Ukwesaba Kwabesilisa

Ngokusho kocwaningo lwezazi-psychologists, ukwesaba ngokobulili wesilisa kuhluke kakhulu kubesifazane. Futhi ngisho nokuwadlula ngenombolo. Njengoba amadoda angaboni, cishe u-80% wabo wesaba okuthile phakathi kocansi. Akukho okunye okubhaliwe okuhle, i-macho, i-Kazan ne-Lovelace.

Into ebuhlungu kakhulu

Ucwaningo olusanda kubalwa lwamadoda abaneminyaka eyi-18 kuya kweyengu-50 luhlonze izinkinga ezinkulu eziyisihlanu zobulili. Siwacaphuna ngokuhlehla.

Kwatholakala ukuthi iningi labo bonke abantu besaba umlingani wokukhulelwa ongahlosiwe (84% wabaphenduli). Eqinisweni, le data yajabulisa odokotela nabesifazane ngokufanayo. Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi amadoda abasaqapheli ukuphela kokufakelwa kokukhulelwa njengento. Bayaqaphela ukuthi ukukhipha isisu kuyisono esikhulu. Kodwa, ngeshwa, abakwazanga ukuba obaba, uma besaba ukwesaba lokhu. Ngendlela, ukwesaba okukhulu komlingani wokukhulelwa kungenye yezimbangela ezivame kakhulu zokuntula amandla emadodeni.

Indawo yesibili ngokwesaba abantu besilisa ngokumangalisa. I-70% yengxenye eqinile yesintu iyesaba izintombi! Kuvela ukuthi sekudlule isikhathi lapho ubungcwele bomfazi beyisimo esibalulekile somshado ofanele. Futhi izintombi ezincane azisekho umkhawulo wamaphupho omuntu. Lokho kuleso siphambeko (ukwesaba igazi, izizathu zomzimba noma ezingokwengqondo), akukwaziswa. Uma kuqhathaniswa - abesifazane abangu-38% kuphela abafuni ukuba ngowokuqala ukuba nabafana abashadile.

Amadoda angu-68% ayesaba ukuziqhathanisa namanye amadoda ngendlela yesondo. Futhi akulona okuningi ngesayizi sesithunzi samadoda. Phela, hhayi usayizi kubalulekile, kepha ikhono "lokusebenzisa". Ngokuvamile, ukwesaba kuvela emakhono obulili, ukubonakaliswa okucacile kwemizwa, fantasy yezocansi, ikhono lokuzama - okungukuthi, endizeni yokuhambisana kwengqondo yabalingani. Futhi le ndoda yayidla lapho umlingani ethi umthandi owedlule wayethandana kakhulu, othandekayo, obambelelayo, njll. Yiqiniso, owesifazane ohlakaniphile akasoze aqhathanise esidlangalaleni izidingo zabalingani bakhe. Kodwa amadoda ayesabi nje kuphela ukuthi abesifazane bayakusho ukuthini, kodwa yini abacabanga ngayo.

Iqiniso lokuthi amadoda amaningi ayenokuzigobonga okuncane futhi kuqinisekiswa izibalo. Amadoda angu-46% kuphela asaba ukunganelisi umlingani wabo. Okusho ukuthi ngaphezu kwengxenye yamadoda inakekelwa ukwaneliseka kwezifiso zabo zocansi. Akumangazi ukuthi ngalokhu, abesifazane abaningi abahlali bezwa noma i-orgasm. Ake sithemba ukuthi indoda yakho ingokwama-46% afunayo, futhi okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kocansi akukhathaleli.

Wonke umuntu wesithathu ukwesaba ukuhlolwa kobulili. Omunye wabesifazane uzodumaza lo mlayezo, kodwa iningi lizojabula kuphela - lizoba ngaphansi kwe-skirt ngemuva kwezingubo.

Ezinye izimbangela zabantu besaba

Phakathi kwamanye wesilisa ngokwesaba, sibheka ukwesaba kwenkululeko yabo. Owesifazane, lapho enesilisa, ulindele ukuba akhulume, anakekele, anakekele. Kodwa amadoda ngesikhathi esifanayo azizwa njengempahla yomuntu. Ngabangane, ungaphuzi ubhiya, ungahlali isikhathi eside, ukhulume nami, ake sihambe sodwa ndawonye. Futhi uma kuziwa ezinganeni, amadoda amaningi "aqhuma". Yilokho, akuwona wonke umuntu ozimisele ukudela inkululeko yakhe yokulala ocansini.

Futhi, amadoda azwa ukuthi abathandekayo emehlweni abesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda amahle ngezinye izikhathi azinzima kule ndaba ngaphezu kokuqothula amadoda aphansi namabhomu. Futhi ukwesaba ukungamthandi owesifazane kunamandla, ngokucophelela amadoda aziqaphele ngokwabo (ngaphandle kokuthi, ngokuqinisekile, akusiyo mayelana ne-narcissism).

Amantombazane asetshenziselwa ukwesaba ubulili ngenxa yokwesaba ukubonisa ukungakwazi kwabo. Kodwa kumantombazane amaningi, leli "phutha" ngokuphambene nzuzo enkulu. Isimo sinzima nakakhulu uma ukwesaba kubangelwa ukwesaba ukujula kwe-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda nokunikeza usizo lomqondo kusuka kumlingani wakho. Uma kungenjalo, ukwesaba kuzoba yinkimbinkimbi enkulu yezocansi.