Kufanele uqonde ukuthi abaholi abahlali ngehora elilodwa. Ngisho nalabo abazelwe ngemiklamo yomholi kumele bazikhandle ngokwandisa amathuba abo okufinyelela izithelo eziphakeme njengomuntu ohola iqembu. Kukhona ithuba lokubhala izici eziningi zobuntu, okungabazeki ukuthi zibalulekile. Kodwa izazi zengqondo, lapho zifunde izindaba zabantu abathandwa kakhulu, ziqoqe uhlu lwezinto eziyishumi zomuntu okudingayo ukuze uthuthukise kuwe emgqeni omkhulu, uma ufuna ukufeza impumelelo kule nsimu. Ukuze udlule ezingeni elilandelayo, udinga ukuthuthukisa lezi zakhiwo ezilandelayo ezitholakala kumphathi.
Umbono womgomo. I-Chiefs inombono ocacile wokuthi bafuna ukuya kuphi nokuthi yini abazoyifinyelela. Bamelela isithombe esicacile bese benza uhlelo lokuhlelwa kwemigomo yabo.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa umbono wakho womgomo: funda izindaba zabaholi abakhulu nabantu abahle kakhulu, funda izincwadi zakamuva nezisusa zokugqugquzela ukwenza ibhizinisi, uxhumane nabantu abaye bahlakulela amakhono obuholi. Yenza isiqondiso esithile ngosuku ngalunye, futhi ubuke ukuthi liye laneqiniso kanjani futhi liphumelele noma ngabe izinyathelo ezithathwe ekunqobeni kwayo ziye zaba. Gcina kancane kancane phambi kwakho zonke izinhloso zomuntu ezikude kakhulu.
Amandla okwenza izinqumo. Abaholi abesabi ukuthatha isinqumo esiyinkimbinkimbi nesingavinjelwe, ngoba bayaqiniseka ngokwabo nangamandla abo. Bayazi ukuthi ukungaqiniseki kubulala izinsiza kanye namakhono.
Indlela yokwenza amakhono akho wokwenza izinqumo: qala ukwenza izinqumo ezindaweni lapho ukungavumelani noma ukuhluleka kungeke kubaluleke kakhulu ekuziphatheni kwakho. Uma isixazululo senkinga sibonakala singalungile, susa incazelo yephutha wena futhi uqhubeke.
Ukwamukela ingozi. I-Chiefs kumele ibe nesibindi sokusebenza ezimweni lapho umphumela omuhle ungaqinisekisiwe. Zitholakala engozini inhlanhla.
Indlela yokufunda ukuthatha izingozi: Hlaziya isimo ngokubeka ohlwini izinzuzo nezinkinga kwanoma yikuphi ukukhetha, bese unquma ukulinganisa okulinganayo ukulinganisa kwezici zobungozi kusukela ku-1 kuya kweyesihlanu. Okulandelayo, thola ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi noma yikuphi ukuhluka okuzoqhubeka njengoba uhlose. Konke lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi unqume ukuthi yikuphi ingozi ozimisele ukuyenza nokuthi iyiphi inketho ofuna ukuyithanda.
Incomo: ungalindeli ukuphelela. Akekho oyohlala ewina. Ukwenza amaphutha, abaholi bavuka.
Ukugqugquzela abanye. I-Chiefs ingakwazi ukuveza umbono wayo womgomo kanye nendlela yokuzithoba kwayo, ekholisa abanye ukubaluleka kwemibono yabo. Bangabakhuthaza abantu ukuba benze izinjongo ezifanayo kanye nezifiso zabo eziphakeme, lapho laba bantu bengakholelwa ukuthi bangazifinyelela. Ngaphansi kwethonya lenhloko amalungu amathimba azama ukuthuthukisa izimfanelo zabo siqu kanye nobuchwepheshe.
Indlela yokugqugquzela abantu: funda izidingo ezizokwazi ukugqugquzela abantu ukuthi basebenze. Vele uqaphele ukuthi umphumela ofanayo awugqugquzeli wonke umuntu. Lalela ngokucophelela abanye ukwazi ukuthi yini ebashukumisayo.
Incomo: Khuthaza abasebenzi kuphela emva kokuqinisekisa ukuthi ngamunye wabo uyaqonda ukuthi umsebenzi wakhe usebenza kanjani ekufezeni umgomo ofanayo.
Amandla ukuhlela iqembu. Abaholi bakha amaqembu akhiqiza abakhiwe abantu abahle kakhulu. Ithimba lenze ngempumelelo umoya wokubambisana, abantu beqembu bavele bavumelane futhi baxazulula ukungavumelani.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa amakhono akho wokwakheka kweqembu: Gwema izimpendulo ezilinganiselwe kunoma imuphi umbuzo. Gxila ekuhloleni imibono ehlukahlukene ezingxoxweni, kunokuzama ukufakazela iphuzu lakho lokubuka. Funda ukubona nokusebenzisa izimfanelo ezinhle zeqembu lonke.
