Kodwa-ke, kaningi sisafisa thina kanye nabathandekayo bethu nsuku zonke futhi, kwezinye izinto ngisho nezinto ezingabonakali: impilo, ukuthula emndenini, imali eningi. Sifisa nje, ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi konke lokhu kungenziwa kanjani. Kodwa nokho asikwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela kwethu. Ngakho awukwazi nje ukuphupha, kodwa nawe udinga! Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kubalulekile ukwenza okungenani izinyathelo ezincane ephusheni lakho. Indlela yokusetha umgomo futhi ufeze impumelelo, futhi uzoxoxwa ngezansi.
Into esemqoka ukubeka umgomo ocacile
Kungenzeka ukuthi uzenze ngokwezifiso ngaphambi kwezenzakalo ezibalulekile nokwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile ngezindlela ezahlukene. Abanye abantu bazifakela ucingo: "Nginguye onqobayo!" Futhi uma inhlanhla imamatheka ngokuzumayo, bacabanga ukuthi bayithinte ngengqondo kusengaphambili. Yebo, uma ingazange isebenze, kusho ukuthi ayilungiswanga kahle! Abanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, besaba i-jinxing, baphinda bona nabo bonke labo ababazungezile ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukuthi lo msebenzi uzophumelela. Kodwa uma kwenzeka, kuyoba kumnandi! Kodwa-ke, izazi zengqondo zaseMelika, ezalandela iqembu labafundi, zafika esiphethweni esihlukile: labo ababekulungele ukuhluleka ekuhlolweni abazange bajabule kakhulu ngokunqoba okungalindelekile. Imizwelo emibi ehlangene "phambili" yaqhubeka igxila enhliziyweni ngomthwalo ongathandeki.
Kulungile ukulungisa kanjani impumelelo? Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi: uma ngingadlulanga lolu daba kulo msebenzi - konke, ukuphila akuyona impumelelo! Uma ngingathathi indawo yokuqala emncintiswaneni, kuzodingeka ngizenzele i-hara-kiri. Futhi uma i-pie yanamuhla ihluleka, ngeke kudingeke uvule izivakashi - ngeke kube khona lutho lokubaphathisa ... Kubonakala sengathi kunjalo ngezikhathi ezinjalo ukuthi sikwazi, cha, kufanele nje siqoqe wonke amandla ethu futhi sigcwalise ngempumelelo izinhlelo zethu. Futhi kwenzekani ngokusebenza? Eqinisweni, sifuna kakhulu okuthile, thina, njenge-anecdote e-Stirlitz, "sisondele ekuhlulekeni, kunanini ngaphambili." Amandla amaningi kakhulu akhathazeka, ukonakalisa kakhulu ukwesaba iphutha elingenzeka.
Noma kunjalo, amathuba okuphumelela komuntu ongenandaba nomsebenzi wakhe nawo amancane. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuqondakala kakhulu futhi kunenzuzo yokuchaza - ayikho injabulo, intshisekelo, inkuthalo ... Lapha umphumela awufiki.
Futhi ubani ongabeka kalula umgomo futhi aphumelele? Ubani onethuba elihle lokuphumelela? Lowo ofuna ukuwina, kodwa ngaphakathi kwangempela. Lowo ongayikufeza nganoma yikuphi ukubiza, uya "ngezidumbu". Lowo ongasoze azikhohlwa ngokuzihlonipha yena kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umphumela wenzalo yakhe, nakuba angathanda ukugcwalisa ngempumelelo ibhizinisi, esamukele zonke izinzuzo ezihlobene nalokhu. Isenzakalo esinjalo esingokwengqondo sithiwa yisayensi "isisusa esihle". Ngamanye amazwi, ngosizo lwesisusa esilinganiselwe, singakwazi ukufeza imiphumela enkulu kakhulu. Lokhu kubalulekile ukukhumbula noma nini lapho unquma ukuthatha noma yiliphi ibhizinisi elibalulekile.
Ama-stereotypes? Bakhohlwa!
Ngeke ukholwe, kodwa isangweji asihlali njalo ngamafutha phansi. Ngezinye izikhathi (futhi okucacile, cishe engxenyeni yamacala) baphonsa amafutha phezulu! Ayikho imfihlakalo, izibalo ezijwayelekile kanye nenkolelo engenzeka. Ungazihlola wena ngokwakho. Futhi iziphetho ziyoba usizo kuwe nakwezinye izinto zokuphila. Iqiniso liwukuthi kungokwemvelo imithetho yemathemikhali ukuthi ingenzi ngokuphathelene nokuwa kwesangweji. Isilinganiso senhlanhla nokuhluleka empilweni yethu yansuku zonke nakho kwenzeka ngokulingana okulinganayo. Ngakho uma unenhlanhla kakhudlwana, khona-ke ungathatha ithuba kulokhu kuqhuma ukwenza enye ibhizinisi ebalulekile, kodwa esikhathini esizayo kuyoba nengqondo ukuyeka. Vumela iqembu lezinhlanhla lithinte ezinye izenzakalo ezingavamile. Kungcono ukumanzi emvula noma ukulahlekelwa yisikhwama, kunokuba ungaphumeleli ekuthengiseni okukhulu noma ukushada ungaphumeleli. Kufanele kukhunjulwe: empilweni ayikho inhlanhla engapheli. Indlela engcono kakhulu futhi ephumelela kakhulu yokufeza impumelelo ukusetha umgomo bese ukhetha isikhathi esihle sokuqalisa uhlelo.
