Ingabe ubuhlungu? Ingabe ufuna ukukhulelwa? Ukungaqondi kahle okuhlangene? Kunezinkinga zokulala ngocansi nsuku zonke, ezingasetshenziswa kunoma yisiphi isimo esinzima. Lesi sihloko sinikeza imibono yabachwepheshe abahamba phambili emkhakheni wezempilo wesifazane obuseduze ngokuphathelene nezinkinga ezivame kakhulu. Yilungele ukufunda izinyathelo ezintsha zokuwina ku-party yakho yothando.
I-pose engcono yokukhulelwe.
Ngempela, ungakwazi ukukhulelwa nganoma yisiphi isikhundla, kodwa kukhona ukuhlala ngokobulili okulodwa, lapho ithuba lokukhulelwa landa kakhulu. "Leli yi" Umvangeli "(indoda ephezulu) enekhanda eliphakeme," kusho u-Emmy Levine, umqeqeshi wezocansi eziyisisekelo waseNew York, uthisha wezocansi oqinisekisiwe nomsunguli we-SexEdSolutions.com.
"Ngokubeka umcamelo omncane ngaphansi kwamadokodo, ungakha indawo ephakanyisiwe ye-pelvis futhi ufeze umphumela we-slide okhethekile," usho kanje. "Lokhu kwenza kube lula nge-spermatozoa yakhe endleleni yabo elukhuni ngokusebenzisa umsele womlomo wesibeletho kuze kube seqanda. Ngokuvamile abesifazane abakhetha lokhu bezokwenza ucansi nsukuzonke banomthelela wokukhulisa ukujula, njengoba isilwane sihlala esiswini isikhathi eside kakhulu uma kuqhathaniswa nezimo "ezingenhla". "Futhi, ungakhohlwa nge-orgasm," kusho u-Ava Cadell, uthisha wobulili nomsunguli we-Loveology University eLos Angeles. "Ukuthola injabulo kungasiza futhi ukuba ukhulelwe, ikakhulukazi uma kungekude kakhulu nomvuthwandaba."
Isimo esihle kakhulu sokuthi owesifazane abe nomuzwa othembekile kakhulu embhedeni.
Mhlawumbe unomuzwa wokuthi awuvikelekile embhedeni futhi ufuna ukufunda amaqhinga angakuvumela ukuba uzizwe ukhululekile futhi ulawula kangcono isimo? Uma kunjalo, uDebbie Herbenick, Ph.D., umlobi weseluleko sobulili kwabesifazane ukufeza injabulo nokwaneliseka, "Kungani kunomuzwa omuhle," unokuthile okuzokunikeza. Khumbula amagama akhe amathathu kuphela: "Uhlale uphezulu". Nsuku zonke, i-pose ye-sex "Rider" izokuvumela ukuthi ulawule kangcono ukunyakaza futhi uthole ukuzethemba, "usho kanje. "Qinisekisa ukuthi konke kwenzeka njengoba wena futhi wayekufunayo. Ungakwazi ukuma ngamadolo akho noma u-squat, vula ebusweni bomlingani wakho noma ujikeleze. Into eyinhloko ukuthi yena futhi kufanele ujabulele. "
Okuhle kakhulu kokuzijabulisa kwentombazane.
"Bantombazane, usulungele ukufunda ngalokhu?" Manje uDkt. Herbenic uzokunikela ekuhlakanipheni okunjalo okungenzeka ukuthi awuzange uzwe ngakho! Le nqubo ibizwa ngokuthi ukulungiswa kwe-coital. "Lokhu kuyintando yeningi" lezithunywa zevangeli "ngenye yalezi zikhundla ezimbalwa zobulili eziye zafakazela ukuthi zingase zibe yi-orgasmic," kusho uDebie. "Umlingani uzithuthukisa phambili ukuze amahlombe akhe angezakho. Izindawo zendawo yokugcoba akufanele zixube kakhulu ngokushayisana okuhle. Lesi sikhundla sikuvumela ukuba uthuthukise kangcono i-clitoris, okwenza kube lula ngabesifazane ukufezekisa ukwaneliseka ngokobulili kanye ne-orgasm yangempela. "
I-posture engcono kakhulu yobulili obude
Uma isoka lakho lingenayo i-ejaculation engakafiki, udinga ukuthatha isenzo esithile, futhi kuqala uzame ukushintsha isimo sakho socansi. Ngokusho kwezincomo zikaLevi, isikhundla se "isithunywa sevangeli" (indoda evela phezulu) futhi lapha singasiza ukubamba izikhathi ezinhle, ukwandisa isineke sobulili somlingani. "I-pose yezocansi ibaluleke kakhulu uma umfana enenkinga ebangeni," esho. "Uma ephezulu, kulula ukulawula ukuvota ngocansi: yeka uphinde uqale ukuqhuma." Uma ufuna ukuhlukahluka, sebenzisa iseluleko sikaCadell. "Isikhundla se" Fox "sihlukile" sezithunywa zevangeli ", kodwa ngezimilenze eziphakanyisiwe, lapho ubopha khona othandekayo bakho entanyeni. Ukungena kuhamba ngokujulile futhi owesifazane ugcwala umzimba womuntu kuze kube sekugcineni. Umlingani wakho uhamba ngaphakathi kwakho, okukuvumela ukuba ulondoloze injabulo yakhe ngaphandle kokukhipha isikhathi eside. "
Ukuhleleka okungcono kakhulu kwabesifazane abazwa ubuhlungu ngesikhathi sokulala.
