Angaya kuwe ukuhlanza indlu, ugeze, uhlele kabusha zonke izitsha bese ucindezela i-cutlet. Ngokwalo, kungaba khona futhi akubi, kodwa njalo akagculiswanga nawe: ngombono wakhe wenza konke okungalungile futhi ngokujwayelekile awukho okuhle nakancane. Futhi indlela yokubhekana nayo?
Uma ngabe okhethiweyo wakho ephumile esihlahleni somzali, akaze aphethwe, futhi sekuyisikhathi eside ekhuluma nezihlobo ezingasondelene kakhulu, ngakho-ke akudingeki ukuthi ubhekane nezimo ezinjalo. Kungenzeka ukuthi unina unethemba lokukhetha indodana yakhe futhi uyajabula ngokuthi unayo. Lona ngumkhwekazi ophelele!
Uma ungenalo inhlanhla, okokuqala, zama ukuqonda ukuthi kungani umama womyeni wakho ephazamisa ngokuphelele empilweni yakho. Mhlawumbe ungumfazi ongathandeki odinga ukuzwelana.
Izizathu zalokhu kuziphatha zingaba eziningana, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wanikeza into eyigugu kakhulu ekuphileni kwakhe. Yiqiniso, akakwazi ukuhlukana nokuhlukunyezwa kwakhe ngamanzi. Futhi uma usuvele unezingane, kufanele uqonde lokhu.
Mhlawumbe unina wayejwayele ukwenza konke okwenzelwe ingane yakhe: wayepheka, wageza, wahlanza, wathenga izinto ... Yingakho ukungqubuzana nomkhwekazi kuvame ukuphakama emakhaya. Futhi uma umama esenakekela indodana yakhe, engakhululekile ukukhula, ngezinye izikhathi akakwazi ukuhamba ngisho ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe. Konke lokhu kuyacindezelwa uma owesifazane ekhulela indodana yakhe yedwa. Ukuntuleka kokunakekelwa kwamadoda, wanikeza imali yokunakekelwa kwengane. Futhi manje uyisuse.
Kodwa angamethemba kanjani umuntu onomntwana wakhe?
Kungokwemvelo ukuthi ngalesi simo sengqondo kumntanakho, uninazala uzokunika izivivinyo ezinzima, uhlobo lokuhlolisisa ilungelo lokuba ngumfazi, ngoba manje kufanele wenze umsebenzi wakhe. Vumelanisa, unamathuba amaningi okuhluleka, kunokuba uthole ukuhlolwa okwanelisayo, ngoba umamazana wakho ufanisa nawe, namanje ungumuntu ongenalwazi, uqobo lwakhe. Futhi nganoma yisiphi isilwane (uhlaka oluncane oluthulile noma ngokunganakekelwa oluphonswe yi-sock yakho ebusisiwe) ungaba nombhangqwana we-shlopotat. Uninazala uzama konke okusemandleni akhe ukukhombisa ukuthi unkosikazi ungubani endlini. Uma uhlala nabazali bakhe, ubuholi kungcono ukunikeza-ngemuva kwakho konke, lena yindlu yomunye umuntu. Zivumelanisa neqiniso lokuthi uyashintsha izinto zakho, akakuvumeli esitofu futhi uthenge amakhethini ekunambithekeni kwakho.
Awukwazi? Bese ukhetha ngendlu yomyeni wakhe. Kodwa-ke, noma ngabe uhlala ngokwehlukana, kunzima ukumelana nokuhlukunyezwa komkhwekazi wakho endlini yakho, kodwa akudingeki uyimbone nxazonke.
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umamazana wakho uziphatha kangakanani, awukwazi ukuxabana naye! Ungakhohlwa: ungumama wakho othandekayo.
Ukuze uthole ulimi oluvamile noninazala, udinga ukumbonisa izinto ezimbili - ukubaluleka nokuhlonipha kwakhe. Kwangathi umamazala wakho abe ngumfundisi wakho oqinile kodwa owazi kahle ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Mcele ukuthi akufundise ukuthi ubhake kanjani amapayipi, upheke borscht, upende amabhethri, ngisho noma ungakwenza konke lokho.
Ungalilahli usizo lwakhe. Ngokuphambene nalokho, yena ngokwakhe uhileleka ebhizinisini elithile elihlangene - hamba ukuyothenga ndawonye, uye endlini yokulala, ukufakelwa izimbali.
Mbize njalo, ungakhohlwa ukuhalalisela ngamaholide futhi unikele izipho ngisho nezizathu ezingenasidingo kakhulu.
Zama ukudweba umkhwekazi wakho ohlangothini lwakho ngezitatimende ezinjengokuthi "siyazi okuthile (sibona, siyazi ukuthi kanjani)".
Xhumana naye kunoma yimuphi umbuzo: kuphi ukuthenga ukudla okungabizi, okuyiphi powder kungcono ukugeza, kungakanani ushukela ukufaka jam. Futhi khumbula: esikhathini esizayo, nawe uzoba ngomama wesibili - umamazala noma umkhwekazi. Ngakho-ke, ungalokothi uxabane nomamazala wakho.