Ake sikhulume ngamathuba amadoda okuthethelela owesifazane othandekayo. Konke kuncike ekuziphatheni kwakhe nangothando lwakhe. Indoda ingavala amehlo akhe kakhulu. Omunye ufunga, uma umkakhe engaphezu kukawoti isobho, futhi omunye angakhohlwa mayelana nokukhwabanisa. Konke kuncike kulokhu noma lowo muntu. Kodwa uma uphatha umuntu ngamahlaya, uhlaziye isimo sakhe sengqondo empilweni nomfazi, ungakwazi ukubona izinto ezingasithethelela ngaso sonke isikhathi ngocansi obuthakathaka. Kunikezwe uma uthanda.
1. Uma owesifazane echitha imali. Lapha kuncike ekutheni kunemithombo yemali engenayo kumuntu othandekayo, ukuthi umuntu uthola imali engakanani, nokuthi kungakanani ukuchitha imali enjalo. Amadoda amaningi afana nokuthi isabelo sabo singasindisa kanjani futhi siphathe isabelomali somndeni ngendlela ewusizo. Futhi umuntu othakazelisayo ubheka othembekile wakhe, ophuma enkampanini yezitolo eziningi amaphakheji anezingubo. Kodwa okuqala kakhulu. Ungakhohlwa ngalokhu. Uhlobo luni lomuntu oyithandayo, uma uchitha wonke amasheya omndeni wakho.
2. Uma owesifazane engathandi umyalelo. Kukhona amadoda amaningi ahambisana ngokuzungezile nokuzungezile. Futhi, ngokukhuluma ngokukhululekile, abakhathaleli ukuthi umbala wetimba labo unjani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona uthuli emashalofini. Kungcono ukuthi kwakungekho amabala, futhi indlu ibuyiselwe ngokuhleleka nokuhlanzeka, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi lona wesifazane akanayo isikhathi esanele salokhu konke. Ngakho-ke, uma umuntu engeyona ingulube ehlambulukile futhi ethanda umkakhe, uyomthethelela umlayezo omncane. Amadoda amaningi ayenemisebenzi emizini yawo futhi angazihlanza, ahlanze izitsha zawo, alinde umkakhe ukuba asebenze. Futhi, ungakwazi ukukholelwa, kubo ngeke kubonakale njengomusa omkhulu.
3. Uma owesifazane epheka kabi. Sekusiqedile isitatimende esithi "indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele esiswini sayo." Ngokwemvelo, amadoda amaningi athanda amaqebelengwane okuzenzela kanye ne-borsch, kodwa, ngenhlanhla, iningi lawo liyovame ukuphendula ukuthi umkakhe akakwazi ukupheka i-jellyfish ngaphandle kweze. Bayahamba naye ku-cafe noma yokudlela. Futhi kungenziwa kunoma yimuphi umuzi. Namuhla, abapheki abakhulu kakhulu emhlabeni babizwa ngokuthi amadoda. Uma indoda ithanda owesifazane ngempela, uzokujabulela ukudla ukudla okushisayo nokuthethelela umkakhe ngenxa yokuhlangana kwakhe okungenakuqhathaniswa.
4. Uma owesifazane engathandi ukuhlangana nomyeni wakhe nabangane endlini yokugeza, ngenkathi edoba. Indoda ingamthethelela umkayo ngenxa yokuthi akayithandi injabulo yakhe yokuzilibazisa, ngoba akafuni ukuqoqa abangane bakhe abathembekile. Amadoda amaningi ayaqaphela ukuthi ngempelasonto yomndeni iyathakazelisa kakhulu kunama-liters ayikhulu ebhiya, adakwe nabangani ekuhambeni kokudoba.
5. Uma umfazi ethanda ukuvakashela ubuhle be-salon. Yiqiniso, ukukhathazeka kwakhe ekutheni u-styling namaski kungaphazamisa igebe elikhulu kwisabelomali, kodwa ngenxa yesimo esihle somyeni wakhe nobuhle bakhe, iningi lamadoda libala umkakhe imali yalo. Ngenhlanhla, amadoda kakade ayaqonda ukuthi owesifazane ohlotshiwe kahle ungowesifazane omuhle. Futhi yilokhu abafuna ukubona owesifazane othandekayo wabo.
6. Uma owesifazane ebuka uhlangothi lonke uchungechunge. Ngokwemvelo, uma umyeni wakho engumprofesa we-philology, khona-ke uzobe ehlukumeza ukuchitha isikhathi sakho phambi kwe-TV. Uzophupha ukulalela izinhlelo ezihlakaniphile nokufunda izincwadi. Kodwa uma umyeni wakho engumuntu ovamile, uzokuthethelela okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okuhlangene. Ikakhulukazi uma ngemuva kombukiso uyamenza isidlo sakusihlwa kakhulu, bese ubhala okuthile okuthakazelisayo embhedeni.
7. Uma owesifazane nabangane bakhe behlanganyela izimfihlo eziseduze kakhulu. Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi abantu bathanda ukukhuluma ngokunqoba kwabo nezinkinga zabo. Kodwa uma bethola ukuthi umkakhe utshela abangane bakhe konke, konke, konke, kungaba nzima kakhulu. Kodwa ngenhlanhla, bayaqonda ukuthi lobu bungane besifazane nabesifazane ngeke bakwazi ukuhlanganyela nabangani bakhe. Ngakho-ke, amadoda asekulungele ukuthethelela oshade naye ngenxa yokwehluleka kwakhe, into eyinhloko ukuthi lokhu akusho ukuhluleka kwabo embhedeni womshado.
Yiqiniso, kungaba nezinto eziningi ezinjalo. Manje siyazi ukuthi amadoda angabathethelela abesifazane. Konke kuncike enani lokuthethelela kanye nesamba sothando ku-betrothed yakho. Kodwa ungacabangi ukuthi uma ekuthanda kakhulu, khona-ke konke kungaba namandla. Ungazami ukubekezela kwakhe kakhulu. Ungathethelela, uthethelele kabili, bese ucasuka.