Yena ... ngokuzumayo wafika kuwe futhi wathatha yonke imicabango nezinhlelo zosuku. Ukhulile kubantu abazungezile, futhi bazithola beyinto entsha yokubonga. Ngenxa yokuthi uke wabona umthandi okhona ngaphakathi kwakho, kodwa manje usulahlekelwe yonke ifomu yakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unomona ngokuzikhethela ukuzethemba kwabo - kungabe kunjalo, wakhethwa yintombazane ethandwa kakhulu! Yebo, futhi uhlale uphazamisa, ukufaka izinto eziyimfihlakalo ngokumangalisayo, futhi utshele abangane bakho ngomdlandla ukuthi umngane wakho uqobo kakhulu.
Ukuze ugcine izindaba ezimnandi ngokubheka, hlukana lezi zigaba ezimbili zokuphila. Sebenzisa ubuhlobo bakho ngokuhlakanipha. Uma amantombazane avela enkampanini yakho enenkinga nabesilisa, memezela le novel ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze ningabangeli umona. Uma bonke bebafana, bahlele amaqembu wezinkukhu - futhi vumela amantombazane ukuthi abelane ngemininingwane yokuthakazelisa. Inkulumo encane ngawe - ake bacele. Amantombazane angakhohlwa ukufakazela ukuthi, naphezu kwakho konke, abantu abapholile kakhulu kuwe. Ngokuvamile ubheke kubo ukuze uthole usizo futhi ukhumbuze ukuthi usengumngane wabo ongakwazi ukuzivikela.
Isibonelo, umuntu omusha ufika eqenjini , ongayifunde kuphela uCamus ekuqaleni, kodwa futhi ugqoka nsuku zonke, njengendlela yokuqokwa nomfazi wokuqala. Noma enye yokuqashelwa kwakhe ngokuzumayo, ivela ngokuthunjwa emathunzini. Uma ungumholi weqiniso, ukuncintisana okunjalo akufanele kukusabise. Yenza ubungane nenkanyezi entsha. Hlaziya, kunokuba umuntu omusha uye wabheka inkampani nokuthi ngabe ufunda kanjani ukufunda ukuze abe umholi ezinkampanini? Ulwazi?
Izingubo zokufashisa? Imibono emihle yeqembu? Bonisa izinto ezifanayo, kepha kangcono - ngoba awuthandanga muntu uyazi abangani bakho. Unolwazi oluningi futhi negunya elinamandla - lisebenzise! Mema lo mshayeli ukuthi ahlele ukuvakasha emvelweni, mema abangani bakhe ukuba bahambe bezungeza izitolo futhi baveze ulwazi mayelana nezitayela zefashini. Kodwa! Akudingeki kubonakale sengathi uzama ngokumangalisayo ukugcina i-pop. Uma inkampani iphuphuthekiswe okwesikhashana ngukukhanya komuntu omusha, hamba ku-cinema nabangani ngegag yokubopha - yilowo nalowo makakubone ukuthi uyadinga kakhulu futhi akahlupheki.
Abangane bama-rockers bafunda ukuthi ngaphansi komcamelo ukhale izinyembezi phezu kwe "Twilight" futhi ulalele uSergei Lazarev? Noma enkampanini yabesifazane besifazane abashisekayo wabonakala ngezindawo ze-orange emva kokuqothula kanye nengubo yesiguquko? Kunoma yikuphi, wenze ubuwula "obubi", okushiwo umholi ukuthi akusho ukuthi uhlezi. Yingakho sikhona, ukuchaza ukuthi singafunda kanjani ukuba umholi ezinkampanini.
