Mhlawumbe hhayi abaningi bethu besizwe ngomqondo onjengokuphathwa kwesikhathi. Futhi labo abazwile, hhayi iqiniso lokuthi bayazi kahle, ukuthi kungenziwa kanjani. Ngakho, ukuphathwa kwesikhathi yisikhathi sokuhlela isikhathi sakho ngokunembile, ngakho-ke kunele konke okwenzayo. Yini esikhuluma ngayo namhlanje. Ake sibole ekuphatheni kwesikhathi isikhathi samagama ambalwa esizobe sichaza ibhizinisi lethu, esizodinga ukusakaza. Ngakho-ke, manje sizodla "amakati" (amabhizinisi amancane) futhi sidle "izinja" (imisebenzi enzima nobunzima). Ungakhathazeki ngokuthi kufanele udle ngempela lezi zilwane ezihle futhi ezingenakuzivikela ngempela. Akunjalo, nje lokhu kungukuthi "imigomo" emibili yethu, iziqephu esicacise ngazo kubakaki. Ngendlela, uma ungathandi lezi zilwane nhlobo, kahle, noma uma usho amazwi-izithombe, ungakwazi ukuzithatha ezinye izinto. Kuzo "izilwane" (ezethu noma ezakhiwe zakho) ukuthi sizobona ukuthi singabelana kanjani ngokufanele isikhathi sethu.
Ukuze wenze okungenakwenzeka .
Sonke siyazi ukuthi okubaluleke kakhulu futhi, njengomthetho, izindaba eziphuthumayo, njalo zidinga ukuqaliswa kwazo okuphoqelekile futhi okuphuthumayo. Kodwa asikwazi ukuyixazulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ngenxa yokuntuleka kwesikhashana. Ngempela, sonke sidinga, usuku nosuku, ukuya emsebenzini wethu futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, esikhathini sethu samahhala sokwenza imisebenzi yethu yasendlini. Ngendlela, ngumsebenzi wasekhaya owenza "isabelo sezingonyama" sethu sesikhathi sethu. Yingakho lezi zindaba ezingaxazululwa, ezibalulekile futhi eziphuthumayo zithola isimo sokuhlonipha "inja". Futhi awukwazi ukuzixazulula ngendlela efanele futhi uhambe ngesinyathelo. Ungabeka kanjani isikhathi sakho futhi wenze lesi simo? Impendulo yalo mbuzo ilula: udinga nje "ukusika" (futhi ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso weli gama) le "nja" ibe yizicucu ezincane nezomlomo ongadla njalo ngesonto, ngesikhathi esithile. Ngokwesibonelo, udinga ngempela ukufunda isi-Italian, ake sithi kwenye indawo ezinyangeni ezintathu. Khumbula ukuthi konke okungenakwenzeka kungenzeka. Udinga nje ukusabalalisa uhlelo lwesinyathelo ngesinyathelo sezenzo zakho ezengeziwe. Beka umgomo wokuthi ngesonto uzothola inombolo ethile yamagama futhi uzilungise ngokubhala ukubhala noma ukubukela i-dis nge-self-instruction manual in Italian. Khumbula ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthola eyakho. Yebo, ngaphansi kwegama elithi "own", ngokuqinisekile sisho umphumela womsebenzi owenziwe nguwe. Nasi isifundo sakho sokuqala: wakha uhlelo, ungaluqedi uhlangothi, futhi ufike emgomweni.
