Izinhlobo zamalungelo okuziphatha ngokocansi

Akekho ozophikisana iqiniso lokuthi sonke sihlukile - wonke umuntu unencwadi yakhe eyintandokazi, indlela yokukhuluma, isitayela sezingubo. Ezocansini, sonke sihlukile, futhi, ngoba wonke umuntu unesimo sengqondo sobulili. Nguye ositshela lokho esikuthandayo nokuthi siziphatha kanjani embhedeni. Iyini isimo sakho socansi? Kungani efana nalokhu, hhayi enye?

Abantu abakwazi ukuzithiba isikhathi eside, njengombuso, banomqondo ophansi . Abantu abanjalo ngaphambi kokuba bangene, cabanga izikhathi eziyikhulu. Baze bacabange nangenjabulo engenangqondo ngaphandle kokuqala isikhathi eside ne-ahov. Futhi ubulili besici esingenabuzwayo abukisiwe ngokuphelele.

Amadoda anezimo ezincane ngokuvamile ahlanganiswe (afaneleka ukudansa nemidlalo), aphezulu, anesiginci sezwi "tenor". Amadoda anesimo sengqondo avame ukukhethwa amantombazane ashintshwe othandweni - ngenxa yobumnene bokuthi abesifazane babone amadoda ase-satellite athembekile.

Abesifazane abanomoya ophansi basuke behle kakhulu - banamehlo amakhulu, izinwele ezibucayi ezinomzimba, ubuso obushelelayo - obumangalisa, kodwa izinga eliphakeme le-estrogen (amahomoni wesifazane) likhuthaza ukuzonda ngokocansi. Abesifazane abanezimo ezinjalo zokushisa badinga i-caresses yokuqala, futhi akudingekile ukuba baphele ngocansi.

Abaningi bethu banesimo sokulinganisela ngokobulili . Abantu abanjalo bayakwazi ukwenza i-dolgovderzhavatsya yezocansi, futhi bayakwazi ukuchitha ubusuku obuvunguvungu ngomoya oshisayo.Kunzima ukubiza ice, kodwa abafanga ngaphandle kocansi.

Ingxenye enamandla yesintu enobubele obunjalo ingakwazi ukulawula kalula izifiso zayo. Amadoda anjalo avame ukuthanda kakhulu, kodwa akwazi ukulawula uthando lwabo. Amadoda anjalo ane-celiacs enkulu, ukwakha okuphakathi, zonke izingxenye zomzimba wazo ziyavumelana.

Abesifazane abanesizotha esinjalo banomphefumulo ozinzile. Abesifazane abanjalo bangakwazi ukujwayela kokubili isizungu nokuphila ngokocansi. Abesifazane abanesimo sengqondo esinjalo babhalwe ngokuphelele, banomthethosisekelo oqinile womzimba.

Abantu abanesizotha esiphakeme ngokobulili ngokuvamile abanalo ubuhle, kodwa banesikhalazo esinamandla. Ngaphambi kwalabo bantu kunzima ukumelana nabo, bahle kakhulu. Abantu abanesizotha bavuthiwe ekuqaleni, bafaka impilo yezocansi ekuqaleni (ngaphambi kokuthola ilayisense yokushayela kanye nepasipoti) futhi bahluke ekutheni bafunde, kepha sebevele bekhulile.

Ingxenye enamandla yabantu abanesizotha kaningi ngesibindi ngokwanele, ngokuthakazelisayo, enganeliseki, ngezinye izikhathi ezihlambalaza. Amadoda anjalo ahlakulela imisindo, izwi eliphansi, ukukhula okuphansi, ukwanda "kwezinwele", okuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi i-superciliary arches, izici ezibukhali, i-chinning bulging.

Abesifazane abanalesi simo sengqondo bavame ukuba nesifuba esihle, basuke begcwele futhi bephansi. Ukuhleka kwabo ngokomzwelo kuvame ukwelapha, iphimbo le-pectoral lingu-hypnotic, ngaphezu kwalokho, bangathola ama-orgasms angu-10 ngomzuzu.

I-temperamento Freud yobulili

Lokhu kwaziwa yi-psychoanalyst ngayinye ngendlela yakhe eyahlukanisa abantu futhi kwakulungile. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi wayeluqinisile, udinga ukwazi ukuhlukaniswa kwakhe.

Uhlobo oluthile lwabantu. Lolu hlobo lwabantu luyi-1/4 yenani labantu. Lolu hlobo lwabantu, kungakhathaliseki ubulili, luthandana ngqo kule ndawo. Abantu abanjalo bagxila emizwa yabo, abanesidingo, abathintekayo futhi bezwela kakhulu. Ngokuvamile zivaliwe, zingabantu abancibilikisayo noma abantu abane-phlegmatic. Ezocansini, kubalulekile ucabange ukushayeka, ukuthinteka, ukuxubha.

Uhlobo locansi lubhekwa njengento ehlukumezayo. Lolu hlobo lwabantu lukhangwa ngokobulili, olubhekene nokukhangwa kocansi oluqinile. Ngokuvamile zilula, zishintsha futhi zilinganisela, azikhuthazi izigameko zobulili obuhlukile. Ngocansi, abantu abanjalo babona isidingo esinempilo kuphela.

Uhlobo lomlomo luvame kakhulu. Uhlobo lwabantu abanjalo luyakuthanda ukumanga, ngoba umlomo uyindawo ehlukumezayo. Zivulekile, zemizwelo, zisebenzayo, zikhuluma. Kubo, ubulili buyindlela yokuxhumana, ubulili kumele bube nengxenye engokwengqondo: indlela yokuzizwa yona kanye nezwe, intshisekelo noma uthando phakathi kwabantu ababili.