie lo mfana wayezizonda, uJolie lona wesifazane uhlale enganelisekile yena. U-Angie oneminyaka engu-15 uthembise ukuthi uzokhula nomphakathi omubi futhi engozini yengqondo - wachaza amakhekhe kanye neziphambano ezincwadini zokufunda esikoleni, amakhiwe aqoqiwe futhi wafaka umzimba wakhe ngaphandle. Ngesikhathi sika-Angelinin, ukoma kwegazi akuzange kuphele - emshadweni nomyeni wakhe wokuqala, umlingisi uJohn Lee Lee Miller, umakoti wabonakala phezulu e-tank phezulu lapho ebeka khona igama lomkakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Ngomngane wesibili wokuphila, inzalo efanayo uBilly Bob Thornton, bathengisa amabhodlela ngegazi labo ngesikhathi somshado. Ukukhathalela ngomndeni omkhulu akuzange kushukumise ukuqhutshwa kwentsha esikhathini esidlule: indodana yabo endala, uMaddox oneminyaka engu-9 ubudala, u-Jolie usuvele uthenga imimese yokuqala.
Kusuka "emlandweni wezokwelapha" ofanayo - isifiso sikaJolie kumidwebo: manje unezinhlobo ezingaphezu kweshumi nambili, imithombo ehlukene ibonisa inombolo yabo ehlukene, ngoba umlingisi ususa njalo izithombe ezithile futhi wenza izintsha. Ngempela, lo mzimba ungafunda njengencwadi, kodwa kuphela uma umnikazi wayo evumela.
Siphinde siphumule emgodini ongabonakali ukuthi u-Angelina uvikela impilo yakhe yangempela endabeni kaBrad Pitt no-Angelina Jolie: ama-scandal kanye nama-hysterics - ebusweni, eqhuma kuwo wonke amathebhu; izizathu zabo zangempela - ejulile phansi echibini elimnyama, eligcwele idwala lokuthembeka. Ukuzilimaza nokuthambekela kwe-sadomasochism, ukulutha izidakamizwa nokuphuza utshwala, imizamo yokuzibulala eyinkimbinkimbi (ekuqaleni komsebenzi wakhe, lo mdlali weqhawe waze waqasha umbulali, wamyala yena, kodwa wakwazi ukumvimbela) - eHollywood baya emitholampilo yengqondo futhi hhayi ngezimbali ezinjalo , kodwa uJolie akaqiniseki. Angakwazi ukulahlekelwa ingqondo yakhe, kodwa hhayi ubuso bakhe. Ngemuva kokuhlukana kwakhe noBilly Bob Thornton, wonke umuntu wayazi ukuthi manje ikati lethu lesifazane liyashintsha abathandi abafana namagilavu, kodwa akekho owazi lezi glavu ngamagama azo: UJolie wahlangana ngasese ngezinkanuko zakhe, emahhotela ashibhile ngaphandle. Kungani? Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi impilo yengane esanda kutholwa ayihlaselwe ngabangaphandle.
UPapa Angie, umlingisi we-Oscar uJohn Voight, washiya unina lapho intombazane iseseyincane, kodwa iyanqanda. Ezingqondweni zakhe eziningi, umlingisi ubeka uyise icala, futhi, eqinisweni, wayengafuni ukuthi ingane yakhe yenze kanjalo-mvumele angabi nobaba nhlobo, uJolie wanquma. Ngandlela-thile, ngenye indlela ukhulume ngokuthi waqala ukwamukela izingane, hhayi ukuzala, futhi ngoba wayengafuni ukuqhubeka kwezakhi zofuzo zikayise. Ukuzalwa kwezinsana zabo kusuka kumuntu othandekayo kwakuyisinyathelo sokuqala ekutholeni ukamukelwa "kwengxenye" kababa - kubonakala sengathi u-Angelina wayezonda lapho ezinikela ekuziphatheni okwenziwe ngokuzikhandla.