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Amabhizinisi amancane angadingi ukuqaliswa okuphuthumayo athande kakhulu ukuqoqwa kwezixuku. Futhi konke ngenxa yesizathu esisodwa esilula ukuthi thina, kahle, asikwazi ukuziletha kubo hhayi lokho okuzoqedela, kodwa ngisho nokuqala. Ngakho waya enkundleni ye "amakati" ethu. Akunzima ukuphuma kule "sixuku samacala". Udinga nje "udle" elinye lalezi "amakati" nsuku zonke. Ngamanye amazwi, ziphoqele ukuthatha zonke izenzo ezingathandeki kodwa ezingenakugwemeka, ezifaka kuzo "kwimenyu yakho" yansuku zonke. Futhi lapho, bheka, uchungechunge lwezinsuku luzodlula, futhi wena ngokwakho ngeke uqaphele ukuthi zonke izenzo zakho ezincane zizophela kanjani. Isibonelo, vakashela namhlanje emva komsebenzi wezinwele, futhi kusasa ube i-beautician, kodwa ngosuku olulandelayo kusasa, vakashela i-oculist yakho (kahle, noma omunye udokotela, ovakashele ukuvakasha kwakho kuze kube phakade) njalonjalo. Nakhu, "amakati" amancane, okudingeka ukuthi akhululwe ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Ukunika isikhathi, njengalesi simo .
1. Ukuze ubeke isikhathi sakho ngokufanele, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ulahlekelwa yiphi, ngakho kufanele uqale ibhuku elikhethekile lapho kufanele ubhale khona ngokuningiliziwe amacala owawenza phakathi nosuku ngalunye phakathi nenyanga. Emva kwalokho, uhlaziye ngokugcwele ukulinganisela kwesikhathi sakho.
2. Bhala amacala akho emakholomu amane: ikholomu yokuqala - amacala abalulekile adinga ukuqaliswa okuphuthumayo, okwesibini okubalulekile, kodwa okungalindela, okwesithathu okuphuthumayo akubalulekile futhi, ekugcineni, okwesine - amacala angabalulekile futhi awadingi ukuqaliswa okusheshayo . Futhi manje, uqhubeka kusuka kulokhu, qala ukuwabeka esiteji ngesinyathelo.
3. Funda ukuthi ungayibona kanjani amacala amaningana ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ikakhulukazi ukukhathazeka ngalezi zinkinga ongazitshisi ngempela ngesifiso sokwenza. Isibonelo, esikhathini eside esidlule "udle ukudla kwasekuseni" kwentombazane yakho, usongela ukubiza usuku nosuku. Kodwa ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwansuku zonke nokulalela izinkinga zakhe ezihlala njalo, uyayisusa. Ngakho, thatha ifoni, shayela umngane wakho futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo usula uthuli endlini. Uzobulala izinyoni ezimbili ngetshe elilodwa, futhi uzothuli uthuli, futhi ulalele umngane. Ngendlela, ngemuva komsebenzi owonakalayo ngeke ulalele ngokweqile izinkinga zomngane.
4. Fundisa ukusebenzisa ngomzuzu noma yimiphi iminithi. Isibonelo, unomzuzu wamahhala futhi esikhundleni sokwenza umsebenzi othile wokukhiqiza, umane uqale ukushintsha ukunakekelwa kwakho kulawo mahlakalo adalwe kuphela ukubulala isikhathi (ikhompyutha, ingxoxo yocingo njalonjalo). Futhi okubaluleke nakakhulu, wena ngokwakho uzibophezela ngebhizinisi elingakagcwaliseki futhi uchithe isikhathi esichithwe. Futhi kungani ungashiyi lezi zinkinga "zegciwane" futhi ungenzi okuthile okuwusizo.
5. Futhi ngokujwayelekile, zifundise ukuhlelwa ngumuntu. Ngendlela, ngenxa yalokhu, ngokumangalisayo, kufanele ubhalisele i-gym. Lokhu-ke, akungabazeki, ukuqeqeshwa okuhle ngokomzimba, kuyoba lula kuwe ukuba ulwa nezindaba zakho. Kodwa ngaphesheya kwalokho, uzothola amandla obalulekile oyidingayo futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, inhlangano. Uma ungafuni ukuya ejimini, faka umatasa ekhaya nsuku zonke, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzobona ukuthi unesikhathi esingakanani.
Ngakho khumbula ukuthi ukusatshalaliswa okulungile kosuku lwakho kunokwanele namahora angu-24, noma ngisho nangaphansi. Ngakho funda ukusakaza "amakati" akho kanye "nezinja" esesinkwa sakho futhi ngokujulile "udle". Inhlanhla kuwe!