Ukubonakaliswa kokungasebenzi kahle
Amandla, afana nemilenze, aqhume ngaphandle kokuma emoyeni, ukuphuka, ukushaywa, ukuthatha, ukuzwa. Inhloko ijikeleza ama-degrees angu-180 - ngokuzumayo lokho okuthakazelisayo oyokuphuthelwa! Kodwa intshisekelo, ukuba yiqiniso, ilukuluku, i-alas, iyanelisa imizuzwana, futhi ingane ishintshe ngokushesha into ethile, futhi ingaboni ukuthi yikuphi okwenzekayo.
Ukucwaninga akusikho esimweni sakhe. Ukusuka kuye uvele ungazwa "kungani" nokuthi "kungani". Kodwa uma ingane, njengoba ishoyo, izothola, ngemizuzu emihlanu umuntu omdala uzozwa imibuzo engamashumi amabili, futhi akekho oyedwa ozoba nesikhathi sokuphendula. Izingane ezinomthelela kakhulu zikhohlwa ukuthi impendulo kufanele ilalele. Futhi akekho isikhathi. Ungumuntu osebhizinisi, unezinkinga zezinkinga ezidinga ukuxazulula ngokushesha. Futhi okwesikhashana uzokwenza (futhi, nakanjani, angagcwalanga) inombolo eningi yezimo ezihlukahlukene. Mhlawumbe umama uzokwazi ukondla umntanakhe, kodwa ukhetha ukudla ukuma, ephazanyiswa njalo into ethakazelisayo kuneplani yesobho. Ezindaweni zomphakathi ingane enjalo ishaya ngokushesha ukunakwa, ngoba izama ukukhuphuka yonke indawo iphinde ibambe yonke into, inganaki amazwi abazali. Ngempela, akuyona ingane, kodwa inqwaba yamandla abilayo nokubilisa, ukugcina abazali ngokuhlukunyezwa njalo futhi baholele ngezinye izikhathi ukuqeda ukukhathala ngokomzwelo nangokomzimba.
Noma kunjalo, ungasheshi ukubeka ingane yakho ohlwini olungasebenzi. Lokhu kuhlolisiswa, igama layo eliqondile - ukunakekelwa kokulahlekelwa kokulahlekelwa nokucwaswa, kungenziwa kuphela udokotela, isazi sezinzwa zegazi noma isifo sengqondo, bese kuthi ngesisekelo sokuxilongwa okukhethekile. I-Hyperactive akuyona yonke ingane ebilisayo. Iningi lezingane ezineminyaka engu-1.5-2 ubudala zihamba ngokunyakaza kusukela ekuseni kuya kusihlwa. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo banakekelwa kahle futhi bangakwazi ukuwugcina isikhathi eside.
Uma kusadingeka ukuxilongwa
Ngokweqile, abantu abahamba nabo abathathu: ukunakekelwa kwezifo, ukuvinjelwa kwezimoto, ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo. Futhi owake wahlala ekhona njalo. Izingane ezikhuthele kakhulu ezinenkinga yokunakekelwa azikwazi ukugxila isikhathi eside kunoma imuphi umsebenzi owodwa, ukunakwa kwayo kulula ukuyiheha, kodwa cishe akunakwenzeka ukuyigcina - "iqhuma" kusuka kwesinye isihloko kuya kwesinye. Ingane izwa lapho ikhuluma, kepha ayifuni. Akakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wedwa, noma ngabe wayithatha ngenkuthalo. Umsebenzi odinga ukukhuthazela nokuhlushwa kuyisimanga futhi ayamukeleki kuye.
Imoto iyaboniswa ngethuba. Izingane azikwazi ukuhlala zinyama, zingaphumule kancane, zidlala imidlalo ehamba phambili ehamba phambili, yenza ukunyakaza okungahambi kahle, yenza imisebenzi edinga ukuhlala, - ingxoxo ngezinyawo, chofoza ngeminwe yakho. Futhi, ekugcineni, ukucindezela, noma ukuthambekela kokusheshisa kakhulu, izenzo ezingenangqondo. Indoda ilungele ukuphendula ngaphambi kokuba ibuzwe, ayikwazi ukulinda isikhathi sakhe; akafuni ukulalela imithetho, futhi isimo sakhe sengqondo sishintsha njengesimo sezulu entwasahlobo. Izingane ezingenangqondo ngokuvamile azicabangi ngemiphumela yokuziphatha kwazo, ngakho zivame ukungena ezimweni eziyingozi.
