Kwenzeke ukuthi injabulo ikuye kabili kuwe. Futhi okokuqala kwakuyinto esabekayo, uma ungayenza, kunezinjabulo eziningi noma kunjalo. Uthando, futhi. Ngakho-ke, kulula ukuphatha ubusuku bokulala nokukhathala - kungaphezu kokukhokhelwa ukukhulumisana nezingane. Omunye uzocindezela isifuba sakhe, omunye angamemeza ngokucophelela: "Unina ungowami." Futhi usulungele ukuvula izintaba. Nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kukhona isifiso sokufihla izingane zabo lapho kude. Yebo, uyavuma ukuhlukanisa imiphumela ye-pogrom, kodwa-ke. Manje ufuna ukuthatha ikhefu uphinde uphumule kancane, kodwa akusebenzi. Abathakathi baqala ukulwa, futhi kudingeka nje ungenele. "Kuzophela nini?" - uyazibuza ezinhliziyweni zakho. Uhlukanisa, uhlukanise amakamelo, uyavuma. Futhi uyabubula ngokukhululeka. Lena yi-rally. Kodwa-ke, kuzokwenzekani ngokulandelayo? Izingane zikhula. Izingxabano zithinta kakhulu, futhi ngakho konke okudingeka ukwenze. Khona-ke ama-carapouses ahlukanisa uthando lomama wakhe, alwela ithoyizi, bese athola ukuthi ubani ozothola ucezu olukhulu lwe-pie. Isikhathi sokusungula imithetho yokuhlala ngokuthula emndenini.
Ubani omdala?
Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala kuwe ukuthi owokuqala, ogijima nxazonke, ekhuluma kahle futhi eqonda kahle ukuthi yini engakwazi ukuyenza futhi engenakwenziwa, isivele isakhulile kakade. Yebo, kufanele ngiziphathe ngendlela efanele. Khumbula: bobabili abantwana bancane, bobabili badinga i-caress ne-tenderness yakho.
Ukuze ugweme umhawu, sebenzisa ngamunye wabo ngokuhlukile okungenani imizuzu engu-20 ngosuku. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ngempela. Isibonelo, lapho i-karapuz yesibili ilele noma ihlala nguyise. Kubalulekile futhi ukuhlela imidlalo ehlangene nezingane.
Ungaphelelwa ithemba uma ekuqaleni kubonakala sengathi abanesithakazelo sokuthi abafuni ukusebenza ndawonye futhi abaqondi ukuthi bangayenza kanjani. Yiba nesineke, zama ukujabulela inqubo ngokwakho. Futhi emva kwamasonto amabili uzobe umangale, ubukele ukuhleleka, ukuxosha ngomdlandla wemvuthuluka yakho.
Sihlukanisa amathoyizi
"Nikeza, usukhulile!" - Usho okuthile okunjalo? Izingane zasabela kanjani? Owokuqala wahlambalazwa, kanti omncinyane wayenqobile, akunjalo? Hlukanisa izinto zezingane futhi ungabenzi ukuba banikeze amathoyizi abo komunye nomunye. Ngamunye wabo kufanele azwe kuwe inkulumo ethi: "Uma umfowenu (udadewabo) edlala ngokwanele, sizomcela umshini wesikhathi esithile kuwe." Hlala phansi futhi uzwela umenzi wesicelo. Kodwa ngasikhathi sinye, tshela inkosi engapheliyo: "Awusoze wecala ukuthi yena (yena) uphazamisekile. Unelungelo lokuzimela ngokuzenzekelayo ama-cubes akho nezilwane ezincane. "
Esimpendulo salomncane
Yiqiniso, ngifuna umntwana osekhulile ukuba anakekele ingane engekho noma akunike i-diaper, i-pacifier, ibhodlela lamanzi. Kodwa nje njengaye kuye? Izingane zisencane kakhulu azikwazi ukunakekelwa ngokwanele ngisho nezingane ezincane. Futhi ukusho lokhu kubo kungenani okungenalutho.
