Izenzo zokuzilibazisa zezingane nezakhi zokuzilibazisa zakhiwa kuye ngokuthi uneminyaka nobani obathandayo. Ezinye izingane zenza izinto zokuzilibazisa, zibuka abazali bazo. Kodwa akuzona zonke izinto zokuzilibazisa zezingane ezichazwe isizukulwane esidala. Umuntu akakwazi ukungazibali izici eziphathelene nezakhi zofuzo, lapho ingane ibonisa ithalenta engekho uyise noma unina. Isibonelo, unomqondo okhulayo womculo, futhi akekho noyedwa wabazali bakho owake wazama ukuthatha ithuluzi lomculo. Cishe, ingane yakho isamukele izakhi zofuzo.
Indlela yokunquma ukuthambekela kokudala kwengane?
Ngokujwayelekile, amathalenta wezingane namakhono obuhlakani aqala ukuvela ezinganeni zisencane kakhulu, kusukela eminyakeni emibili ubudala. Abazali babalulekile ngesikhathi sokubheka futhi basekele ingane ebaluleke kangaka kuye. Izingane ezinamathelenta azivamile. Ngokuvamile ingane ihlala iseshayo njalo. Kulokhu, izinto zokuzilibazisa zezingane zihambisana kakhulu. Khona-ke uthanda ukuhlukanisa amathoyizi bese engeza into emisha emininingwaneni eholelekile, futhi emva kwamahora ambalwa usuvele ungumculi omkhulu okhombisa wonke amakholomu akhe atshalakale. Ngakho-ke, izingane zifuna "I" yazo, zizama ukuqonda ukuthi zinomphi umphefumulo, yini esiseduze nabo. Ingane iyaqaphela ezenzweni zakhe zokuzilibazisa. Enye into uma ingane ingenasithakazelo kunoma yini, ayikho into yokuzilibazisa. Akukho okwenzekayo ngokwayo. Ngakho-ke abazali, bebeyingane ekugunyazeni okungenakuphikiswa, baqala ukumtshela ukuthi yikuphi uhlobo lokuzilibazisa okufanele abe nalo nokuthi yini ezithakazelisayo nezokuzilibazisa ezithuthuka ngokwakho. Ngenxa yalokho, izinyane lazinqothula izinkanuko zakhe, ekugcineni, zalahleka intshisekelo kukho konke. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungadluli ngokusesha i-hobby. Uma uphinde ulayishe ingane yakho ngezigaba ezihlukene, umzimba wakhe ukhathele kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokho, ubuthakathaka jikelele kanye nezifo ezihlukahlukene ngalesi sisekelo singabonakala. Qala ngento eyodwa kuphela. Futhi ungayinikeli i-choir, uma nje uphupha ngokubona ingane yakho eminyakeni embalwa kunomunye umncintiswano wengoma. Uma ezama ukudweba - myisa esikoleni sobuciko; udansa lapho ezwa umculo - ngokudansa njalonjalo. Thatha ingane yakho ukunakekelwa okukhethekile, uzokwethula amakhono akhe kuwe.
Ungayithola kanjani into yokuzilibazisa ngokuthanda kwakho?
Namuhla kunezinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zokwahlukana kwazo zonke izinhlobo zemibuthano yabantwana beminyaka yonke. Ezinganeni zokuzilibazisa nokuzilibazisa, abazali baqala ukuzibuza ukuthi ingane ingameminyaka emibili noma emithathu kuphela. Ngempela, kunzima kubazali ukuthi banqume futhi benze isinqumo esifanele ngenxa yalokhu noma lokho okuzilibazisa nokuzilibazisa, ukukhomba kusuka emibuthanweni yezingane eziyikhulu kuphela ezimbalwa ezithandwa kakhulu ngumntanakho. Ngokuvamile senza amaphutha, sizama ukuphoqelela izingane ukuthi zona ngokwazo azikwazi ukuzibona ebuntwaneni babo. Isibonelo, umama wayefuna ukufunda ukudweba, kodwa ngaphandle kwamakhono akhethekile, akazange aqaphele leli phupho. Futhi ngokuzumayo uyathola indlela yokuphuma - ayizange iphumelele kimi, iyoba yindodakazi yami. Ngakho uqala ngazo zonke izindlela ukuphoqa intombazanyana isidingo sokuya esikoleni sobuciko, esikhundleni sokuqonda ukuthi yini ngempela ingane enesithakazelo kuyo, lokho akuthandayo.
Ukugcina impilo yengane kunezigaba ezehlukene zezemidlalo: i-yoga, i-karate, ibhola lebhola, i-volleyball, i-tennis, i-skating kanye nabanye abaningi. Bayosiza ingane yakho ukuba ihlale kahle, izokuthuthukisa umoya wezemidlalo kuye. Isigaba sokubhukuda siphelele izingane. Esigodini somntwana singanikezwa eminyakeni emithathu. Ukubhukuda kwakha yonke imisipha futhi ingenye yemidlalo ewusizo kakhulu. Hlakulela impilo emzimbeni, futhi udale isithombe esihle semidlalo ukudansa. Yikuphi okumele ukhethe umbuzo obunzima kakhulu. Phakamisa izinketho ezimbalwa ze-crumb, masiyeke lapho ezithakazelisa kakhulu kuye. Ngezici ezicashile nezokudala, izingxenye zokufanisa, umculo, ukudweba, i-macrame, nezinye ziphelele. Bazosiza ingane yakho iveze yona.
Iminyaka yezingane iyahamba ngokushesha kakhulu. Siza i-crib yakho ibenze ngokuzuzisa nesithakazelo.