Ikhwalithi ebaluleke kakhulu yomholi ikwazi ukuhleka. Noma yikuphi ukungaqondi kahle kungadlalwa ukudlala noma kube yihlaya. Umholi njalo ugcina isimo silawulwa. Uma ihlaya lingakusizanga futhi usabheka ukukhathazeka, ungaqhubeki ukuzithethelela - lokhu uzogcizelela icala lakho futhi uvume ubuthakathaka. Yebo, ushiye indlu ngesiqephu se-idiotic. Ngakho-ke? Uthanda lokho! Uyakuthanda izifucu ezinjalo, futhi wena - uqine futhi uqine - zithande ngempela izindaba zothando. Ukuhlala ngombono wakho, uzobiza inhlonipho. Yiqiniso, ungaphuli ngokuphelele isithombe sakho sobuholi, njengoba uthanda, - udinga ukuhlonipha amanani wethimba. Bonisa ukuthi uthembekile kubo njengabanye, ukhona ukuthi inkampani inesithakazelo. Isibonelo, mema wonke umuntu ekhonsathini yensimbi yokufa noma wenze imfashini yefashini.
Isikhundla sakho - "Ngilapha lapha, futhi umbono wakho awukhathazi muntu"? Lokhu akwanele kunoma ubani. Bonisa abangani bakho ukuthi udinga kangakanani - hhayi ngezwi elihlelekile elithi "yenza lokhu!", Kodwa cela, cela usizo, bese ubonga inhliziyo. Hlanganisa ndawonye futhi uthi ngiyabonga ngokukuthanda, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi ungenakubekezeleleka. Ngenxa yalokhu futhi uyabathanda futhi uzilungiselele konke. Qinisekisa ngezenzo - uhlezi embhedeni futhi ujabulela ekupheleleni kwakho, kunzima ukuba yisihloko sokubonga.
... uchitha imini yakho enobungane. Cishe, udumile ukuthandwa kuphela ngomphumela wangaphandle, futhi manje, lapho isithombe esicacile, kodwa esinezithombe siba yisithukuthezi, abantu bafuna ukuthola ukuthi yini ongayinikela, ngaphandle kwamahlaya amaflamboyant noma ama skirts amafushane. Umholi kulindeleke ukuthi enze izinqumo, ahlele ukuphumula okuhlanganyelwe futhi agcwalise ezinye imisebenzi "ezisemthethweni". Ama-clowns nama-photomodels anamahlaya afanayo kanye nokumamatheka kwe-snow-white akhathazeka ngokushesha. Uma ungafuni abantu bakulahleke:
Namathela kwisitayela sakho, kodwa njalo uthuthukise. Uma uthanda ukushintsha - ungahambi ngezinsuku ezimbili ulandelana izingubo ezifanayo, uma ungumuntu omkhulu wezemidlalo, ukwandisa ukusebenza nge-sequin nezimbali, uma amantombazane ejabule ngezindwangu zakho - anikeze ukuthi awuyikugqoka futhi. Zitholele isenzo somqhele kanye nama-catchwords, kodwa ungawasebenzisi kaningi. Nweba ama-horizons akho bese utshela. Kufanele ube nolwandle lwezindaba kusukela empilweni (kungekhona eyakho - ungathola ama-mandarins aseSimpson noma amaShayina) namaqiniso athakazelisayo. Kumele ukwazi ukukhanyela ingxoxo kunoma yikuphi isihloko bese uthola ulimi oluvamile kuwo wonke umuntu - nge-botanist engavamile edingeka ukuba akholelwe ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole eqenjini lonke, kanye ne-undergraduate eqondile eqhubekela phambili. Yiba ngcono.
Yiba khona ngokushesha futhi ungesabi ukubonakala ungenangqondo, wenze into engahambisani namazinga. Yehla emadolweni phambi kwathisha, uye eyunivesithi nge-blouse enelebula "By Masha" noma "Ngingowenkanyezi!", Hlela ibhendi yakho (futhi kuhle ukuthi awukwazi ukudlala ku-tamas)? Kulula! Futhi akekho owazi ukuthi uqeqeshe konke lokhu kusukela ezincwadini phambi kwesibuko noma izifundo zokuziphatha. Zizungeze nabalandeli. Ungaphumeleli emaphakathini nabafana abahlukene, ngitshele ukuthi ungubani futhi uzogijima nobani ngemva kwesikole, unikele izeluleko zekhabethe zezintombi ngokubukeka okunolwazi. Kodwa ungazitholi njengobhobho lobulili, lapho wonke umuntu ethandana khona, kuzobangela umona kuphela.
