Abesifazane aba "besyat" amadoda ...

Omunye nomunye wesifazane ofanayo angabangela kokubili uthando nokucasula nendoda yakhe. Akuyona imfihlo. Lokhu kungukuphila. Futhi "umzabalazo wobulili" njalo uholela ebuhlungu ebuhlotsheni. Ukuvota kwezenhlalo kubonisa ukuthi ezinye zezici zabesifazane banamuhla ziyacasula, futhi ngezinye izikhathi zilahlekelwa amadoda. Abesifazane aba "besyat" amadoda ...
Ngokumangalisayo, iningi lamadoda anesimo sengqondo esibi ngokuqondene nomuntu othumayo. Njengokungathi ucansi ngomqondo we-philistine wokungafani nomuntu obhema ugwayi omncane esandleni sakhe, amadoda avela wona akuwona umbono omuhle kakhulu.

Futhi, iningi lamadoda, ephendula ngokuqinile kowesifazane onomusi, ngokwabo abalandeli balo mkhuba owonakele.

Ngokusobala, konke "okujabulisayo" kokuphila kogwayi (iphunga elibi emlonyeni, i-plaque ephuzi emazinyo, isikhumba esiphuzi seminwe, njll) kuhlongozwa kuwo owesifazane obhema onamandla kabili.

Eqinisweni, izazi zezokwelapha zichaza ukuthi abantu basabela kanjani, kusukela ekuqondeni kwabo okungaqondakali komzimba wesifazane, futhi isidalwa, esibizwa ngokuthi imvelo ukuba sithwale ubuhle nempilo, sishiya ingqondo yabo ejulile nge-cigarette.

Ngentukuthelo, amadoda avela kwabesifazane abonisa ukuthi bayaziqhenya. Kungani "ngokusobala"? Ngenxa yokuthi iningi labesifazane abavumelani nokuchazwa kokuziphatha kwabo esimeni sokukhonkolo njengoba sizidlayo, futhi kumuntu kuyoba njalo.

Ukugxila ebuhlotsheni kanye nokukhulumisana nobulili obuhlukile kubeka izithiyo ekuqondeni, ngakho-ke, ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo yokuthukuthela kuqhuma imizwelo emibi.

Kodwa nokho kukhona abesifazane, ngokusobala babonisa umugqa othile wokuziphatha kubantu. Ngokuvamile kuthiwa "i-bitch".

Amadoda amaningi, okuthiwa yi-"bitch" alahlekile. Ngokungangabazeki, lokhu akuyona ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle kwale ncazelo, kuyisiko ukubiza amabhodi, hhayi kuphela izidalwa ezinamahloni, okungaxolisi, kodwa, kunalokho, abaphumelelayo, ibhizinisi, abesifazane abathandekayo, abahlale beqiniseka ngokwabo futhi bengenzi ukuyekethisa.

Owesifazane ophethe zonke izibonakaliso zokuziphatha kwe-muzhskogo, yebo, ukungaboni kahle "okuhlangene" nejuzhchinu.

Esinye isigaba sabesifazane banamuhla, i-muzhchin ecasulayo - umholi wesifazane, umphathi wesifazane.

Ngokumangalisayo, abesifazane abangakwazi ukuma, behlisa izandla zabo ekuhlulekeni kokuqala, njengamadoda angamanje anomsindo njengama-antipodes - bitch awo.

Amanye amadoda athukuthele uma beqonda ngokungazelelwe ukuthi owesifazane uzama "ukuwasebenzisa". Kuyaqondakala, ukulahlekelwa kokulawulwa kwamadoda kuyisimo esibucayi, futhi ukuziqhenya nokudlala kanye nabaningi babameli besilisa kuyabhekwa ngokungalungile.

Nazi izibonakaliso eziyinhloko zowesifazane, okwazi ukucasula umuntu.