Kholelwa kuwe - konke kuyoba kuhle!
Kukhona indaba endala yaseMpumalanga mayelana ne-bunny eyayesaba bonke abantu. Le wizard yahawukela is hare futhi yaphenduka ibe yingonyama. Kodwa ... inkosi entsha yezilwane yaqhubeka ifihla emkhunjini nasempisi futhi yayisencane futhi isengozini. Isiphetho: ngezinye izikhathi ukucabanga kwangaphakathi kubaluleke kakhulu kuneqiniso langempela. Iyini inzuzo? Okuqondile kakhulu. Singaqala ukwenza manje, singalindeli ukuqala kwangempela impumelelo enkulu, njengokungathi uhambe nathi isikhathi eside. Ingabe ufuna ukuba umuntu onakho konke okulungile? Bese uyeka ukuhamba ngombono wokuxolisa phakade, ugubuke usizi futhi uguqe ngaphansi kwesisindo sezinkinga. Nomaphi lapho uya khona - ehhovisi, emhlanganweni wabazali noma esitolo ukuze uthole amazambane - avele emphakathini ngokubukeka okunjengokuthi ufike izolo kusuka eCordorde evela eParis noma uthola i-Oscar ngendima esemqoka yabesifazane. Isithombe nemikhuba yomuntu ophumelelayo kuvame ukuheha inhlanhla, njenge-magnet. Futhi uzobona - izenzakalo zangempela zenjabulo ngeke zikugcine ulinde!
Ukushintshaniswa kwemvelo: thola isilinganiso semali
Ukunquma ukuqala indlela eholela empumelelweni, akufanele neze ukhohlwe ukuthi lena yindlela yomgwaqo. Zenzele ukuthi yini ngempela nokuthi uzimisele ukushintshanisa kangakanani izingxenye zokunqoba. Ubukhulu balezi zingxenye zihambisana njalo nezindleko. Isibonelo, akunakwenzeka ukwenza umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, uhlezi ehhovisi kusukela ekushayweni ucingo futhi ngaphandle kwesimo senembeza esithatha ukunakekela esibhedlela ingane. Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ube ngumchwepheshe onguchwepheshe onjalo. Ngeke ubheke izinto ezimangalisa uma ungakakulungeli ukuvuka kusasa ukuze wenze i-hairdo nokuzilungisa okuphelele, kusihlwa, esikhundleni sokufunda ibhuku lakho ozithandayo, ukwenza amabhuku okugeza kanye nama-parafini, bese ukhuthazelela ukuhlushwa nge-mass-cellulite massage nokuqothulwa ngezimpelasonto. Kodwa ungathola isithombe esinezindleko eziphansi futhi ugcine ukubukeka okumnandi ngaphandle kwenkinga enkulu. Futhi njalo. Udinga ukunquma inani lemphumelelo elindelekile, ubale izindleko bese uqala ukukhuphukela phezulu. Futhi-ke uzophumelela - futhi usethe imigomo uphumelele impumelelo!
Vumela imfihlo ibe lula!
Dlala lo mdlalo ngothandi wakho! Zama ukufeza izifiso zangasese zomfihlo. Umdlalo awugcini nje ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo, kodwa futhi uqinisa ubuhlobo.
• Vumela wonke umuntu ngokuzimela ukuthi abhale phansi uhlu lwalokho abangathanda ukukuthola kumlingani wabo. Faka kuye konke ongazange ube nesibindi sokukucela.
• Qhathanisa izinhlu zakho ngokuzifunda ngaphandle ngesikhathi esisodwa. Uma uzizwa ungakhululekile, ukuveza izifiso zakho siqu, nje ukushintsha uhlu.
• Emva kokuqhathanisa uhlu, shintshanisana nomlingani imizwa yakho kanye nokubona kwakho, xoxani ngemininingwane. Nika izinsuku zokugcwaliseka kwezifiso.
• Ukufeza izifiso zesigamu sakho, uthathe ngokuhlakanipha, bonisa ubuhlakani. Zama ukuthatha ingqondo yakho yonke imicabango, nje ujabulele!