Ngekhulu leminyaka elidlule, ososayensi baye basungula ukuthi abantu baqonda umhlaba ngokuhlukile. Abanye baqondiswa isithombe (okubukwayo), abanye banamathele kakhulu kulokho abakutholayo (okuzwakalayo), okwesithathu kubona ukuthi umhlaba "uyisikhumba" (lezi zinesthetics). Uthanda kanjani umfana wamaphupho akho, uma wazi ukuthi ungubani?
Ukunqoba enye inhliziyo, ungakhohlwa ukuthi abesilisa abangekho okwedlulele njengokungena ezinkampanini eziqinile, uma unesiboniso esivamile, lokhu akusho ukuthi uyisithulu futhi ulahlekelwe ikhono lokuhlukanisa iphunga. Emadodeni, nakuwe, zonke izindlela ezintathu zokubona umhlaba ngokuthula zihlangene, enye yazo iyisisekelo, kanti ezinye ziyisithupha, ngakho-ke akunzima kakhulu ukuthanda umfana. Kusukela kulesi siphetho: sebenze kuzo zonke izinkomba, kodwa komunye wabo ngokucophelela, bese uzothola ukuthanda okunamandla umfana.
Sithandana nezibukwayo.
Uthanda umfana uma ukhokha kakhulu ukubonakala kwakho. Umfana-okubonwa yibo bonke uhlangana nezingubo, ngakho ungagcini imali ngezinto ezinhle, i-lip gloss kanye ne-nail polish. Futhi umfana wamaphupho akho uzokwazisa uma uzoshintsha njalo - uhlola izinwele, shintsha isitayela sakho, uma ukhetha izingubo, ungalungisi ngombala owodwa. Mthumelele izithombe zakho, obukeka zimangalisa, futhi uma ufuna ukuthi akuzwe, thumela i-SMS - uyabona noma yiluphi ulwazi olubukwayo kangcono.
Yehla othandweni nge-audial.
Ukuze usheshe uthande umfana, udinga ukumbiza ngegama, ukuhlekisa zonke izinhlobo zethenda endlebeni yakho, uphumele ngaphandle ukuhleka futhi ubabaze amaqembu akhethandayo. Okungaphezu kwakho konke ku-guy-audial uyakuthanda izwi elihle namazwi athambile, futhi uma usahlabelela, awunayo intengo. Ungamememeza, ungabi namanyala. Uma ufuna ukumvuma kuye othandweni, mtshele ngqo noma shayela, kodwa kunoma yikuphi ukuthumelela i-SMS noma i-imeyili.
Sithandana nohlobo lwama-kinesthetic.
Ukujabulisa umfana, udinga ukwenza umzimba wakho / izingubo zifudumele. Akakhathazeki uma ulandela imfashini noma cha, kepha izingubo zakho kufanele zibe mnandi ekuthinteni, ukuze kuthi uma ekugcoba, akalumi, futhi akawunaki. Futhi ngempela impepho - okungcono kunazo zonke, yilokho akuthandayo, kepha uma ungaqapheli lokho okuthandayo, khetha "flavour" ezidliwayo: i-vanilla, ikhabe, ama-strawberries - ngokuqinisekile uzothanda umfana ngokushesha. Phatha iphaya lomama wakhe, ngimemele kukhobe yekhofi. Mtshele kabanzi mayelana nemizwa yakho.