Iningi labesifazane akulula kakhulu ukubhekana nobuhlungu lapho i-coitus. Noma kunjalo, cabangela amathiphu ambalwa awusizo angasiza kulokhu. Mhlawumbe kungukuntuleka kokugcoba kwemvelo, ngakho ukusetshenziswa kwamakhekhelo akhethekile emanzini ngeke kube yinto engadingekile. Uma ubuhlungu buqhubeka, kubalulekile ukuthi wena, ngokukhulumayo, ugcine izinkalo zakho ezandleni zakho. Yingakho uDkt. Herbenik nabanye ochwepheshe batusa isikhundla se "Rider" kwabesifazane abanezinkinga zobulili ezibuhlungu, okwenza kube khona ukulala ngohlobo olwamukelekayo kowesifazane.
I-pose engcono kakhulu ne-"giant" yezocansi ezinkulu
Uma uthanda ukumemeza okuningi ngenjabulo kunokuba ubuhlungu, iqhinga elilandelayo lingezakho. U-Debbie Herbenik uthi: "Umfana ophethe i-penis enkulu uhlangothini lwakhe, futhi uhamba phambili, ubeka imilenze yakho mahhala ukulala phezulu," kuchaza uDebbie Herbenik. "Lokhu kuvumela owesifazane ukuba avimbele ukuqhubeka kwe-trunk yakhe ukukhawulela ukuphakama kwezimpikiswano. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuzula iziqhwa, okulula ukukhiqiza kuleso sikhundla, kuholela kalula ekuveleleni okujulile kokungena ngemvume. Ngokusho komqeqeshi wezocansi u-Levine, abesifazane abalingani babo bobulili bahluka ngobukhulu obungaphezu kokujwayelekile kwezitho zokuzala, njengalezi "ezimelelekile". "Bangakwazi ukulawula ukujula kokungena futhi bajabulele ubulili ngaphandle kobuhlungu futhi" baxubise "ipenisi emgodini womlomo wesibeletho ngesikhathi sokungena ezinobudlova kakhulu."
Ukuhleleka okungcono nsuku zonke ngocansi nomlingani "omncane".
Bonke ochwepheshe bayavuma ukuthi ubukhulu bepenisi abubalulekile kakhulu ekufezeni ukwaneliseka okukhulu kokubili. Izici zomuntu ngamunye zomzimba womlingani ziqondiswa kalula ngesikhundla esikhethwe ngokocansi esikhethwe kahle. Ochwepheshe bezocansi batusa kulokhu, konke okufanayo "umgibeli". U-Emmy Livain uchaza ukuthi endaweni engaphezulu yokuthi owesifazane anelise ngokwanele ukushintshela ibhasi ngokuya kwesinye. Kule nkinga, amathuba okuba i-penis encane evela ebesini isincane. "Futhi, isikhundla" sezithunywa zevangeli "ngemilenze ephonswa phezu kwamahlombe womlingani kufanelekile. Lokhu kuzomvumela ukuthi angene ngaphakathi kuwe ngokujulile ngangokunokwenzeka ngobude balobukhulu "bakhe".
Ngithemba ukuthi lezi zincomo zizosiza abesifazane besifazane nabalingani babo abathandekayo abazama ukuhlangana ukuze bafinyelele ukuvumelana ngokobulili.