1. Ikhwalithi yobulili bakho ekukhuleni ixhomeke endleleni yokuphila ebusheni bakho.
Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi uma unomdlavuza osebenzayo ebusheni bakho, bese uneminyaka yobudala, amandla obulili namandla azophela nje. Lokhu akuyona nje intokwane. Eqinisweni, ukugcina umsebenzi ogcwele wezocansi eminyakeni ezayo kungalabo abangamvumeli ukuba baphumule ebusheni babo. Uma impilo yakho yobulili isebenza ngokwengeziwe manje, iphakamisa ithuba lokuthi ngemuva kweminyaka engu-40 uzoba kahle.
Into kuphela engalimaza ikusasa lakho kungukungalawulwa kocansi kanye nazo zonke izingozi ezihlobene nazo.
2. Ubulili abuphephile kunanoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Uma ukuphila kobulili kuphele iminyaka engama-40, bekungeke kube nokukhulelwa okuphuthumayo, iziguli ezivuthiwe zezinkinga zokubeletha, iziguli ze-urologists kanye nezindawo ze-venereologists. Abesifazane abaningi bayakwazi ukukhulelwa emva kuka-40, okuqinisekiswa yizibalo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi kukhona ingozi yezifo ezihlukahlukene ezithathelwana ngocansi. Ngakho-ke, umuntu oziphatha ngokocansi kufanele avikelwe, kungakhathaliseki ubudala.
3. Umsebenzi uthinta izinga lobulili.
Ubulili eneminyaka eminingi intsha kubonakala sengathi kungenzeka kuphela uma kukhona umsebenzi ophumelelayo, okungukuthi, imali. Ngempela, imali isinikeza amathuba amaningi - izingubo ezinhle zetfashini, izinto zendawo, imikhiqizo yokunakekelwa kwekhwalithi eyandisa intsha. Konke lokhu kudonsela ubulili obuhlukile. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, isidingo sokusebenza kanzima, ukucindezeleka okuqhubekayo kanye nomkhuba wokukhulumisana kwebhizinisi kuphela kuncishisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi othintana nabo bezocansi bangabi lutho. Lokhu kusebenza ngokukhethekile kubantu abangashadile.
4. Isifiso sobulili asishiyanga.
Ngisho noma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi labo abadlulile eminyakeni engu-40, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ngo-50, abanandaba nezocansi, khona-ke niphutha ngokujulile. Izifiso ezinjalo ziphakama eminyakeni engama-90, futhi zivame ukutholakala ngempumelelo uma umuntu enomlingani futhi egcina isimo esihle somzimba. Ikhwalithi yezocansi ingahle ihluke, ngoba abantu beminyaka yobudala bomhlalaphansi abakwazi ukufana nabafundi, kodwa lokhu akusona isizathu sokuyeka injabulo ngokujwayelekile. Abaningi bathola ubulili eneminyaka engcono nakakhulu kunokuba basha.
5. Uma uneminyaka yobudala, ukukhanga kuhlale kuwe
Yiqiniso, kungenangqondo ukusho ukuthi ngo-40 asikwazi ukubheka okungcono kunama-20. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi ukukhula okuvuthiwe kusenza sibe kabi. Konke kuncike ekubusweni, ukuzinakekela. Bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane abangasebenzisi kabi utshwala, bangenele ezemidlalo, basebenzise izimpumelelo ze-cosmetology zanamuhla, zibukeka zikhangayo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Kunezibonelo eziningi zalokhu - izinkanyezi eziningi zikwazi ukuhlala zifiselekayo eminyakeni yobudala obuvuthiwe. Wonke umuntu angasindisa isikhalazo sangaphandle.
6. Kuncike kumlingani.
Ikhono lokulala nobulili kunoma yiliphi iminyaka lixhomeke kulowo oseduze nathi. Njengomthetho, ngaphezu kweminyaka yokuxhumana ngengozi kukhona okuhlukile, hhayi umthetho. Umuntu ongajwayelekile ongafaki ukuzethemba, uma kunzima ukuphumula, futhi lokhu kuyithinta kabi isimo sengqondo. Ngakho-ke, umlingani ohlala njalo ungcono kuzo zonke izici. Ngisho noma uhlangene iminyaka eminingi, uzoba nendawo yokuthakazelisa, kodwa uma ubuhlobo bakho bungakhiwa ngokuhlambalaza, ukufutheka nokuxabana. Ubulili eneminyaka eminingi buhlotshaniswa nomlingani omncane. Kunezimo lapho amadoda nabesifazane beshiya umndeni ngobuhlobo obusha nomlingane omusha, kodwa lokhu kusho izinkinga emndenini, hhayi ngoba izidumbu ezincane zisishukumisa ngobudala.
Ubulili obudala bukhona, noma yini esiyicabangayo, ngenkathi sineminyaka engu-20 noma engu-30 ubudala. Mhlawumbe, abantu abavuthiwe - lokhu akuyona umncintiswano wabafana namantombazane, kodwa izinga lobulili alinganiswanga ubude bobulili noma inombolo yabo ubusuku bonke. Uma uzikhathalela kahle kusukela usemncane, qapha impilo yakho, ukudla okunomsoco, futhi uvumele futhi ungavumeli ukuphumula okude phakathi kwezenzo zocansi, khona-ke kuyoba nemathuba amaningi okuphila okugcwele ngokobulili ekuvuthweni.