Yini okudingeka ukwenze ukuze wenze umfana akuhlangabezane nawe

Amadoda ayingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwethu okujabulisayo. Kunoma yikuphi ubudala esifuna ukubukeka sihle futhi sibheke ukunakwa kobulili obuhlukile. Kodwa uma othile ekwazi ukwenza lokhu kalula, amanye amantombazane kufanele enze imizamo ekhethekile yokujabulisa umfana. Isihloko sethu sithiwa "Yini okudingeka uyenze ukuze wenze umfana ahlangane nawe" - futhi kuhloswe kulawo maantombazane abangenalo ithemba kubo futhi abazi ukuthi bangamnaka kanjani umuntu abathandayo.

Izazi zengqondo sezivele zenze ucwaningo phakathi kwamadoda, okusiza thina, besifazane, sithole ukuthi benzeni, ukuze umfana akwazi wena. Isekelwe - kuphi, okokuqala, ukubuka komuntu okulinganiselwayo kuwela, okudingeka sidinga ukuheha ukulwa kobulili obuhlukile futhi ngokoqobo ngaphandle kwamagama kumenza ahlangane nathi.

Sivame ukugxeka amadoda ngenxa yokungayinaki i-erudition yethu nezwe langaphakathi, kodwa uma sinengqondo futhi singaguquguquki, siya esiphethweni sokuthi indoda idinga ukuba nesithakazelo ezintweni ezithile ukuze yena, , waba nesithakazelo ezweni lethu langaphakathi. Ngakho-ke, sidinga ukwelapha umhlaba wangaphandle ngokungathandeki kancane.

Yiqiniso, akubona sonke singamamodeli nezinkanyezi, kodwa, ngosizo lwezingubo zokuzikhethela nezakhethiwe kahle, ungenza uswidi wangempela - futhi amadoda azokubona!

Ubuso bakho yikhadi lakho lokushaya, futhi lokhu akusikho ucingo lokusebenzisa i-kilogram ye-makeup ebusweni bakho. Ukuze umfana ahlangabezane nawe, udinga ukumthakazelisa. Mhlawumbe unamehlo amahle - khona-ke udinga ukugcizelela ukujula kwawo, ubukeka sengathi buyathandeka futhi buqhakazile. Izindebe ezithandekayo ze-chubby? Khetha, vumela bonke abantu baphuphe ngokubathinta. Mhlawumbe esinye sezici eziyinkimbinkimbi ekubukeni kwethu ziyizinwele ezinhle ezihlotshiwe kahle - umbono wokuqala wokuqalwa komuntu ongaphandle uyazifihla. Zenzele ngokuhlelekile, zinakekele izikhwele - vumela izinwele zakho zikhanye futhi zidlale emisebeni yokukhanya, futhi izinwele zijabule ngeso lengqondo.

Into yesibili ukuthi bonke abantu bayayinaka izingubo zentombazane. Wena, ngokuqinisekile, wacabanga masinyane ngemikhankaso emifushane nezihloko futhi ugwaza, njengokuthi, awunayo imingcele yemodeli. Sigijimela ukukujabulisa: konke lokhu akudingekile ukugqoka. "Futhi kufanele ngenzeni? Yini okufanele ugqoke? "- uyabuza. Vele ukhethe izingubo, okuzogcizelela ngokuphelele zonke izintelezi zamanani akho bese ufihla amaphutha. Izembatho kufanele zikhethwe ukuze kuvumelane nengaphandle ngokujwayelekile futhi ayidaleli umbono wokuthi awunambitheki.

Yiqiniso, isibalo akuyona into yokugcina umfana ebheka lapho uhlangana, ngakho zama ukuhlala uzimele. Kodwa akudingeki ulahlekelwe yiqiniso lokuthi amadoda ahlukile - othile uthanda amantombazane aphilile, kanti omunye uhlanya mayelana nama-skaters anezinhlamvu ezimnandi. Ngakho-ke ungabi ngaphezu kwesifiso sakho sokubheka imfashini - kungcono kakhulu ukubheka impilo enempilo kanye nemvelo.