Kusukela ezindabeni eziphathelene nombhangqwana uJolie - Pitt, yiziphi izintatheli ezivumile "uBrandelina", aziphefumuli - azikho ngaphansi kwezindaba mayelana nemisebenzi ka-Angelina njengenxusa lokuthokoza leZizwe Ezihlangene. Ekuqaleni konyaka, kwakudingeka baphikisane namahemuhemu alandelayo mayelana nokuqedwa kobudlelwano. Bese-mayelana nokukhulelwa kuka-Angelina okusha. Ekugcineni, kwaziwa ukuthi laba basekeli abashisekayo bemishado yomshado bathi banquma ukuhlela umshado ukujabulisa izingane. Buka lokhu okuthakazelisayo, ngokuqondene nochungechunge oluthandayo. Kuyathakazelisa ngokufanayo ukuzama ukuqonda okwenzekayo ngempela.
U-Angelina, bathi ukuphila komkhaya wakho kuyisiphepho esiqhubekayo. Nakuba, kubonakala sengathi, kahle, yini oyidingayo nomyeni wakho ukuze uthole i-idyll ethule? Mhlawumbe, kwakusungulwe ngaphambili kusukela ekuqaleni. Mane ukhumbule, ngesethi ye-movie, mina noBrad sahlangana! Ngoba ubudlelwane obuphakathi kukaMnu noMnu Smith, nabo, bebengekho bushelelezi kakhulu. Nakuba, ngiyavuma, empilweni yethu yangempela asigijimi emva kwezikhali. Kodwa ushaya amapulethi?
Hhayi ngaphandle kwalo. Kodwa akuyona iphutha likaBrad. Ukuphila kwami konke kuyinkimbinkimbi. Mhlawumbe, okuthile okujulile kimi kujulile okungavuli ukuphumula. Futhi awuzange uzame ukuthola ukuthi kuyini? Cishe, isizathu sisebusheni bami. Ubaba washiya umama ngisemncane kakhulu futhi umama wasikhulisa nomfowabo wedwa. Kodwa ngeke kube kubi kakhulu, ngoba izigidi zabesifazane emhlabeni zikhulisa izingane ngokwabo. Mina ngokwami ngakhulisa ngaphambi kokuba uPitt abonakale empilweni yami. Kodwa ngabona ukuthi ubaba wayisebenzisa kanjani umama, ukuziphatha kwakhe, ukwazi kwakhe, nokuphila kwakhe konke. Kungcono uma ehamba ngaleso sikhathi! Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, ngiye ngaba nesifo sokuzethemba. Noma ubani - impahla, ingqondo noma ngokomzwelo. Ngakho-ke, angikaze ngizizwe ngizolile futhi ngivikelekile. Kungani lokhu kubangela ubudlelwane obunjalo obumpofu nomakhelwane?
Nginomuzwa wokuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngizizwa mina nomlingani wami, ngifunde ngezinga elingakanani engingazihlola yona nami? Uphi iphuzu lokubilisa? Kuzoze kube nini? Kungani udinga lokhu?
Angikwenzi ngokuqaphela. Kufana nomqondo wami ongaqondakali udinga ukuqinisekiswa kweqiniso engikufundile - akukho lutho oluhlala phakade, akukho okuthenjelwayo. Futhi ngokushesha nje lapho ngiletha ubuhlobo endaweni efanayo yokubilisa, futhi ziqhuma, ngivele ngithule futhi ngithi kimi: "Awu, ngikutshele! Ngangazi! "
Ngicabanga ukuthi, ngeshwa, uwedlule owesifazane kuphela oziphatha ngale ndlela! Yingakho angifihli isimo sami. Ngifanele ngikhulume ngalokhu ngokucacile ukuze abanye besifazane abahlukunyezwe ngokwengqondo efanayo bangakwazi ukuziqhathanisa nami bese bebona ngokungazelelwe ukuthi abodwa bodwa enkingeni yabo nokuthi konke kungalungiswa. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthola nokuqonda isizathu esenza ungakhathazeki ngomoya ozolile, obonakala sengathi ukhona. Yeka ukuthi kuyingozi kangakanani le nkinga, ngaphandle kokuthi kukubiza wena nabanye besifazane ubuhlobo nabathandekayo bakho?
Lesi isimo esilimazayo. Okokuqala, uzibhubhisa wena, bese kuthi labo abaseduze nawe. Kodwa-ke, ufuna iphuzu lokubilisa hhayi kuphela ebuhlotsheni bakho nabesilisa, kodwa futhi ekukhulumisaneni nomshicileli nabalandeli bakho. Isibonelo, ingabe udinga ngempela ukuvuma ukuthi ngesikhathi esisodwa wazama zonke izidakamizwa ezaziwayo emhlabeni?
