Kodwa konke lokho kuyiqiniso. Futhi-ke, lezi zinkinga azivame ukuhlotshaniswa nobunzima emisebenzini ngokwayo: umbiko obunzima wehhovisi eliphakathi, uhambo lwebhizinisi noma umthamo omkhulu wama-oda. Konke lokhu ngokuvamile akubhekwa njengowesifazane ngokuthi "isimo esibucayi emsebenzini", cha, akusiyo ngobunzima bomsebenzi wangempela. Kungenxa yobunzima bokusebenzisana nabo osebenza nabo. Yiqiniso, ngokuvamile kaningi - izikhulu, kodwa hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Umnikelo owenziwe ngokwanele ekubhekaneni nokuphila kowesifazane osebenzayo wenziwa osebenza nabo abaza, behlezi etafuleni eliseduze noma ngisho nakude kakhulu, okungaphazamisa isimo sengqondo nangaphezulu kwefoni.
Ngakho-ke, kwenzeka, inhlama emqaleni, izindebe ziyathuthumela, emehlweni ... Ngeke siqhubeke, sizophendukela ezinyathelweni zokuphindaphindiwe. Into yokuqala owesifazane okufanele akwenze ukuzola. Yebo, izeluleko ezinjalo ngokuvamile ziholela emthethweni ohlukile, kodwa, noma kunjalo, ihlala iqinisile. Ukubheka ewindini, hamba emgodini, phuma uye emgwaqweni, uma kungenzeka, kufushane, ushintshe isimo. Abambalwa ababubulayo, uma isimo sivumela - ukwelula, ukuhlala phansi, mhlawumbe uye esiteji esilandelayo. Noma yimuphi umsebenzi wezimoto esiwudinga ngalesi sikhathi njengomoya. Kodwa hhayi ugwayi. Ngisho nalabo abashaya, abangeke bakhulume nalabo abathi ngenxa yesinye isizathu banquma ukuthi kulesi simo bazobhema okokuqala empilweni yabo. Ngakho-ke, into yokuqala esiyidingayo ukuphuma esimweni esibuhlungu futhi senze uhlobo oluthile lokunyakaza, ngcono emoyeni omusha.
Isinyathelo sesibili sixhunyaniswa nokuhlaziywa kwalokho okwenzekile, okwenzeka ngempela. Kodwa sidinga ukuqala leli bhizinisi ebalulekile kungekudala kunokuba sizwe ukuthi ukuhlukumezeka sekuyeke, ukuqina kwezinzwa kudlulile. Futhi ngaphambi kokulungisa isimo esinzima emsebenzini, kufanele sisuswe kude, bheka ukubukeka okuzolile, okuhlukanisiwe. Cishe sengathi kwakungeyona isimo sethu siqu, kodwa indaba yomngani. Futhi, echaza ngokwakhe ngalokho okwenzekile, ebuka lo mbiko ngesiteshi sakhe sengqondo se-cable TV, owesifazane akakwazanga ukuphawula lokho engazange akubone, abe ngumuntu kulezi zimo. Isibonelo, ukuthi umuntu ungabanjwanga, umuntu unomphetho oqujiwe, othile ulahlekelwe isisindo (uphinde wathola), omunye umuntu ohlaziyekile uma esho, futhi othile ngokungalungile wenza isikhalazo. Akekho okuvimbela ekuthuthukiseni umbono othakazelisayo: gqoka ikhanda kubalingisi bakho ama-caps noma amaphoyinti. Yebo, yebo, izimbiza ezindala ezihlutshiwe - ngakho-ke vumela kuleli fomu ngaphambi kwakho futhi usebenzise ngokuzwakalayo. Yebo, futhi lapha kukhona okuncane kakhulu, kodwa okubaluleke nakakhulu: ngemuva kwakho konke, okwakushiwo (kwenziwa) ngabahlanganyeli kule vidiyo futhi obonwa ngumfazi ngandlela-thile ngesikhathi ukubukwa okwesibili kungabonakala kuvezwe kwamanye amathoni. Ngempela, akusiyo yini ukuthi emva kokudla noma ngosuku olulandelayo, sibe nesimo sengqondo esihle izinkinga zango izobonile kakade ngokukhanya okuhlukile? Yiqiniso, yilokho okudingeka usebenzise.
Isinyathelo sesithathu: ukwakheka kwenkinga. Sula, okungcono kubhaliwe. Ngemva kokucabangela lesi simo ngokuzithoba nangenhliziyo ephansi, sizobona ukuthi inkinga inegama layo. Isibonelo: ukuhlolwa kwamakhono ochwepheshe wesifazane, umnikelo wakhe kusizathu esivamile, izici zobunikazi bakhe, impilo yezinto eziphilayo, umndeni, uhlamvu - njalonjalo, nokunye okunjalo. Ungavumeli umzamo wokufeza ukuhlanganiswa okucacile okucacile. Phinda ubhale, udwebe imidwebo, kahle, njengabafighters abane-mafia. Kodwa kulokho kuzoba yisimiso sobudlelwane. Phakathi kwakho nabahlanganyeli empini. Noma ingabe lokhu akuyona ingxabano? Ingxabano yalokho? Kungani kube khona umehluko ekubukeni kwesimo sezindaba? Yakha, yenza, ifinyelele ukucaca okuphelele. Kodwa-ke, ungazisoli, uzitshele ngokwethembeka, into engathandeki. Kulokhu kuncike empumelelweni yendaba. Ngeke uthembele ukuthi akukho okusolayo, ukuthi uyisisulu esingenacala ngokuphelele sezinkathazo kanye nezinkohliso. Yenza ngokucacile.
Isinyathelo sesine: uhlelo lokusebenza. Ngempela, lapho ebuza ekuqaleni umbuzo wokuthi owesifazane angayilungisa kanjani isimo esibucayi emsebenzini, manje sishintsha inkinga yendlela owesifazane angalungisa ngayo isimo esinzima emsebenzini. Ukulungisa, okungukuthi, ukwenza okuthile isikhathi esithile ngokwecebo elithile.
Isinyathelo sesihlanu: ukufeza uhlelo nokuhlaziya okungahambi kahle, njengoba kuhloswe. Akukaze kwenzeke ukuthi konke kuhambelana nokuhlela. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi loluhlelo akufanele luhlanganiswe uma kudingeka lulungiswe. Yebo, uhlelo lungaba lincane kakhulu: imisebenzi embalwa. Kodwa kucatshangelwe ngokucacile nangokucacile.
Isinyathelo sesithupha: ukusibhalela mayelana nesipiliyoni sakho, mayelana nendlela owesifazane angalungisa ngayo isimo esinzima emsebenzini. Phela, manje usuchwepheshe. Futhi ungasiza abanye. Akukho lutho olwenza ngcono kunolwazi olwakho. Uyavuma?