Yiqiniso, okokuqala, amadoda anesithakazelo ekubukeni. Ungazikhohlisi futhi uziqinisele ukuthi kumfana obaluleke kakhulu yizwe lakho elicebile ngaphakathi. Akunakusho ukuthi leli lizwi elingenalutho kubo, kepha uma behlola intombazane emgwaqweni, amadoda amaningi angacabangi ukuthi ubhala izinkondlo noma umuntu onomusa. Kodwa babheka nesithakazelo esikhulu emilenzeni nasesifuba.
Yingakho kufanele njalo ulungiswe kahle futhi ukhangele. Amantombazane athande uma owesifazane enesibalo. Ngaphandle kwezingubo zakho zezingubo zokugqoka nezigqoko ezinkulu. Zama ukugqoka izingubo kanye neziketi, ama-sweaters nama-jeans kufanele ngokugcizelele ukugcizelela isithunzi sakho futhi ufihle amaphutha. Futhi, ungalokothi ukhohlwe izithende. Bahlale benza imilenze yabo ibe yinto emincane, futhi i-gait - yesifazane. Ekukhetheni i-wardrobe, akufanele nanini uphonsa ekungcoleni nasekukhulumeni ngokweqile. Yiqiniso, ngalokhu ungathandayo umfana, kodwa ubusuku obulodwa kuphela. Izembatho kufanele zibe njengalezi. Ukuzwa ukusikisela okuncane kokungagwegwesi. Isibonelo, uma ugqoka i-sweatshirt ene-neckline, ungamgqoki isiketi esincane. Amashothikhathi amancane azobukeka nge T-shirt evalwe kahle.
Cishe bonke abantu abasha bayathanda uma amantombazane enenwele ende. Ngakho-ke, ukhetha izinwele, ungayeki ngesikhathi esifushane kakhulu. Yiqiniso, izinwele ezinde zidinga ukunakekelwa okufanele. Akekho othanda intombazane enothile, izinwele ezinombala ezinombala ekhanda lakhe. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuchitha isikhathi nemali kumasks ahlukahlukene, ama-creams, ama-shampoos, okuzokwenza ukuthi ukukhiya kwakho kuphile, kube mnandi futhi kukhanye.
Futhi, udinga ukusebenzisa izimonyo ezinhle, eziphezulu kakhulu. Thatha ukwakheka okulungile futhi uqiniseke ukuthi izithunzi azitshaliwe, futhi inkino ayifaki.
Yazi ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani izesekeli ezifanele. Isikhwama semfashini enhle, ubude, ubucwebe - konke kufanele kuhambisane nesithombe sakho sesifazane nesitayela.
Ngemuva kokuthi ungatshela ukuthi ubheka kahle, qhubeka empendulweni elandelayo yombuzo: ukuthi ungamthinta kanjani umfana nokuthi yini ayakuyilalela.
Manje ungakhuluma ngokuziphatha nokuthula kwangaphakathi. Khumbula ukuthi uma umfana ebheka ukubonakala kwakho, lokhu akusho ukuthi emaminithini ambalwa angeke adumale, ngemuva kokukhuluma nawe. Ukuziphatha kubaluleke kakhulu uma ufuna ukwenza umqondo omuhle. Bonke abesifazane bahlukile. Abanye babo bangabesifazane ngokwemvelo, kodwa ezinye zijwayele ukuziphatha komfana. Uma ungumuntu wesigaba sesibili, kuzodingeka uphinde ucabangele imikhuba yakho. Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukudlwengula njalo. Vele uqonde ukuthi nabangane ungaziphatha ngendlela othanda ngayo, kodwa ngomfana kufanele ube intombazane yangempela. Ngakho-ke, bukela ukunyakaza kwakho, indlela yokukhuluma, indlela ohleka ngayo. Ngeke uhlale uphazamise izingalo zakho, ukhulume kakhulu futhi uzwele, futhi uhleke kakhulu. Zama ukuzivimbela futhi ubuke konke okwenzayo. Yiqiniso, okokuqala kuyoba nzima, kodwa-ke uzoyifinyelela futhi uyeke ukucabanga ngakho. Futhi into eyodwa - ungalokothi uphuze kakhulu. Ngisho noma uke waba abangane nabafana yonke impilo yakho futhi uphuza ibhodlela likabhiya ngokushesha kakhulu, insizwa ayikwazi ngakho. Ngokuvamile, ungatsheli izindaba ezingakunciphisa. Masibe amahle kakhulu futhi njengomfana, emva kwabo cishe ngeke abone kuwe intombazane, kodwa umzalwane. Futhi ngisho ingaphandle ye-chic ayisizi lapha.