Angikaze ngenze okulindelwe kimi! Ngokuphambene nalokho. Ngakho-ke, ngavikelwa emathonyeni angaphandle. Njengangathi izwi elingaphakathi lingihlambalaza: "Yebo, ulindele lokhu kimi? Futhi lapha unesiphambano. " Futhi konke lokhu okulindelwe kimi kungaphezu kokuxhaphazwa. Ukuphela kwami konke kuvukela kulokhu. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ebusheni bakho wawuthanda kakhulu izimfundiso zikaMackebe, inkolelo yegazi. Bathatha izinyembezi kanye nabo ukuba balale, futhi lapho beshada nomyeni wokuqala, babhala igama labo ekhanda labo elimhlophe, ababesigqoke ngalo mkhosi. Lapho beshada okwesibili, baxosha i-vial yegazi lakhe entanyeni yakhe. Utholephi lokhu? Kunzima ukusho ukuthi konke kuvela kuphi. Kodwa empilweni yethu, njengokwengqondo yethu, konke kuhlangene.
Futhi uma ubona ukuzijabulisa okunjalo phakathi kwezingane zakho, uzosabela kanjani? Kubonakala kimi ukuthi ukuqhutshwa komqondo, ukuthakazelisa empilweni ethile yezwe noma ezinhlangothini zayo ezingaziwa, kuyinto evamile kubo bonke abasha. Bazama njalo ukufunda okuthile okusha nokungajwayelekile, ukuzihlola bona nabanye. Futhi ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi abantwana bami ngeke babe okuhlukile. Bazoqala ukuhlolwa. Kungenye indaba ukuthi ngizokuqapha ngokucophelela izinto ezizilibazisa bese ngizama ukuzigcina zingakapheli. Uma ingane iqala ukubandakanyeka kakhulu ezintweni ezingasetshenziswa empeleni, kufanele ziphazamiseke ngenye into, yangempela. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuphazamisa. Kulesi simo, wena ngokwakho ulahlekelwe okuthile. Futhi angilutho. Ngezinye izikhathi ngesaba, ngicabanga ngesikhathi lapho izingane zami zizokhula khona, futhi njengabo bonke abasha emhlabeni, ngolunye usuku luzovukela thina - abazali. Futhi kholwa kimi, ngokuqinisekile bayothola okuthile okuzosilahla! Mhlawumbe lezi kuzoba yizindima zethu, lapho sigijima esikrinini ngezikhali futhi sidubula kubantu, futhi mhlawumbe bazobe namahloni ngamathambo ami. Kungenzeka ukuthi bazosihlambalaza ngokuba nezithuthuthu nezindiza. Lesi sikhathi asinakugwenywa! Kodwa kuze kube manje bancane. Kakade manje uZee wethu uthanda kakhulu, lapho ubaba wakhe eqala ukudansa. Khona-ke uyakhala futhi akhala aze ayeke. Futhi mina ngokwami ngezikhathi ezinjalo ngifuna ukuhleka, noma ngikhale. Ukukhuluma ngezingane. Usuvele unezinyanga eziyisithupha, kodwa uhlela ukwamukela okunye. Akunzima kuwe?
Umama ngamunye wezingane eziningi uzovuma nami ukuthi ubunzima buyanda kuphela kumntwana wesithathu. Ngemva kokuqala ukwehla. Umehluko omkhulu uzwakala phakathi kwezingane ezintathu, kodwa uma unezinyanga ezine noma eziyisithupha - sekuphelile. Ikakhulukazi kusukela indodana endala isivele ineminyaka enjalo ukuthi ingangisiza nginakekele izingane. Ngokushesha indodakazi endala izokhula. Awucabangi ukuthi ngale ndlela ubaphuca ubuntwana obungakhathazeki?