Kodwa konke esikufakwe kuhlu akukwazi ukuheha umuntu ukuze akhohlwe ukujabha kwakhe futhi eze kuwe, wahlangana. Mane uqaphele - asikhulumi ngalawo madoda awazi umgomo owodwa (ngicabanga ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi yini ekhona). Amadoda anjalo ngokuvamile abaqoqi, abakhathalela ngempela ukubukeka kwakho, ababukeli izici futhi babone konke okunye, ngoba aboni iphuzu ekukhulumisaneni isikhathi eside. Cha, sikhuluma ngalabo bantu abasesidlangalaleni abafuna amehlo abangabashayela, futhi ngubani olungele ukugijimela ngemva kwalezi zindawo kulasha, ukuze abuyele emuva igama elihlonishwayo nenombolo yocingo.

Inani elibalulekile esithombeni sakho eliheha ukunakwa kobulili obuhlukile ukuziphatha kwakho, ingxoxo, imikhuba kanye nokuziphatha. Konke lokhu ngokushesha kufaka iso lakho futhi kugcwalise ukubukeka. Akungabazeki ukuthi indoda izofuna ukuhlangabezana nentombazane enhle engumlutha kakhulu wokushada naye engxoxweni. Ngeke anake indodakazi encane engazi ukuthi ingagcina kanjani ukuhamba kwayo futhi ihambe kahle - ngeshwa, kukhona abanye phakathi kwethu. Ngakho-ke, kudingeka sisebenze njalo kithi, sithuthukise.

Nakani ukumomotheka kwakho. Kumele kube okungaqondakali futhi okuthakazelisayo, ngoba ukumamatheka kungenye yezikhali zethu ezinamandla kakhulu. Phinda uvuselele izindlu phambi kwesibuko "izinhlobo" ezimbalwa zokumomotheka futhi ukhumbule ukuthi yikuphi okuya kuwe, nokuthi yiziphi ezingekho. Abokugcina benza okusemandleni abo ukugwema, owokuqala - sebenzisa njalo futhi yonke indawo. Phela, yini engashukumisela umuntu ukuba azijwayele kakhulu kunomomese osesimweni nesithakazelo ophonswe kuye?

Okufanayo kufanele kwenziwe ngokubukeka. I-"shoot" emnene esuka eyelashes engaphansi kwesigamu esine-half-lashed izoshaya umuntu noma ubani - futhi uzoqonda ukuthi unesithakazelo kuwe futhi uzothatha isinyathelo sokuqala! Kodwa "ukudubula iso" kufanele kube ngekhono, unobtrusively futhi ngokucophelela ngokucophelela, kungenjalo kungase kubonakale kuqondile futhi inhlamba.

Qaphela ukuhlanzeka kwenkulumo yakho - izwi kanye nengxoxo, futhi, zingamenza lo mbili afunde, futhi amxoshe. Yiqiniso, ngezwi lakho ngeke wenze lutho - unikezwa ngokwemvelo, futhi akudingeki uyishintshe. Kodwa yenza ukukhononda ngomoya othulile futhi ngobumnene uyakwazi! Ngokuqondene nemishwana esetshenzisiwe, zama ukugwema izinkulumo ezingenangqondo, ngoba amadoda angathandi amantombazane ahlukumezayo.

Sithanda ukunikeza izeluleko ezinjalo kumantombazane angakwazi ukuheha abantu emgwaqweni nganoma iyiphi indlela. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi kungase kungabi nakuwe, kepha ngokuthobeka kwemvelo kwaleyo nsizwa. Futhi lapha kunezindlela ezimbili zokuthuthukiswa kuphela. Noma wena, unesimo sengqondo esifana nesizotha, nje udle into yokuzwelana nabantu abavilaphayo nabadabukisayo, noma uthole isibindi futhi uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala. Ngendlela, kuyinto efiselekayo ukuba usebenze uma kwenzeka uqaphela ukuzwelana komuntu osemusha.

Ukulalela iseluleko sethu, hlala wena kuzo zonke izimo zokuphila, uvumelane futhi wemvelo - futhi amadoda ngeke ahluleke ukukuhlangabeza!