Ukugxila ekwenzeni ulwazi. Abaholi bayazi ubuthakathaka babo namandla abo futhi bahlolisise ukuziphatha kwabo ngendlela efanele. Baqaphela ukwehluleka kwabo, bavulekele impendulo futhi bahlelwe ukwenza izinguquko ezakhiweni zabo zomuntu siqu, uma kunesidingo. Umphathi omuhle uzibophezele ekugqibeleni. Akagcini nje ngokunamathela ezindinganisweni ezingaphansi, kodwa futhi uvuselela ibha ngenkuthalo ukuze afinyelele ubuhle ezindaweni ezahlukene zomsebenzi wakhe.
Indlela yokwandisa ulwazi lwakho siqu : hlaziya izenzo zakho kanye nemiphumela yabo. Buza umbono wabantu ngalokho okufanele ukwenze ukuze uthuthukise izimfanelo zomphathi.
Incomo: Gcina isimiso nsuku zonke lapho urekhoda khona izenzakalo ezibalulekile nezenzakalo. Ngakho noma nini ungabheka emuva bese uhlaziya lokho okwenzile kahle nokuthi yini engayenza kangcono.
Ukulondolozwa kobuqotho bomuntu ngamunye. Abaholi kumele banokwethenjelwa, kuphela lapho abanye bezokulandela. Ubudlelwano bunemizwa eqotho, elawulwa kahle, ukusabela okungabonakali, ukungabi nokuziphatha kokuzidla nokudabuka kwentukuthelo - lezi zonke izimpawu zobuqotho. Ubuqotho buvumela umuntu ukuba alandele izindinganiso zakhe, ngisho nalapho enye indlela ingase ibonakale iyinzuzo enkulu kakhulu futhi ethembisayo.
Umphathi, ophethe lesi sici, kubonakala sengathi abalandeli bakhe banokwethenjelwa futhi baqondakala, okwenza kube lula kakhulu kubo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, angaba yisibonelo sokuqala kubantu abangathanda ukumlingisa.
Indlela yokuhlola ubuqotho bakho: ukuzama ngamandla ukuthola impendulo nabangani, ozakwabo, kuhlanganise nabangaphansi. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukwazi ukucacisa ngokucacile izindinganiso zakho nemingcele yomthwalo wakho wemfanelo, futhi uzokwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi imibono yakho mayelana nenhloso nendima yakho enkampanini yama-comrades ihambisana nalabo abanye abantu.
Zisebenze ngokwakho kulo lonke impilo yakho. Abaholi bavame ukufunda njalo, bakhule futhi bavulele imibono emisha.
Indlela yokwandisa ulwazi lwakho: ukwandisa izimfanelo zakho zobuchwepheshe, xhumana nabalingani bakho ukushintshanisa imibono emisha nokuphefumulelwa, ukuboleka isipiliyoni sabaholi abanolwazi, bafunde izincwadi ngombono wokuphathwa kwabantu.
Incomo: Abaholi abahlakaniphile babheka abalingani abazokwazi ukwengeza ubuthakathaka babo bomuntu siqu.
Ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo. Abaholi banethuba lokudlulisela imibono yabo kubantu abahlukahlukene, futhi bayakwazi ukulungisa indlela yokuxhumana ukuze bathole indlela eya kumuntu noma ukuqonda okuhambisana nomuntu ngamunye.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa amakhono okuxhumana: sebenzisa ukulalela okunamandla nokuqonda izimpawu zomzimba ezingekho ngomlomo. "Funda phakathi kwemigqa" phakathi nengxoxo, ikakhulukazi uma usebenza namalungu ajwayelekile weqembu noma nabangaphansi kwabo abanethuba lokuba ngezinye izikhathi abanesithakazelo sokusho konke abakucabangayo. Yethula ulwazi olubaluleke kunazo zonke, uziphindiselele kancane, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi linikwe ngazo zonke izindlela - ukuze wonke umuntu aqonde ngokucacile ukuthi ingxoxo ingakanani. Abalalelwa babuzwa ukuthi baphinde bakhulume lokho abakushoyo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi baqonda ngokugcwele isihloko senkulumo.
Usizo olusebenzayo kwabanye ekufezeni impumelelo. Umholi ofanelekile unikeza ithuba kwabanye ukuthi baqaphele ngokugcwele amandla abo, beqaphela ukuthi lokhu kuqinisa ithimba kuphela futhi kuletha usizo lomhlangano.
Indlela yokunikeza abanye amandla okuvuthwa: dumisani ngisho nempumelelo encane kunoma yiliphi ilungu leqembu. Yenza imisebenzi yakho kanye nemithwalo yemfanelo kubalandeli bakho, uma unomuzwa wokuthi unamakhono, uthatha indima yokuhola.
Ngikuchazele "umsebenzi wangaphambili", okungukuthi, unikeze umbono walokho okudingayo ukuguqula nokuthuthukisa ngaphakathi kwakho, ukuze ube ngumholi ongakwazi ukuhola abantu. Wena, uma ufuna ngempela ukufezekisa impumelelo yangempela, uzolandela izincomo zami ngephuzu.