20+: "O, amandla ami anamandla ..."
Isici esijwayelekile : ama-hormone athathwe kanjani! Egazini nje kuphuma-testosterone, ekhuthaza umfana osemusha ngokuqondile ukuba aqale imisebenzi esebenzayo -yaye eyodwa skirt kanye ne-neckline enkulu (hhayi kuphela eyakhe) ayikwazi ukubonwa, ukuhlukunyezwa okuqhubekayo, isifiso sokusondelana kakade ngosuku lokuqala. Kule minyaka yobudala abantu bazizwa beba yiziqhwaga zangempela zobulili, futhi ngendlela, abade kude neqiniso. Bangakwazi ukwenza uthando kuze kube sekuseni, futhi ekuseni, njengokungathi ngemva kokuphumula okuhle, baya emsebenzini futhi basebenze kuze kube sekukhukhuleni kwesikhombisa. Futhi ebusuku, uphinde uphonswe emotweni, ube nobulili. Njengomthetho, amaphuphu asekhona, futhi uma lokhu kwenzeka, kungenxa yokuthi yini engenzeka ngesikhathi esingekho emthethweni kakhulu. Laba bahloniphekile bahlale bekulungele ukuhlolwa okuvuthayo, kepha kaningi abanakho ukubekezela okwanele. Ngendlela, kuyathakazelisa ukuphawula ukuthi ngaphansi kwegama elithi "ukuhlukahluka" bavame ukuqonda kuphela ushintsho lwe-pose, futhi ngokuqondene nokushintsha kwethempo, uhlobo lwe-preludes ye-Ilaska, konke lapha kunzima kakhulu, kufana netanki. Ekugcineni, ngifuna ukwengeza into eyodwa: ngalesi sikhathi ama-bogatyrs ethu amancane (Yebo, akukona konke okusebenzayo) namanje akwazi ngempela ukulawula ukujula. Ngakho umkhiqizo wenjoloba kufanele ube ngumsizi wakho wemizwa yezinjabulo zenduduzo!
Indlela yokumnika iseluleko . Umqondo onjalo, "okungcono kakhulu isitha sezinto ezinhle" akuhlobene nocansi. Ngakho-ke thatha isithunywa someluleki ohlakaniphile nesineke. Okokuqala, ukuze "ukupholisa ubuciko bakho," ama-hawks aneminyaka engu-20 adinga ukufunda ukulawula ukujula. Lokhu kungasiza ngokuqeqeshwa okulula kwemisipha ye-lnnococcygeal, ngamanye amazwi, imisipha ehilelekile, lapho kubalulekile ukuvimbela inqubo yokuthumela i-malaise yesidingo. Ngakho chaza kumlingani wakho futhi ukhombise ukuthi akulukhuni kakhulu ukuqonda isandulela. Futhi ekugcineni, lapho uneminyaka engu-20, ungazama konke, into eyinhloko oyithandayo futhi ujabulele bobabili abalingani.
30+: i-connoisseur ne-gourmet enhle
Isici esijwayelekile : lesi akusona isikhathi, kodwa umusa wangempela! Ubudlova benyama busobala, futhi lo muntu waba ngcono. Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke anakekele imilenze emincane eya kuye emhlanganweni, kodwa kuphela kulo mzuzu kakade ngeke ahlupheke kakhulu ngemicabango engafanele. Manje sekuyisikhathi sokubonisa i-aerobatics, equkethe isiteji-by-stage edlala ukudlala phambili nokucwaninga ngezindawo ezingekho emakhakheni abesifazane kuphela, kodwa ngabomuntu siqu. Ungumuntu ongenasiphelo, obekezele futhi owazi kahle zonke izifundo ngokuphathelene nokuthi ubungakanani kufanele bulethe izinga. Uyazi kakade ngazo zonke izinhlobo zobulili, wazama futhi wazikhethela yena lokho akudingayo, ukuqeda izinkolelo ezingenangqondo. Lokhu kungukuntuleka kwesikhashana kungadabukisa isithombe sonke: kule minyaka, amadoda azinikela emsebenzini. Abaningi babo kakade banomndeni. Futhi yonke into lapha ihle kakhulu, kufaka phakathi ukulungiswa.
Yisiphi iseluleko kuye. Ingozi kuphela engasongela umuntu kule minyaka ngenxa yokuthi angakwazi "ukushiya ubulili obukhulu" ngenxa yokuntuleka kwesikhathi. Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uphile ngokuvumelana nalolu hlelo: "Ubulili buyigugu eliyigugu!" Futhi uhlushwa umthandi wakho okhathele nge-caresses njalo. Ukukhathala, ukuphumula, kodwa isikhathi eside ukushiya othandekayo ocansini akufanele. Shayela umuntu othandekayo "etafuleni lomzimba" nsuku zonke, ememezela izinsuku ezithile zesonto kuphela ngeyakho. Futhi ungacabangi ngalokhu, ngoba ukusondelana nesimiso kuyisicefe. Ngandlela-thile, uma kuqhathaniswa nobulili obuvamile, lokhu kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokucindezeleka. Futhi enye into - buyekeze imenyu yokucaca kwayo: ukuphuza utshwala, amafutha amancane kanye nokusetshenziswa okuvamile kwama-greenery, amantongomane kanye ne-kefir. Lapha ungakwazi ukwengeza imizwelo yezemidlalo nokuhle.
