Kungani uphupha ukudweba amehlo ephusheni?
- Uma ubona ukuthi ungawayeka kanjani ngokunembile, bese ubheka ngokucophelela indawo ozungezile. Mhlawumbe phakathi kwalabo obaziyo kukhona umuntu ohlukumezayo othandana nawe futhi olungele noma yisiphi isenzo esiyinkimbinkimbi ukuze uyinake futhi uphendule ngokulandelana.
- Ukudweba amehlo akho nge ipensela phambi kwesibuko uthembisa umphuphi umshado ojabulisayo nokuphila ekhaya okunethezeka. Futhi uma usengaphansi kokwakheka futhi ukhulise ipensela, ngaphambi kwakho kukhona ukumangala okumangalisayo, isibonelo uhambo noma umcimbi.
- Ukudweba amehlo omuntu kusho ukuthi ulindele umcimbi ongavamile esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Kungenzeka nokuthi uzothola umlayezo omnandi ovela kumngane omdala ongakaxhunywanga isikhathi eside.
- Ukubona ephusheni, ukuthi wenza kanjani ukwakheka okuphelele futhi upende amehlo akho ngezithunzi, inkino kanye ipensela, kusukela endaweni yokubuka kwengqondo kusho ukuthi uyesaba izwe elikuzungezile futhi uzama ukusondelana nawe ngokwakho. Kodwa kulabo abanobulili obuhle kakhulu, abasebenzisa ngobuciko izimonyo zokuhlobisa, ungalindeli okuningi kulo mbono ebusuku. Mhlawumbe, lokhu kungukuphela kwempilo yangempela.
- Iphupho lokuchaza ukuthi uma intombazane engabonakali ngokudayiswa nge-mascara noma ngisho ne-eyelashes ehlanganisiwe yokufakelwa, khona-ke yakha izahlulelo ezingalungile mayelana nokuphila, futhi ama-stereotypes abanjwe kusukela ebuntwaneni avimbela ngokufanele imicimbi ehlukahlukene.
- Futhi, iphupho elinjalo liyisibonakaliso esiqinisekisayo sokuthi lowo ophuphayo akaqotho ngokuphelele ekuziphatheni kwakhe futhi akafuni ukuvumela noma ubani osondele kuye.
- Encwadini yephupho likaMiller kubhaliwe ukuthi ukugeza ukwakheka kwamehlo kukhuluma ngesifiso esingaqondakali somuntu ukuba abe yedwa futhi angenzi njengabanye.
Okunye ukuhumusha kwamaphupho anjalo
Uma umuntu ephupha ukuthi ubeka izithunzi noma i-mascara emehlweni omunye umuntu, khona-ke kungabhekwa njengesixwayiso ukuthi empeleni kuzodingeka asebenzise "amanga ngokuhle" ukusiza umngane ukuba aphume esimweni sokuphila esinzima.
Qiniseka ukuthi unake kakhulu abantu abakuzungezile emva kwombono onjalo. Udinga ukwazi kangcono abantu osanda kuhlangana nabo ukuze ugweme ubunzima obungenzeka.
Okubaluleke kakhulu futhi umbala nokubukeka kwamehlo. Uma zibomvu futhi zibukeka zibuhlungu, khona-ke umphuphi kufanele alungiselele ngokwengqondo ukulimala omunye wabangane bakhe noma izihlobo. Kodwa umusa okhazimulayo wamehlo kuyisibonakaliso esiqinisekisayo sokuphila okude nokuchuma, okugcwele inhlanhla nokuthandana, kulindeleke umuntu.
Amehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka aboniswa kubantu abangenakucabangela, ngenxa yemvelo yabo, abakwazi ukufeza umgomo oyifunayo.
Grey kungacatshangwa njengesixwayiso, esasizungezwe umphuphi, kwavela umuntu othakazelisayo nokhohlisayo. Abafundi abansundu babonisa umusa futhi bathembisa lo mphupho ukuthi bazokuhlangana naye maduze nomuntu ozosekela kakhulu emisebenzini yakhe.
Ukubona ephusheni ukuthi ibhali liye lagijima iso lakho liwuphawu oluhle. Ngakho-ke, eqinisweni ulindele ingcebo enhle kakhulu, ngenxa yokufeza okungazange uyibeke cishe noma yimuphi umzamo.
Njengoba ubona, ukuchazwa kwamaphupho ngamehlo agwetshiwe kunamathele kakhulu, kodwa, njengoba kunjalo, kubonisa zonke izifiso ezifihlekile zomuntu kanye nezinhlangothi ezifihlekile zobuntu bakhe.