Ungaphoqeleli owokuqala ukuba anakekele omncane - kungumsebenzi wakho kuphela. Kodwa ungacela usizo. Bonke baphumelela ngokuzithandela? Qinisekisa ukubonga ngenhliziyo yami yonke. Nokho, ungaba namahloni futhi ungacasuli uma ingane ingafuni ukusiza. Futhi, sicela, uma wenza isicelo, ungalokothi usho inkulumo ethi: "Ungumuntu omdala". Lawa magama avunyelwe kuphela uma udumisa owokuqala: "Bheka, ungumuntu omdala. Usuvele ulungile ekugqokeni izicathulo zakho nokuchofoza izinkinobho zakho. " Noma: "Ngiyabonga ngokungilethela ama-overalls of udadewethu - wangisiza kakhulu. Umdala kakhulu. "
Ngaphandle kokuqhathaniswa
Ngesizathu esithile, kucatshangwa ukuthi ukuqhathanisa nezingane zesimo sezulu kuyisisusa esikhulu sokuba babe ngcono (abanokuqonda, abanolwazi, abalalelayo, abakhuthele kakhulu). "Bheka, yimuphi intombazane enhle. Futhi wena? .. "Akuyini ukubiza ukuthuthukiswa? Eqinisweni, izitatimende ezinjalo zenza izingane zibuhlungu, zilimaze ukuzethemba kwazo, zibangele ukungabaza. Banike ngokushesha!
Izingane zakhuthazwa ukuba zithuthukise, okokuqala, ukuvunywa nokubonga. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukudumisa nokugubha ukubonakaliswa kwamakhono wangempela, izifiso ezinhle, imizamo yangempela, izimfanelo ezinhle. Kungaba isifiso sokuqonda okuthile noma ukufunda okuthile, ikhono lokuqoqa izinto ngokubekezela (i-pyramid, iphazili), ikhono lokubona imibala ehlukahlukene yemidwebo. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukufuna ukwazi, umusa nokuzijabulisa. Ngamunye we-pogodkov wakho unamalenta akhethekile kanye nezwe elicebile ngaphakathi. Yilokho okubalulekile kuzo. Yilokho okwenza bahluke.
Yilalela izingane - futhi ngokuqinisekile uzothola isithunzi esivela kubo kuphela. Shayela konke okuhle okubonayo ezinganeni zakho. Ngakho ubasiza bona baqaphele okuhle kakhulu kubo futhi bazizwe behlonipha futhi bezethemba. Futhi abantu ababili abazizwa bengabalulekile akudingeki bafune ukuthola ukuthi ubani obaluleke kakhulu, othandekayo kakhulu, abanolwazi oluningi. Ngaphandle kokuchitha isikhathi ekuphikisana nomhawu, bazokwazi ukufundisa okuningi komunye nomunye. Ngiqaphele ukuthi ngokushesha kangakanani omncintiswaneni owazi kahle le nkulumo, waqala ngokufanele ukwakha imisho? Futhi udlala manje, ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba khona kwakho njalo. Umdala akasabe esethukuthele lapho umntwana ephule umbhoshongo ngomkhumbi, futhi ulinde ngesineke kuze kube yilapho umzalwane noma udade ekhuphuka izitebhisi. Futhi ukuthi uyamvikela kanjani, uyamvikela! Yebo, awunazo izinkinga ezikhethekile zokwakha nokugcina ukuthula emndenini. Futhi ubufakazi balokhu - ubungane obuqinile phakathi kwezingane zisencane.
Hlela ukuchitha isikhathi okuhlangene kwesimo sezulu sakho. Thenga amathoyizi athakazelisayo ukudlala ndawonye, hhayi yedwa. Cubes, isibonelo, eyodwa ifanelana njengento yokwakha, enye - ukufunda amagama ngesiNgisi. Akubalulekile nakancane ukucabangela izithakazelo zamahlumela lapho ukhetha izincwadi. Omunye uthanda izindabakwane, omunye uthanda ukulalela imilolotelo emnandi noma izindaba ngezilwane. Funda amathekisthi, izindaba ezimnandi - zifanele kunoma yikuphi ubudala. Khuthaza izingane ukuba zikhulume. Bavumele bahlanganyele ngokubona kwabo ngalokho abakuthole, babonise imizwelo yabo ngokukhululekile. Futhi-ke, bayathandana futhi wena-abazali babo.