Esikhathini esidlule, babengabantu abafundela kakhulu abadlala ukudlala ngezinsimbi zomculo ezihlukahlukene, futhi izinga lokuthuthukiswa kwabo kanye ne-erudition bawavumela ukuba bajabulele nezingxoxo zabantu abanobuhlungu. Phela, ngisho no-Alexander Omkhulu wayenomngane wakhe wesifebe, uTais wase-Athene.
Ukuphothula iziqu emsebenzini wabo onzima nakho kwakukhona eRoma. Kwakukhona izigaba eziningi nezinhlobo zazo.
Ngakho babebuthakathaka futhi bafa.
Ukuthakazelisa kwakungabesifazane abanobubele futhi abathandekayo, bangaba yinzalo yemindeni ehloniphekile.
Okudumile - (kusukela eyaziwa igama elidumile) elidumile, lakhazinyuliswa futhi lihlabelelwa futhi likhona emikhosini yabamakhosi.
Ngisho nalabo abafundisikazi be-lupanari babephansi, bebiza amaklayenti abo ngokukhala okukhulu okufana nokukhala kwezilwane ezivela eceleni.
Kwabe sekukhona ama-bustuaries, base behamba ngamademoni, futhi eduze nezindawo zokugcoba nezindawo zangasese zasebenzisa izigulane, ezazingekho ukuphikisana okuncane. Kwakukhona nabakhulekeli ababehamba nabangane eduze nemigwaqo. Futhi esendleleni esezansi kunazo zonke kwakukhona ama-quadrants, angena ezinkambeni zamapennies, ngoba ayengamahloni kakhulu futhi awahle.
Njengokuba wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi isihloko sobufebe sithuthukisiwe kakhulu emdwebeni we-Renaissance. Ngoba imisebenzi eminingi yalezo zikhathi iqukethe abesifazane abashadile, ama-hot embraces embhedeni, njll.
Amadoda sonke lesi sikhathi sokungabi namthetho okungafanelekile ekukhethweni kwabalingani babo abakhokhele lesi sifo, abadlulisela kubafazi bawo abemthethweni.
Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi ngasekupheleni kweminyaka ye-1930 umbukiso wemibono ngesigamagama esadluliselwa e-United States: "Ngobusuku ngoMgqibelo ngumngane omkhulu we-syphilis". Ngakho-ke, ngo-1941, amantombazane amaningi aseNew York abanobuhle obuhle athunyelwa emakamu akhethekile, ukuze avikele amasosha aseMelika ezifweni ze-venereal.
Kodwa-ke, naphezu kwalombuzo: "Kungani umuntu ehamba nezifebe? "Futhi ihlala ivulekile. Ngenxa yokuthi baya kubo, baqhubeka behamba.
Futhi konke ngoba abalimi njalo banesici esingekho.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, likhona ngoba kunephesenti elinjalo labesifazane abangakwazi ukumelana nemithwalo yezocansi epholile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, le mithwalo ingadingeka ngumzimba ngokwawo, ongabonakala ngesikhathi sokubusa kukaCatherine ukwesibini, owayeyaziwa ukuthi ungu-libertine futhi washintsha abalingani bakhe abathandayo kuze kube sekupheleni kokuphila kwakhe.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isidingo sezinsizakalo ezinjalo sivela ngokuphathelene nemithetho yesayensi yezilwane.
Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi cishe bonke abantu baphendukela ezifebeni kusukela ngehora kuya ehoreni. Futhi ikakhulukazi amadoda angama-45-55 ubudala, nakuba angase aqale okuningi kakhulu.
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Noma kunjalo, amadoda ahamba nezindleko ezinjengalezi, ewacabangela ukuthi afaneleke ekuboneni kwengqondo. Ngokuba ubudlelwane obude badinga isikhathi esiningi, hhayi iqiniso lokuthi kusengenzeka. Ngokuba "ukulala embhedeni" ukusebenza kowesifazane wesimanje kunzima, futhi ukuxhumana nesifebe kudlula ngokushesha, futhi ngaphandle kwezinkinga.
Abantu abaningi babiza izifebe ze-psychotherapists. Futhi, mhlawumbe, lokhu kuyisizathu esiyinhloko sokuba kungani amadoda ehamba nezifebe.
Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuzwakala kanjani, kodwa kunjalo. Iqiniso liwukuthi cishe yonke insizwa yesine iyesaba ukuqala ubudlelwano bocansi nowesifazane. Endabeni yesifebe, akazizwa ehlazeka, ngisho noma kukhona ukulungiswa okuvamile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isifebe ngeke sihlekise umuntu uma i-ejaculation yakhe ingakafiki. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzojabula ngokuthi uzokwenza lo msebenzi ube lula ngaye. Kodwa-ke, amadoda amaningi ayenakho ukuzethemba amakhono abo futhi kulula ukukhokha.
Futhi, amanye amadoda akhetha ubulili bomlomo, akukona njengokukhathala njengesenzo esivamile. Futhi kulokhu akuyona into engavamile uma umfazi osemthethweni angamsiza kule ndaba. Uma isifebe sifeza kalula noma yikuphi ukucabanga okuvezwe nguye kumafilimu angcolile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngeke akhohlwe ukumdumisa futhi asho ukuthi yiyiphi epholile kunazo zonke, eyingqayizivele futhi eyiphundu okuyojabulisa ngempela indoda nokuthi akumangalisi, kodwa emva kokuba umuntu onjalo angaqiniseka futhi ayeke ukuphatha, ngoba uzoqiniseka emandleni akhe ukuphola okuvamile. Yingakho izifebe zihlobo oluthile lwezingqondo ze-psychotherapists ngomqondo wangempela wezwi.
Laba besifazane bayakwazi ukuqonda indoda ezifisweni zayo zocansi, ezingenakukwazi ukuziphendukela nabafazi babo nezintombi zabo. Lokhu kungukuthi, isifebe kulokhu kusebenza njengomlingani webhizinisi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, emazweni amaningi kunezinhlobonhlobo eziningi zezifebe, ngubani, ngaphezu komsebenzi wabo oyinhloko, enza ezinye izinto eziningi. Ngakho-ke, amaRomania aphinga ibhizinisi, esanda kuhamba kahle kakhulu, bazama ukuheha amaklayenti hhayi kuphela ngqo ngocansi, kodwa nakwezinye izinsizakalo zasendlini. Ngakho, ngaphandle kocansi, banikeza ukuhlanza indlu, ukupheka ukudla nezinye izinto ezihlupha amadoda angashadile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, zona ngokwazo zithi: "Aba (amadoda) bayavuma kakhulu le ndlela, ngoba bahlala bodwa futhi banesithakazelo ezintweni ezintathu: ubulili, ukuhlanza nokudla, futhi amantombazane ayajabula ukufeza lo msebenzi futhi asize ekuxazululeni izinkinga zabo."
Mhlawumbe lokhu kuyimpendulo yombuzo othi: "Kungani amadoda ehamba nezifebe? "Kungani? Phela, ngokubanzi, izifebe zingakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo eziningi uma zikhokhwa ngokwanele. Izixazululo ezinkingeni zamadoda - futhi kukhona impendulo, ukuthi kungani amadoda asezifebe ahamba, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi babizwa ngani.