Kunezindlela eziningana ezivela kule nkinga.
Indlela yokuqala.
Mhlawumbe ukuziphatha okuhle kakhulu kuwe kuyoba okulandelayo. Ungayigodli umyeni wakho, ungamgodli ngesihloko sokuthola umsebenzi omusha, ushiye konke okusemandleni akho. Yonke imali oyitholayo ukuyisebenzisa kuphela okudingekayo: wena, ingane, izingubo, ukuhamba kanye namakhemikhali emakhaya, ukukhokhela izinsiza.
Tshela umyeni wakho ukuthi usike amaholo emsebenzini, futhi imikhiqizo ezitolo isuke ibiza kakhulu. Ngokushesha "umyeni" wakho kanye "nhloko yomndeni" uzovuka kumuntu wakho futhi uzothola umsebenzi. Umqondo wemithwalo yemfanelo uzomenza asebenze. Uma lokhu kungeke kwenzeke, khona-ke uthola umuntu "onobuhle" okwamanje, awukwazi ukulungisa. Ungamthinta "ukusebenza" enkampanini kubangani, izihlobo.
Kulesi simo, akufanele uthukuthele, ngoba, ungazinikela wena nomntanakho, futhi kusukela kumyeni ngalesi simo akukho mqondo futhi ngeke ube khona.
Indlela yesibili.
Cabanga ngokuphinde unikeze izindima. Uma uhlakulela umsebenzi emsebenzini, uma ungumholi ngokwemvelo nakwehhovisi, phakathi "nezinkanuko nezinhloso" uzizwa "njengezinhlanzi emanzini," mhlawumbe kufanele uthathe indima yomama wendlu - umyeni? Futhi uhlala ungumthombo omkhulu wemali engenayo emndenini?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lesi simo sihambelane nomyeni wakho. Akuwona wonke umuntu ovuma ukuhlala ekhaya, ukukhulisa ingane nokupheka ukudla. Uma ubona umdlandla emehlweni enxenye yakho, khona-ke usendleleni efanele!
Lolu khetho luzoxazulula ngokushesha inkinga. Uma usalokhu uhlezi ukuhlala ekhaya futhi ukhathele umsebenzi wakho okhokhela kakhulu, ungadlala "kancane" nomyeni wakho. Buza isidlo esiphundu emva komsebenzi, ukuze indlu ihlanzeke, izinto zihlanjululwe, izifundo zezingane zibulawa, izilwane ezifuywayo zihlanzwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi indima enjalo "yowesifazane" ngeke imjabulise umyeni wayo futhi uzothola umsebenzi futhi abuyisele kuye "indima yomndeni".
Indlela yesithathu.
Uma yonke imizamo yokuthola umsebenzi ngumyeni wayo ayiphumelelanga, futhi wayenesifiso sokuthola umsebenzi ovamile, othakazelisayo nohloniphekile, msize! Buza azungeze nabangani, abantu obajwayele, izihlobo, mhlawumbe badinga abasebenzi emkhakheni wabo.
Akuyona iqiniso lokuthi okuthunyelwe kuzomthakazelisa kumyeni wakho, kodwa ekuqaleni ungavuma futhi umsebenzi olula. Kancane kancane, umuntu "uzongena" embusweni osebenzayo futhi athole isisombululo kule nkinga. Noma uzohlala kule nkampani ngethemba lokukhula komsebenzi kanye nemali ephakeme.
Indlela yesine.
Uma zonke izinkolelo zakho, ukuzama ukusiza kungatholi impendulo ekuziphatheni komyeni wakhe, kuyadingeka ukuthi usebenzise izindlela ezingathí sina. Mnike i-ultimatum: noma ngabe uthola umsebenzi, noma ukhuluma naye. Awuyena ihhashi lepakethe, ukuze uqhubeke nomntwana kanye nendoda endala.
Ngisho noma umyeni ehlala engenzi lutho futhi engenzi lutho, bese uqoqa izinto bese uhamba (noma umkhiphe ngaphandle). Ungowesifazane wesimanje futhi ophumelelayo onomsebenzi, imali engenayo futhi uzokwenza kahle ngaphandle komyeni "onobuhle". Musa nje ukuhlukanisa, umane nje "wesabe" indoda. Mhlawumbe lokhu kuzomsiza ukuba athole umsebenzi.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi indlela oyikhethayo, okubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuthi umyeni wakho usemdala futhi uyakwazi ukuzinakekela. Noma yikuphi ukukhathazeka komndeni kanye nokuphazamiseka kungase kube nakho, uma ngesineke nangokuqonda kubhekisela engxenyeni yesibili.