Futhi lokhu akumangazi, isimo nesimo semvelo somuntu wesifazane, sinendawo yokuthintana nomuntu. Futhi kakhulu, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kunezikhathi lapho kufika ukucacisa ukuthi indoda enikezwa yisikhathi se-Nth akuyona into enhle owesifazane oyifunayo. Kunezizathu eziyinkulungwane zokuthanda indoda. Yiqiniso, lokhu kubonakala ngokuyinhloko, futhi okwesibili, ukuhlakanipha nokuhlakanipha kwakhe.
Uhlamvu olubalulekile lufakiwe, olubandakanya ubuhlungu, isibindi, isibindi nezinye izimfanelo eziningi. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi, ngisho nokuba khona kwabo akusho ukuthi yilokho umuntu owesifazane owufunayo empilweni. Futhi, ke kufika isikhathi lapho uhlukanisana nomuntu. Ngisho noma uthando lwesifazane luyaqedwa, akukaze kube umzuzu olula futhi olula empilweni. Ngokuvamile, lezi zinqubo zihambisana nezimo ezicindezelayo, ngenxa yokuthi abesifazane abaningi banomuzwa wokuthi banecala lapho beqala ukuhlukanisa ngobulili obuqinile.
Izizathu zokuhlukanisa nendoda ethandekayo, ingahluka ngokuphelele. Ngokwezibalo, ezimweni eziningi, isizathu sokuhlukaniswa kwamadoda nabesifazane ngenxa yodlame lwasekhaya. Ngokuvamile, lapho umuntu esebenzisa amandla enqindi, ukuze axazulule ingxabano yomndeni. Ubudlova basekhaya buyagwetshwa umthetho, kodwa hhayi kakhulu ukuthi owesifazane angazizwa, avikelwe.
Futhi ukuhlukanisa kungaqala futhi kuyingozi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi inhlanganisela yazo eningi kumuntu. Cha, akukhulumi ngemikhuba enjengokubhema. Ingxenye evame kakhulu ukuhlukaniswa ngenxa yokusebenzisa ngokweqile utshwala, noma izidakamizwa zezokwelapha. Njengomthetho, ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezinjalo ze-psychotropic kubangela ukuwohloka kwezimo zokuphila kanye nenduduzo yomndeni. Indoda inzima kakhulu ukulungisa. Isimo esingavamile uma ummeli wesifo esinamandla kakhulu angakwazi ukulawula lesi simo. Ekhuluma ngokulawula, ngakho-ke, ngenxa yobunzima obuthakathaka bomuntu, ngokuqondile, isimo sakhe esingalawuliwe emndenini noma ngombhangqwana, owesifazane akakwazi ukuma, futhi uyisunguli sokuhlukanisa. Izizathu ezinjalo ezibalulekile, lokhu kuvame kakhulu, okwenzeka hhayi eRussia kuphela, kodwa nakwamanye amazwe amaningi emhlabeni.
Izizathu zokushiya indoda ethandekayo, lezi zizathu ezibalulekile. Owesifazane ngeke akhathaze umndeni induduzo nenduduzo. Ngezinye izikhathi, kungukuthi amadoda ngokwawo kudingeka adinga ukungalungi kanye nezenzo zabo ezisebenzisayo kwabesifazane. Isizathu sokuhlukaniswa kwamadoda nabesifazane, singasebenza njengesichungechunge sokungaqondani, okubonakala phakathi kwabameleli bobulili bobabili ngemuva kwesikhathi esiqondile sokuhlala ndawonye. Utshwala, ubudlova, izidakamizwa, ukungabi nalutho, akulona uhlu olwanele lokuba owesifazane aphenduke futhi avule umnyango. Izikhathi lapho umbono "wamalungelo wabesifazane" kanye "nenqubomgomo yobulili" elahlekile yalahleka ehlobo. Kubaluleke kakhulu manje ukugcina ubudlelwane bomunye nomunye ukuze kutholakale ubudlelwane bomndeni wangempela. Okokuqala, ngokungangabazeki, kubalulekile ukuba owesifazane enze imizamo eminingi. Indoda idinga ukufundiswa, futhi akufanelekile konke ukubeka konke entanyeni yakhe bese uhlakulela uhlamvu olungenalutho kuye.
Izizathu zokuhlukanisa nomuntu wakho othandekayo zingase zihluke, kepha umphumela ungenye. Ngokungangabazeki, ukuze ugweme izimo ezicindezelayo, udinga ukwazi isikhathi lapho udinga ukushiya buthule.