Kusobala ukuthi angibaphili injabulo noma umsebenzi ovelele eminyakeni yabo. Uma abadala bengizongisiza ukuba banakekele omncane, bahlakulela umqondo wemfanelo kwabanye. Yilo kanye umuzwa okwenza umuntu abe omdala. Ngakho-ke, kuzobazuzisa kuphela uma leyo mfanelo iqala ekuseni. Ngoba baphinde balandela - ukuzibophezela ngokwabo nezenzo zabo siqu! Futhi wonke umama ufisa lezi zimfanelo kumntanakhe. Ngempela, ingane eyinikezwayo cishe ayikho inkampani engalungile noma yenza isinyathelo sokukhwabanisa. Zonke izingane zakho zazalwa emazweni ahlukene. Uphi ingane yakho yokugcina ehlala kuyo? Ukusuka eHaiti. Ngahlela ukutholwa esikhathini esidlule, futhi ukuzamazama komhlaba kwakamuva kwakuyisibonakaliso esivela phezulu. Uma usho ukuthi ngokubeka umgomo, wazama ukuyifinyelela kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini. Kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho befeze lokho ababekufunayo, balahlekelwa isithakazelo kuso. Wake wacabanga ukuthi ukwamukelwa kokutholwa komntwana kuyisimo se-aria esivela ku-opera efanayo? Yebo, wena! Ngingalahlekelwa kanjani isithakazelo ezinganeni zami?
Akukhona lokho engangisho. Kodwa kungani nje emva kokuthola ingane eyodwa, ingabe ulapha, ingabe ulungiselela ukutholwa kwesilandelayo?
Ngoba kuphela embuthanweni womndeni wami omkhulu ngizizwa ngiqiniseka. Ngabantwana kuphela engingakwazi ukuphumula. Abangilalisi, futhi ngeke bangikhaphe. Kwakungeyena mina owabazuzisa, ngithatha ezimweni ezimbi lapho ayehloselwe ukukhula khona, futhi angisindise ekubeni nesizungu nakuye. Siyiqembu elilodwa elikhulu elinobungane nabo futhi sonke silungele ukuthola elinye ilungu. Njengoba sinezingxoxo zesifazane ezinjalo ezingenangqondo, singakubuza okuningi ngalokhu. Njengoba usubelethe izingane ezintathu eziphilayo zakho, awusesabi yini ukuthi imizwa yabo kanye nabamukelayo izohluka?
Konke okuzungezile lokhu kuwukuthi cishe. Futhi okuningi kangangokuthi sengivele ngiqala ukucabanga: "Ingabe kukhona umehluko onjalo?" Kodwa uma ikhona ngempela, khona-ke imbangela yayo ayikho nhlobo engingumama ophilayo, kodwa kungubani-hhayi. Ngokwesibonelo, izingane zami ezimbili ezindala zafika kimi ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ubudala. Okungukuthi, ngaphambi kokuba babe nokuphila kwabo, futhi basuke bengenaswidi. Cabanga ngendoda eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala isivele ine "esidlule". Ngesikhathi abancane bami beqala ukuhlala nami, babengenalo indaba ehlukile futhi, ngaphandle kwenjabulo, babengakaze bahlangane nakho. Ngakho-ke, uma ngesaba okuthile, khona-ke lokhu kuyinto engiyobe ngiyiyo, mhlawumbe, eshaqisayo kunabantwana abathandayo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, uMadd uyindodana yami endala, ozala izibulo, futhi sinobuhlobo obuseduze naye. Ngendlela, wena noBrad akazange nibhalise ngokomthetho umshado. Kungani?
Iqiniso liwukuthi sobabili sishadile ngokusemthethweni futhi sishadile. Sonke siyaqonda ukuthi akuyona i-autograph egcina abantu ndawonye. Akukho mqondo ebuhlotsheni obusemthethweni. Akekho omunye owakwazi ukugcina lokhu ndawonye. Kodwa izingane nothando - zizobamba!
Muva nje, lapho uxoxisana nomagazini owodwa, uthe ukuthembeka akuyona impoqo emndenini. Kanjani?
Ngasho ukuthi uma abantu beqala ukuhlala ndawonye, lokhu akusho ukuthi baboshwe omunye nomunye. Wonke umuntu ukhululekile ukuzikhethela. Kodwa uma ethanda futhi ehlonipha umndeni wakhe, ukukhetha kuzohlale kulungile. Ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi usenokuthula nobaba wakho. Yini eyathonya isinqumo sakho? Izingane zami. Kanjani? Babefuna ukubona umkhulu? Cha, akunjalo. Bangifundise ukuthethelela.