"Angikuzanga," kusho i-heroine uJulia Roberts, oyisifebe ku-movie ethi "Woman Pretty." Kwabanye, le nkulumo iwuphawu locansi oludumile, olungenalo ngisho nesithunzi sesithandani.
Hlanganisa ngezincazelo
Ubulili bomlomo buyenziwa cishe wonke umuntu olala naye. Bambalwa abakwazanga ukuvuma ukuthi "akufanele banambithe" - ngomqondo wangempela nangokomfanekiso. Kodwa abantu abanjalo bakhona, futhi azikho ezimbalwa zazo. "Ngisho nasengxoxweni phakathi kwabo, akulula abesifazane ukuthi bavume ukuphikiswa kwe-fallatio. Abangane bami abaningi bathi bayayithanda, ngoba bafuna ukunikeza umbono wamahhala, abesifazane abangenakulinganiswa. Kodwa empeleni, lokhu akulona iqiniso ngempela. " Omunye akayithandi ukunambitheka noma ukuvumelana komuthi, ukunyakaza komuntu komuntu wesilisa emlonyeni kubangela ukucabanga okuhlanza. Kukhona namadoda angasoze anikela umlingani ukwenza i-cunnilingus. "Ngokungafani nobulili besifazane, isilwane, ukunambitha, ukuthinta, nokuzwa iphunga kuhilelekile. Kwenzeka ukuthi ukubukeka komuntu kuyamjabulisa, futhi iphunga layo lidala ukungcolisa. Ukucwaninga emkhakheni wezinzwa ze-neurology kuye kwafakazela ukuthi abesifazane bakhangwa kakhulu kulabo madoda abanobuhle babo abufani nephunga likayise. Ngakho-ke kukhona ukukhetha okungazi lutho kwezakhi zofuzo zokuzalwa kwenzalo enamandla. Inendima ebalulekile ekulalaneni ngomlomo idlalwe ngohlanzekile. Uma imithetho yayo ilandelwa, ngokuvamile lo mkhuba uvusa umlingani. Ubandlululo kuphela noma isipiliyoni esingakalungi ngaphambili singaphazamisa. Ukumemeza ngokuhlanganyela kanye nokweqa kuyingxenye yokusebenzisana ngokocansi kwazo zonke izilwane, lapho thina, abantu, singabakho. Okumangalisa ukuthi, yilokho okungagcina ucansi lomlomo. Ukuhlehliswa - kusho ukufana nesilwane.
Zizwa zikhululekile kakhulu
Khumbula ukuthi ubulili buyinto yokwenza izinto ngokuzenzekelayo. Lapha ungadlala, ufike ngokuthile okusha, zama futhi, ujabulele inkululeko yakho, uzizwe ukhethekile futhi ujabulele iqiniso lokuthi wonke amalungelo owakho angezethu. Zama izindima ezintsha. Ubulili bubonisa ikhono lokunikeza nokwamukela, ukwethemba nokwamukela ukwethemba, ukubusa nokulalela. Imisebenzi ayinikezwa kanye kanye naso sonke, singayishintsha futhi size nezintsha. Ungangeni ekuphoqelelweni. Ezocansi, umdlalo kuphela "wobudlova" uvunyelwe - ukuphoqelela akuyona indawo. Phela, ukuziphatha ngokobulili kungenye yezinkanuko zezifiso zethu. Uma sinamahloni okuhlanganyela ocansini ngomlomo, akukho mqondo ngokuphoqelela ukwenza lokhu. Kunezinye izindlela eziningi zokuthola nokunikeza injabulo. Kwabanye, ubulili bomlomo bungavumelana nokufanelana ngokocansi. Ngisho nangaphambi kokuqala kocansi, intsha iyaphumelela isikhathi, ithole ukwaneliseka ngokocansi, ijabule izindawo ezingekho emthethweni ngaphandle kokuthinta izitho zangasese (kisses, hugs, stroking, ukuxubana ngokuhlanganyela kwezitho zangasese ngokusebenzisa izingubo, njll). Futhi kuphela lapho kudlulela ekukhuthazeni izitho zangasese ngezandla nokuvuselela ngomlomo. Mhlawumbe, ngenxa yalesi sizathu, umuntu othile ubona ukuthi i-caresses yomlomo iyindlela elula yokulala ngobulili. " Ukukhuluma ngezocansi kaningi kunabanye, imibhangqwana emisha ehlala ezindaweni lapho isiko sidinga ukulondolozwa kwentombi ngaphambi kokushada, ukuhlala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuvinjelwa kwenkolo emlonyeni womlomo kusekhona. Kodwa lapha, futhi, akukho mqondo owodwa: yilokhu okwenzeka kwezinye izimo ukuthuthukisa injabulo, ukuyifaka ngomqondo wokuphulwa kwezingubo zangaphambili.
