Akusilo ngalutho ukuthi ososayensi baseBrithani, lapho bezama ukuhlola uchungechunge lweso elivamile lomuntu, bathola isici esiyingqayizivele sabesifazane. I-angle yokubukwa yowesifazane wesilinganiso esiphezulu idlula ukubuyekezwa kweso lesilisa ngama-degree angu-30-40! Lokhu kuyiqiniso futhi awukwazi ukuphikisana naye. Umphumela walesi sibonelo ukuqinisekiswa ukuthi abesifazane abaphenduleli amakhanda abo kumuntu ongajwayelekile, kodwa babona imibono yakhe njengendlela ehamba ngayo ikhanda. Kuvela iqiniso elithakazelisayo nakakhulu, yini eyenza amantombazane aqaphele lapho ebona umfana, ngokuvamile umomotheka futhi uhlamvu jikelele alugcini ngaphezu kwamasekhondi angu-1-3.
Uma kuqhathaniswa nesimiso sesilisa sokuhlola owesifazane, okuhlanganisa ukuhlaziywa okuningiliziwe kowesifazane kusukela enhlokweni kuya enzwaneni, kuthatha imizuzwana engaphezu kwengu-5. Zonke lezi zivivinyo ezingenabuhlungu nezithakazelisayo nezivivinyo kubantu abanobulili obuhlukile ziphakamisa ukuthi noma yimuphi owesifazane uhlakaniphile kakhulu kunamadoda ngesisekelo sezinto eziyinhloko zemvelo futhi lokhu kufanele kubekezelelwe yingxenye enamandla yabantu. Izembatho nazo zinendima encane ekwenzeni ukunakwa kwentombazane. Umbala onobuhle, onokwemfashini, okhethiwe kahle wezingubo zomfana uzokulalela ngisho nentombazane eyaziqhenya kakhulu. Futhi uma kusengumdlalo wenkathi, impumelelo yokuheha isigamu esithandekayo nesicathulo somuntu iqinisekiswe ngu-50%.
Lo mfana kufanele nje athole iminwe yakhe futhi amomotheka, futhi ngaphambi kokuba abe nesikhathi sokucabanga nganoma yini, intombazane iyomphendula ngokumomotheka futhi inentshisekelo enkulu kumuntu wayo. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi yonke intombazane esesiteji sokuthuthukiswa kwayo ngokobulili ikhula engqondweni yakhe kanye nohlobo lokukhetha kwakhe esikhathini esizayo. Kamuva, lapho ugxila kumuntu ongaziwayo, ubonakala ezama ukucabanga kwakhe kumuntu wangempela. Ngengozi ye isithombe esitshalwe ngokugcwele esinomuntu wangempela phezu kwemingcele eminingi, kunentshisekelo enkulu kakhulu. Futhi ukuthuthukiswa kwemicimbi kakade kuncike ekutheni akwazi ukuziphatha uma ehlangana nomfana. Inamandla amakhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo engabonakali kwabanye abazwa ukuthi kubalulekile ukunikeza ukunakekelwa okukhulu kumuntu kunelisekile kuphela ngokuzijwayeza.
Intombazane ilalelisisa kakhulu kubafana ngokungabonakali kwemvelo, ehlanganisa amandla akhe amnandi nokuzinza kwengqondo kusukela ngomzuzu wokuqala wokuqala womhlangano. Abantu abaningi bakubiza ngokuthi uthando ekuqaleni kokubona! Kodwa ungasheshi, uma kuthandana, ngakho ngeke kukuthathe isikhathi eside ukuzifihla. Ngokushesha uzoqonda ukuthi konke okukhona kuleli zwe kunezindawo zayo kanye nesiphetho kulungile kubo bonke abantu emhlabeni wethu. Phela, uthando lugxila kakhulu futhi kuhambisana nomfana nentombazane.