Yiba yingcweti enhlanganweni yokuzilibazisa kwamasiko. Vumela izinganekwane zihambe ngawe: "Uyakhumbula ukuthi wanquma kanjani ukwenza ifilimu ngathi sonke? Futhi isikhathi lapho sasihlanganiswa khona ku-elevator, kwakungumnandi! Futhi mayelana nekhonsathi yaleli bhande elimangalisayo wasitshela futhi wanciphisa amafilimu ambalwa! "Okungcono kakhulu, kufanele uziphendulele kwisikhungo sokuzijabulisa ngokuhamba ngezinketho.
Gcina inkampani ndawonye. Dala amasiko amnandi (isibonelo, gubha izinsuku zokuzalwa futhi uqoqe oak omdala ngoLwesibili), insignia (fenki, iziteketiso ezinencazelo), inganekwane (yenza izindaba zakho, amahlaya), njll.
Shine! Umholi kufanele , njengokukhanya kwelanga, athuthukise wonke umuntu kanye nomuntu wonke okhona. Bamba iqhaza kuyo yonke imisebenzi yesikhungo, bonisa isinyathelo, uxoxe nabo bonke. Yenza okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka, zikhazimulise ngezenzo zakho. Umholi oyeka ngokushesha uyathukuthela - inkampani ithanda ukuholwa ngokuqiniseka ngaphambili.
Futhi uma ucabanga ngakho
Uqale ukukhohlwa ngemisebenzi yakho yobuholi. Isizathu singaba - uthanda, ungene eyunivesithi, uthole umsebenzi noma uthathwe yizokuvakasha. Unokuzilibazisa okuthatha sonke isikhathi namandla. Noma mhlawumbe ukhathele okwesikhashana nje ngokuba yintombazane elula kakhulu? Ngezinye izikhathi kubalulekile ukushiya omdala ukukhuphuka isinyathelo esiphakeme. Ucabanga-udinga laba bantu noma ukuthandwa kuphela? Ukuqaphela ubungane obungunaphakade kuyadingeka kuphela kulabo omthandayo ngempela. Uma ungafuni ukulahlekelwa ukuthandwa, yenza ukuzilibazisa kwakho okusha kube chip. Tshela izindaba ezimangalisa ngekolishi, bonisa izithombe ezikhethekile emazweni angavamile. Vumela wonke umuntu abone ukuthi ukuzilibazisa kukuhle kuwe - ngisho noma ulahlekelwa imihlangano embalwa futhi awukwazi ukuhalalisela umuntu onosuku lokuzalwa, uzoxolelwa. Uma unamandla okwanele, wena-ke, ungahlela bonke abangane bakho ukuzilibazisa ukuze bangaphuthelwa. Udinga ukulingana nawe ("o, uphelile, uphumelele, nami ngifuna kanjalo!"), Kodwa akazange abe nomona ("Ngitholile umsebenzi, ngangizikhukhumeza futhi ngikhohliwe ngokuphelele ngathi").
Kubonakala sengathi ngemuva komsindo wehlombe awuzwanga umsindo wesihlalo sobukhosi sakho sobukhosi. Ukuthiwa uthathwe udumo (noma waze waba ukuziqhenya ngokweqile?) - akumangalisi ukuthi emuva ngemuva kwakho kwaqala ukucabanga ngamasu okudlula phansi umlindi. Hlola ukuthi yini oye wakwazi ukuyenza phakathi nesikhathi samandla okuphophaza nokuthandwa kwenkampani futhi ngokushesha uqale ukulungisa amaphutha.