Kodwa, ngeshwa, owesifazane ekugcineni ulahlekelwa isithakazelo socansi kumyeni wakhe, okungaholela ekuphuleni ubudlelwano nokucindezeleka okujulile. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yezimpumelelo zakamuva ekhemisi nezobuchwepheshe, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili kuthathwa kalula.
Owesifazane uyindalo emangalisayo yeNkosi uNkulunkulu, ngubani okwazi ukubhekana nemigomo yezocansi abantu abangakwazi ukuyiqonda. Umjikelezo wokuphendula ngokobulili uhlukaniswe ngezigaba ezinhlanu eziyinhloko.
Isigaba sokuqala yisifiso esingenasici sokulala ocansini. Njengomthetho, kuvela enkambweni yokuxhumana ngokomzimba (thinta, kiss, uvumelane), iphunga, uthinta, ukuvuselela umsindo.
Isigaba sesibili sisisithakazelo, ngokuphendula okusemzimbeni okuhambisana nokuphefumula okusheshayo, ukushaya kwenhliziyo okusheshayo, ukukhululwa kwe-lubricant esiswini, ukwanda kwe-clitoris, nokugeleza kwegazi kuya kwesisu.
Isigaba sesi-3 yisisindo senjabulo. Ngokukhuthazwa kokuvuthwa ngokocansi, ukuphefumula ukukhula kukhula, ukwanda kwamasini kukhula, ama-labia akhula futhi avuvuka, amahlumela aphikisayo avela emathunjini, futhi ngalesi sikhathi owesifazane unomuzwa wokuthi uzoba ne-orgasm.
Isigaba sesine, ngokungangabazeki, i-orgasm, kulesi sigaba owesifazane unama-palpitations, ukwanda kwengcindezi yegazi, ukugoqa kwezitho zobulili kanye ne-perineum.
Futhi ekugcineni, esifanayo sasiya esiteji sokugcina, esibizwa ngokuthi isinqumo, lapho i-muscle mass ixosha khona, umzimba ungena esimweni esivamile. Lesi sigaba singahambisana nokulala, umuzwa wenjabulo, futhi kwezinye izimo, ukuphuma kwamandla.
Abesifazane abaningi bazama ukwehlukanisa ubulili emshadweni, futhi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili njengomphumela womshado bazama ukuvimbela ukugqugquzela okuhlukahlukene okubandakanya imidlalo yokudlala, amafutha abalulekile, ukuyeka okungavamile, kodwa ngeshwa ezikhathini eziningi, ubudlelwane bobulili bozakwethu "buya" futhi "buya". Ukunganakwa hhayi isifiso somlingani wakho kungaholela ekucindezelekeni okujulile, izifo zesimiso sokuzala, okuhambisana nokuphazamiseka nokubuhlungu, lokhu kumelela ukuthi kungene ukungenelela kochwepheshe bezocansi. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi sokukhungatheka, owesifazane ulahlekelwe ukukhangwa ngokobulili kobulili obuhlukile, ecatshangwa yithinta lomlingani, ukungabi nesifiso esiphelele sokulala naye. Njengoba kuyaziwa, noma iyiphi inqubo inezici zayo zokuqala eziholele owesifazane kuleso simo, kungaba ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo, ubulili obungavamile, ushintsho lobudala, ubuchwepheshe obungaphumelelanga ebuhlotsheni bobulili, ukukhulelwa, amazinga aphansi e-estrogen, imiphumela yemithi emzimbeni, ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo ukukhathala. Ezimweni ezinjengalezi, owesifazane kufanele enze imizamo ephakeme yokuvuselela, aqokomise ubulili emshadweni, futhi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili kufanele kunqotshwe ngokutadisha izincwadi ezikhethekile, ukudalulwa nokuxhumana nomyeni wakhe noma kwizingqungquthela ezibonakalayo kumawebhusayithi e-intanethi, uma kungezona kuwe kusiza, hamba nentombi enhle salon, ezitolo zezingubo zangaphansi.