Esinye isici esidingekayo intombazane efuna ukunakekelwa ngamadoda yi-erudition. Ngokujwayelekile, abesilisa banakelela izinga lemfundo, isiko senkulumo yentombazane. Yiqiniso, akubalulekile kubo bonke abafana, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi uVasya, ngemfundo engaqediwe yezikole zokufundela, lokhu akuyona umkhawulo wamaphupho akho. Umfana ovamile uhlala ethanda ukukhuluma ngezincwadi, ubuciko, yaseshashalazini. Kungabonakala sengathi amadoda anesithakazelo kumakhompyutha nasezimotweni. Eqinisweni, lokhu akude neze. Intsha eningi iningi ifunda njalo, iya emicimbini yobuciko, inesithakazelo emikhiqizweni emisha yezemidlalo. Yingakho udinga ukwenza njalo imfundo yakho. Uma wazi ngokwengeziwe, kuzoba yingxoxo, intshisekelo kanye nenhlonipho. Ngendlela, amantombazane aqonda okuningi nakwezinto ezivame ukubhekwa njengamaduna, kubangele ukuthi abafana bajabule ngempela. Yiqiniso, ukwenza ukuthi uthande izimoto nemishini akufanelekile, kodwa uma lokho kukuthandayo, qiniseka ukukhuluma ngezinto ozilibazisa enkulumweni.
Owesifazane kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi abe yimfihlakalo. Ungalokothi ukhulume ngawe wonke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Yiqiniso, ukudlala i-puzzle ne-charades akuyona inketho, udinga nje ukwazi isilinganiso. Kunolwazi oluningi oludingeka luhanjiswe noma alukhulunywe ngisho nangalokhu. Ungalokothi utshele abantu abangajwayelekile mayelana nezinkinga zabo, izinkinga, umndeni, abangane. Kubalulekile ukwazi lomuntu ngaphambi kokuvula ngaphambi kwakhe. Kunezihloko eziningi ezithakazelisayo ezingezona ezizimele futhi ezifanelekile ukuxhumana okulula. Umculo, amafilimu, ezombangazwe, ekugcineni - lolu hlu luqhubekeka isikhathi eside kakhulu. Khetha kulokho okusebenza kangcono esimeni futhi uxhumane nempilo.
Amadoda enhle - leli yikhono eliye lavela kithi kusukela ebuntwaneni. Umbuzo kuphela ukuthi ngabe sikwazi ukuyisebenzisa noma siyifihle endaweni ethile kakhulu. Yingakho, akumelwe neze ukhohlwe ukuthi ungowesifazane. Omunye kufanele azame njalo ukuba ngumfazi wangempela, othembekile futhi oziqhenyayo, kodwa ungaphenduke waba umuntu ongobugovu futhi ongenasisekelo ofuna ukukhishwa ngamadoda. Amantombazane afuna ukusiza nokuvikela, kodwa ngeke azalise wonke ama-whims, yebo, uma engekho ama-spineless rags. Yingakho, kukho konke wazi isilinganiso futhi ulalele intuition yakho, khona-ke uzophumelela ngempela.