Yini eyenza ukungahloniphi? Ezimweni eziningi, inkambo yokukhulelwa - i-oksijeni yindlala yesisu, isongela isisu; ukubhema, ukucindezeleka; ngaphambi kwesikhathi, umsebenzi ophuthumayo noma owedlule, ukuhlukunyezwa kwe-craniocerebral, i-severe, i-fever high, izifo ezibangelwa amagciwane nezifo ezithathelwanayo eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila, nezinye izimbangela.
Lokhu kuyesikhashana
Ukwelashwa, uma kunesidingo, kunqunywe udokotela. Phela, ukucindezeleka akuyona i-prank, hhayi ukuphazamisa, kodwa ukukhubazeka okunzima. Njengoba izingane ezingenakulungiswa zikwazi ukungaboni kahle, umuntu kufanele axhumane ngobumnene nangenhliziyo ezolile: banobucayi kakhulu futhi bamukela isimo sengqondo sabathandekayo, "basho" kalula ngemizwelo emihle nangemihle. Ukufundisa izingane ezikhuthele kakhulu akulula.
Dumisani ingane yakho yonke into encane: izingane ezingasebenzi zizinaki amazwi, kodwa zizwela kakhulu ekudumiseni. Zama ukunikeza ukuhlolwa okuhle kwengane, futhi okungalungile - ezenzweni zakhe. "Uyizinyane elihle, kodwa manje wenza into engalungile, kungcono ukukwenza ngokuhlukile."
Hlela imisebenzi efanele amakhono wengane. Lahla isilingo sokubhalela izinyane ngokushesha emibuthanweni emihlanu. Lokhu kuzoholela ekukhathaleni nasenjabulo engokomzwelo nakakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuphendula esecaleni somntwana, funda kwabayishumi bese uzama ukupholisa imizwelo. Ukwesaba kwakho kuyothuthukisa umuzwa ofanayo wengane.
Qhubeka njalo ngezijeziso, futhi ngokuvuza. Ukujeziswa, uma ungakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwalo, kumele ulandele ngokushesha izifundazwe. Cabanga ngombuso wosuku lomntwana futhi uwenze ngokuqinile. Ingane kufanele ikwazi ukuthi kufanele ivuke nini, idle, hamba ukuhamba. Zama ukumathisela i-karapuza emidlalweni yeselula, lapho kuyobe khona ukusetshenziswa kwamandla okuvula amandla. Kunconywa ukuthi uthathe imidlalo yezingane, etholakale eneminyaka yobudala nangokwemvelo. Futhi ukuthuthukisa ingane engasebenzi kahle okungenani ukukhuthazela, kuyadingeka ukumfundisa ukuthi adlale imidlalo ethule, isibonelo, i-mosaic, i-lotto, i-dominoes. Usizo nezincwadi - zingakwazi ukuthatha ingane isikhathi eside.
Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isicelo somntwana asiqukethe imiyalo eminingi ngesikhathi esisodwa, uma kungenjalo ingane ngeke ikuzwe noma yenza ingxenye eyodwa kuphela yalokho okuceliwe kuye. Izingane ezinjalo zivame ukusola ukuthi azikho emqondweni, kodwa akunjalo. Ngane nje ingane ayikwazi ukuthola izicelo eziningana ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi akunakwenzeka ukumkhulisa - ingane ekhuthele kakhulu ekuboneni kokuqala ayinakuqondiswa. Kodwa uma kuba nzima kakhulu, khumbula ukuthi ekukhuleni, nakwezinye izingane ngaphambili, ukuguquka kokudlulela kudlula. Yiqiniso, bazali abathandekayo, uma usiza ingane engasebenzi kahle ngokungaboni ukunakekela lesi simo.