Phakathi nenqubo yokukhetha, zonke izihlobo, hhayi okhulu nogogo kuphela, kodwa futhi nabazakwabo kanye namalume omdala, kanye nabafowethu nodade asebekhulile futhi, ngokwemvelo, abazali ngokwabo bafuna ukuhlanganyela. Indlela yokukhetha igama elungile lomntwana, kangangokuthi akuthandanga kuphela izihlobo, kodwa futhi kufana nomnikazi wesikhathi esizayo?
Nazi ezinye amathiphu.
Ngokuvamile abazali bafunda izichazamazwi ngamagama, upheqa kwi-intanethi, babuze abangani nabajwayele ngamagama afanekayo kuze kube yimanje, ngethemba lokuthi lokhu kuzosiza ekukhetheni igama lezimbumbulu. Kunezindlela eziningi zokukhetha igama - kusuka ku-Svyatok ukukhetha igama ku-horoscope.
Kuyenzeka, ukuthi umyeni unikeza ithuba lokuthatha igama lezinyane kumfazi. Noma kunjalo, kungcono uma abashadile bakhetha igama ndawonye. Eminye imibhangqwana isebenzisa le nqubo: babhala ephepheni wonke amagama ahlinzekwa izihlobo futhi bakhethe igama elitholakala kaningi.
Ngesikhathi sokucaciswa kobunzima obalulekile nokubaluleka kokukhethwa okulungile kwegama lomntanakho, kubalulekile ukukhumbula izimo ezilandelayo:
1. Igama kufanele libe lula ukukhuluma nokuvumelana. Akufanele ukhethe igama elide futhi linzima. Inketho efanele, lapho igama libizwa kalula futhi likhunjulwa. Ngokwemvelo, igama kufanele lihlanganiswe ne-patronymic yengane nesibongo. Kuye kwaphawula isikhathi eside ukuthi amagama anzima ukuwakhipha, isibonelo, u-Alexander Alexandrovich (ngenxa yenani elikhulu lamagama ahlonishwayo "ks, ndr") asetshenziselwa ukwehlisa iSan Sanych noma ngisho noSanych. Uma ukhetha igama elithi Alexander, kungcono ukunciphisa igama lakhe eliphakathi, isibonelo, uSergeyevich. Igama elinzima ukumemezela lingase libe yisithiyo ekukhulumisaneni, kubangele ukuhlazeka kumuntu oxhumana nabo.
2. Umqondo ovamile. Muva nje, amagama anjalo abesifazane asethandwayo: uJuliette, Camilla, Dominica. Kumele futhi kucatshangelwe ukuthi leli gama lizohlanganiswa nomuntu ovamile waseRashiya nesibongo.
3. Ukutholakala okulula kwe-patronymic. Uma unikeza igama elingavamile kumfana, ungakhohlwa ukuthi kamuva uzosebenza njengezingane ezibizwa ngezingane zakhe. Umbuzo uwukuthi, yiliphi igama elizobizwa ngeProrian?
4. Ukuvama kwesenzakalo segama. Abasebenzi bamahhovisi obhaliso bomphakathi bayazi amacala amaningi amnandi ahambisana namagama. Isibonelo, emzaneni owodwa ngelinye ilanga baqamba amagama onke amantombazane azalwa ngo-2002 Violetts (azalwa ngo-18). Njengentela eyaziwa kulolu chungechunge lonyaka.
Kuyinto efiselekayo, ukuthi igama likwazi ukukhetha amafomu okucindezela, isibonelo, uDashenka, Svetochka, Igorek, Vasilek, njll.
Futhi, uma igama lingabonakali ubulili, kungcono ukungabizi amagama afana noSasha, uZhenya, Valya. Izingane zihlale zicasuliwe lapho abafana bedidekile namantombazane futhi ngokufanayo.
Wena unikeza igama - unikeza isiphetho. Awukwazi ukunikeza ingane ingane igama lokuhlonipha isihlobo esifikile, ikakhulukazi oshonile.
Ungabizi ngegama ngogogo nomkhulu, ngoba ingane encane ivame ukuzuza ifa lezihlobo zezihlobo zayo, ngoba akuyona imfihlo ukuthi izici zobuntu ezimbi zidluliselwa kalula. Awudingi ukubiza izingane zakho ngegama lamaqhawe amafilimu ozithandayo, abadumile.
Abafana akudingeki ukuthi baqambe ngokuthi nguyise: uSergey Sergeevich, njll, ngoba abafana abanamagama anjalo bavame ukukhula bengenasisekelo, abangenakulinganisela, abacasulayo futhi besaba. Amantombazane akufanele abizwe ngokuthi ungumama, ngoba ngeke kube lula ngabo ukuthola ulimi oluvamile.
Kulula kangakanani ukukhetha igama lomntwana womunye umuntu, futhi kunzima kangakanani ukukukhetha ngokwakho. Namuhla ungangena igama eliphindwe kabili kuphasipoti yakho, isibonelo, u-Anna Maria. Lokhu kuphuma kwabazali abangazange bavumelane futhi bakhethe elinye lamagama amabili.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi