Ngenxa yalokho, owesifazane osemusha olindele ukuba anake noma okungenani abe nokuxhumana okuyisisekelo nengxenye yakhe, uphoqeleka ukuba alungise lezo zimvuthu zamandla indoda engayichitha kuye ekufeni ngemva komsebenzi wakhe othakazelisayo. Yena naye ufuna ukuphumula, futhi ubone, isibonelo, i-TV.
Ukuze atshele iqiniso, kulesi simo, kuyamqonda kuye ukuthi umfazi omusha uthenge noma kwenzekani kumngane wakhe omkhulu. Ngisho noma umqondo wokukhalipha nokuziphatha okuhle ungamvumeli ukuba amise umkakhe masinyane ukuba angakhulumi, izimpendulo ziyize ngokungaqondile noma ziqine kakhulu zizocaca ukuthi ucabanga ngokuphelele kude. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kuziphatha kuhunyushwa ngendlela ehlukile yowesifazane: uqala ukuzwa ukuthi ukukhathazeka nokungafaneleki komyeni wakhe akuyona into ewubufakazi bokungathandi kwakhe. Futhi manje isikhathi sokuphikisana esiye savuthwa, okuyinto, ngokuphindaphinda ngokwesikhathi esivumelanayo, kungabangela ukuphuka ...
Ngakho wenzani?
Hlanganisa nalesi simo noma zama unobtrusively ukuwuguqula? Wonke owesifazane uzimisele ngokwakhe.
Ngena esikhumbeni sakhe
Zama uzicabange endaweni yakhe, okungukuthi, esikhundleni somuntu ohlala esesimweni esicindezelayo ngenxa yesisindo sezibopho ezisekelwe kuye nsuku zonke. Kumelwe anikeze bonke abasebenzi abangu-100, banakekele inhlalakahle yomndeni futhi benze izinto eziningi kangaka ezihlanganiswe igama elingukhiye "kumele". Ngakho-ke, umfazi, ezama ukuhilela umyeni wakhe ekuxazululeni izinkinga ezincane ezikwazi ukubhekana nazo, ingozi yokuba ngumyeni onokuthile okufana nomsebenzi.
Ukwaziswa okuhlukahlukene - izindlebe zakho
Ukuze ukhulume ngama-boutiques, izikhungo zokuzivivinya kanye ne-nail ephukile, kunezinye izilaleli "ezibonga", isibonelo, abangane noma umama.
Umyeni waphinda wamukela uthando olungapheli, mtshele indlela olahlekelwa ngayo uma engekho futhi ukuthi uyakwazisa konke akwenzayo emndenini wakho. Uma izingxoxo ngomsebenzi wakhe zingabangeli ukusabela okwanele, umuntu angazibuza ukuthi usuku lwakhe luhamba kanjani, lokho okwamanje akwenzayo.
Enye indlela ongenakuzizwa ngayo ukukhuluma ngalokho okuthakazelisayo kuye, isibonelo, mayelana nebhola noma mayelana nemodeli entsha yemoto yakhe eyintandokazi yemoto (Yebo, kuleso simo kungcono ukuthi okungenani ube nolwazi oluncane kulezi zihloko, ukuze kungabonakali ukuthi kungcolile okuphelele futhi okungenani kube nokuxhumana okuncane okusemandleni).
Eqinisweni, uqinisekile ukuthi yilo muntu oyingxenye yakho, futhi uzohlala ndawonye uze ugugile kakhulu, ngakho-ke akufanele umthathe nge-niggard encane futhi uphuthele ngaphandle kwesizathu. Yeka ukubuka impilo ngokusebenzisa izibuko zama-rose. Ukuphila - akulona ama-movie e-Hollywood, sodetermine ukuthi yini ofuna ngempela ukubona umndeni wakho.
Dala indlu ofuna ukuyibuyisela kuyo
Ukuthi esidlekeni sakho semindeni bekuhlale kuyisimo esamukelekayo, udinga ukunakekela ezinye zezingxenye zayo ezingenamthetho:
- yenza ikhaya lakho lijabule;
- ukuhlangabezana nomyeni emsebenzini ngokumomotheka okungenakwenzeka ebusweni bakhe;
- bayakwazisa isikhathi esichitha ndawonye, futhi senze ukuze othandekayo aqonde ukuthi lokhu kusho ukuthini kuwe;
- yakha "ibhange lakho lemizwelo emihle", okuzofaka izithombe ezithathwe ngesikhathi sokuphumula okuhlangene, izikhumbuzo ezithandekayo ezivela ekuhambeni, futhi ngezikhathi ezithile ziphinde zibuye ziphinde ziphinde ziphinde zikhokhiswe kahle;
- ungesabi ukubiza umyeni wakho ngokuvulekile bese umbuza ngalokho akuthandayo nokuthi akuphi;
- Yenza umyalo nsuku zonke ngemizuzu engu-10-15 ukuze uxoxe ngokubalulekile kokubili izinto zakho;
- qhubeka uthakazelisa njalo kumyeni wakho, uzitholele umsebenzi ozohlala uhlale unamathele futhi ubambe iqhaza ekuthuthukiseni kwakho. Ngikholelwa, uma unebhizinisi lomphefumulo, ngeke kube khona isikhathi sokukhalaza okungadingekile nokuthola "umyeni wakho;
- cabanga ukuthi lo (cishe uphelele, kodwa kanjani okunye, akuphuzi, akushayi, akuhambi, uthola imali yokuhlinzeka umndeni nezingane), lo muntu wakhetha wena, hhayi omunye umuntu. Ngakho-ke, kufanelwe uthando lwakho nokukhuleka, ukubonga nokuhlonipha.
Futhi ukuqonda izimiso zokuba khona komndeni ovumelanayo kuzosiza inyunyana yakho ibe namandla futhi ingaguquki, naphezu kwazo zonke izithiyo zokuphila.