Umbuzo wokujula kwemizwa
Umlomo ungenye yezindawo ezingavamile kakhulu zomzimba wethu. Ukuzimisela noma ukwenqaba ukucindezela umlingani ngezindebe nolimi kubonisa ukuthi kunjani, noma ngokuphambene, ukusondelana nokuthembela kulezi zindatshana akwanele. "Ngothando oluvamile, kunokuthandana okungaphezu kokunye kocansi. Yonke iminyaka eyishumi yokucindezeleka kwakhe uLaura wazama ukuqonda ukuthi kungani i-fallatio ne-kisses ngokungazelelwe iba yinto enyanyekayo kuye. Wafunda amabhuku, alalela lokho abantu abakude nemibuthano ehlukile beshoyo. Ngaze ngafika ezinkampanini zeqembu le-psychotherapy ukuze ngizibonele. Ngangihlaba umxhwele kakhulu indaba yowesifazane oyedwa ovela eqenjini, u-Olga. Wayezonda ukumanga, umcabango we-blowjob, wamenza wakhathazeka, futhi ngocansi wayethanda ukuthi lo mlingani umlandele. Kodwa ngelinye ilanga wasithandana kunanini ngaphambili. Futhi ngokuzumayo wayefuna konke lokhu. Yaphenduke konke impilo yakhe yesondo. Wabe engu-54 ngaleso sikhathi. " Ukuhlanganyela ocansini ngomlomo, sibona ngqo phambi kwezitho zobulili zomlingani. Ahlukile kweyethu - futhi lokhu kungase kungathandi. Kodwa umuzwa onamandla usiza ukunqoba ubutha. Izinzwa ezintsha nemizwelo igcwele ikhanda, futhi injabulo iqala kuqala ngaphezu kwenkohliso. Ngezinye izikhathi, njll, futhi ngenye indlela: senza okuthile, siziphoqe ukuba sinqobe ukuphikiswa ngenxa yokwesaba ukushiywa. Lena umkhuba omubi. Ubudlova ngokwakho kungabangela ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, noma yiluphi uhlobo lwezocansi luzophela ukuletha injabulo. Wena noma umlingani wakho akufanele uphoqelelwe ukwenza noma yini. Noma kunjalo, kufanelekile ukudukisa, ukunikeza nokuzama. Ukusheshisa injabulo kuvulwa izindlela ezintsha zokujabulela omunye nomunye. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, izithiyo zangaphambilini ziphukile futhi izinqatshelwe ziyanyamalala. Lapho uLaura evuma ku-Oleg, umyeni wakhe wesibili, ukuthi wayenengwa yizocansi zomlomo ngaphambi komhlangano wabo, wamangala: "Ngangizibuza ukuthi kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuthi abesifazane bazizwe benesifiso esinjengalokhu - ngokuqondile ukunambitha. Ngikhuluma nabangane bami abambalwa - futhi wamangala lapho ezwa ukuthi abanye babo abathandanga ukumanga, futhi i-cunnilingus ibangela ukuba babe yi-squeamish. " Uma umfana ekhulela endaweni encane ye-"domestic", khona-ke angayithola imithetho ejwayelekile kuye. Ngale mithetho, ezinye izinto azikwazi ukwenziwa, futhi kungani-kungachazwa. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi i-cunnilingus "ayikho ngendlela ye-patsan." Nganginamadoda ekamelweni okwakuthanda ukwenza i-cunnilingus, kodwa ngaphambi kwalokho bathatha intombi yabo igama lokuthi angeze atshele noma ngubani ngalokhu. Enye into - fallatio. Amanye amadoda abonakala engacabangi ngisho nokuba ocansini. UBill Clinton wakhuluma ngesibindi enkomfeni yabezindaba ngoMonica Lewinsky, oye wangena emidlalweni yomlomo: "Angizange ngibe nobuhlobo bobulili nalo wesifazane." Ubulili ngaphandle kokungena - ngamadoda ngezinye izikhathi kuyindlela yokuzibophezela ngezibopho, ukuthola ukwaneliseka, ukugwema ukusondelana okungokomoya. Ngesizathu esifanayo, abanye besifazane bayazi ukuthi i-fallatio ihlazo. Kodwa emibhangqwana yothando, i-caresses yomlomo ithola incazelo ehluke ngokuphelele: ifakazela ukwethemba futhi isifiso sokwenza enye ijabulise.
Ngaphandle kokuphoqelela
Injabulo iholela ekujabuliseni. Lokhu kudinga ukunakekelwa nokubekezela. " Ngoba ngocansi lomlomo kusuka kumlingani kuncike, mhlawumbe, kunanoma yimuphi omunye. Konke, konke kwenzeka ngezindlela ezahlukene, futhi icala ngalinye liveza izimfihlo ezintsha zothando alchemy.