40+: inoveli nesifiso sayo
Isici esijwayelekile : izinga le-testosterone egazini lomuntu liyancipha kakhulu futhi uqala ukuba nesithakazelo enjabulweni yenyama. Ukunciphisa ukulungiswa kungikhumbuza ngezindlela zokuphila. Amadoda emkhakheni we-"komus forty" kudingeka aqaphele ukuthi utshwala obuningi nge-cock chops abasebenzisa, kaningi abavakashelwe "injabulo" ngezansi kwesinqe. Futhi lokhu konke kungenxa yokuthi i-cholesterol ithinta kabi imithwalo yegazi, kuhlanganise nalabo abahlinzeka ngegazi okwakhiwa. Ngenxa yalokho, buthaka futhi kube umvakashi ongavamile.
Kodwa-ke, "amashumi amane nomsila" uyinhlobo ephikisanayo. Ukuthobeka ngezifiso ngokuvamile kuvame ukuhambisana nomkakhe noma umlingani ovivinywa isikhathi eside empilweni, kodwa hhayi nhlobo mayelana noveli, okuyinto, ngendlela, umuntu efisa kakhulu. Kwezinye izindaba, intshebe emhlophe igcwele kakhulu, kepha idemoni selivele "lingene" embikweni.
Indlela yokumnika iseluleko. URutin yisitha esibaluleke kunazo zonke ngokocansi ngalesi sikhathi. Kusukela kumlingani wakho, le ndoda inezenzo eziphezulu ezivuselela imizwa, kodwa, njengomthetho, akenzi. Lapha kuwe futhi uxoxe ubudlelwane embhedeni wothando. Ukunciphisa kunconywa ukushayela izindlela ezingcono - ividiyo yokuphumula, ukuvakashelwa kwezingubo ze-striptease nezitolo zobulili. Kungaba kuhle ukuhlanganyela umngane nomngane wezifiso zakho ezithandana kakhulu. Umkhuba nje umenzi wobubi futhi ubulala umuntu wonke isifiso socansi.
50+: "Kusenomshini wezibhamu zethu!"
Izici ezijwayelekile : njengomthetho, amalungu obulili obunamandla esikhathini seminyaka ye-seigneurs kakade ayedlulele kulabo futhi ngokuyinhloko konke okuphathelene nesigaba sothando. I-oda iyanciphisa ukulungiswa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kwezinye izimo, ngokuvamile, ukungabi khona kwayo. Futhi iphutha liphelelwe imithwalo yegazi egcwele. Ngendlela, eqinisweni, njengoba kuboniswe ngabathinteli abaningi bezocansi, isizathu esiyinhloko, esiphikisana nocansi, kubhekwa ukuthi akuyona indawo engaphansi kwebhande, kodwa inhloko. Ngesikhathi esiningi umuntu ecabanga ukuthi yiziphi ithemba elidabukisayo, bathi, "akukho lutho kulolu hlelo ngeke lumamathele," amathuba amaningi okufeza imiphumela emincane. Ngakho-ke uma isifiso sisaphila futhi asikho isizathu sokuzihlupha ngokwakho ngokungabaza futhi. Amanye amadoda kulesi sikhathi alula kancane ijubane futhi aye emgomweni ngezinye izindlela.
Ngabe isiphi iseluleko okufanele sinikezwe. Akwanele ukweluleka kulokhu, kufanelekile ukwenza ngokuqondile nangenhloso! "Qala" othandekayo ngosizo lokumomotheka okuthakazelisayo nokukhanga ngokwanele ngesizathu. Ukuvuselela okujulile yilokho okudinga ngempela! I-Ikstati, kuyadingeka ukuthi sibhekane nalolu daba ngobukhulu nokungakhathali. Kubalulekile ukubalula into eyodwa: umlingani akakwazi ukufinyelela "ekugcineni" maduzane, ngakho kufanele uzilungiselele esihlokweni salokho okuzofanele ulinde ukujula. Ngamanye amazwi, owesifazane udinga ukubekezela nokuthokoza okukhulu. Ngendlela, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuthi, njengokungathi ngokusobala ukukhetha kwakho akudluli ngemingcele, usengumuntu omuhle futhi ngomdlandla omkhulu uthatha izinkanuko zokumanga, ukubandakanya okuthakazelisayo, ukukhathazeka nokuzwela. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kuxhomeke kulo wesifazane ukuthi isimo sengqondo salo muntu siyoba kanjani - "kwaba khona icala" noma "kuyakuba khona!".
Futhi ufuna ukwengeza esihlokweni, omunye umuntu wathi esikhathini esingaphezu kweminyaka, abesifazane bafana nenkosikazi yeqhwa, lapho ngisho necala lenkantolo lingavamile, ungakwazi ukuhleka kakhulu futhi uqinisekise ngokuqinile ukuthi kunanoma iziphi izifiso zesilisa ubudala zixhomeke kuphela kusuka kwabesifazane nakubuntu bakhe bobulili, kumuntu oneminyaka engakanani ubudala ohlala ngesimo sakhe semvelo kanye nokukholwa kwakhe, futhi thina besifazane kufanele simsize ukuba akhuthaze ukucabanga kwakhe futhi abuyele emuva! Khumbula, iminyaka yobudala obungewona oyinhloko, isifiso esiyinhloko nokuhlanganiswa kwabo namathuba!