Izinzuzo ezivelele
Sihlanganiswe nabo, sihilelekile empilweni yabo ngokomzwelo. Silungele ukuchitha isikhathi sethu futhi sizinakekele ukuzilungisa, ukuhamba ku-vet nokuthola ukudla okuwusizo ... Sibekezelela zonke izimo eziphazamisayo ezihambisana nokugcinwa kwazo: uboya babo, obonakala sengathi bukhona kakade endlini, iphunga lawo eliqondile. Ngoba yiziphi lezi zihlukumezi? Kuze kube maduzane, zonke izazi zengqondo zavuma ukuthi ukuba nesilwane endlini kudlala indima enhle. Isibonelo, phambi kwenja yakhe, ingane engazi ukugxila futhi engenalo ithuba lokufunda izinkondlo, ngokuzenzekelayo uyayibamba ngaphandle kokushaya. Abantu asebekhulile bathola ekukhulumisaneni nezilwane ezifuywayo ngenxa yokuntuleka kwemizwelo. Sithanda ukuxhumana nezilwane ezifuywayo ngoba liphephile ngokomzwelo, libikezelwe futhi liyaqondakala. Siyazi ukuthi uma siwela umngcele wendlu, ikati ethandekayo lizoqala ukugubha kakhulu bese ligaqa imilenze. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyiphonsa kangakanani ibhola, inja yethu izosiletha ngokuqinisekile emazinyo. Ukuxhumana nabafowethu abancani ngempela kusenza sibe nenjabulo namahlombe ngempela ngenzuzo, kukhululekile kithi. Emva kwakho konke, sikhuluma nabo, sitshela izimfihlo zethu kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu, sikholelwa ukuthi izilwane ziyasizwa futhi ziqonde konke. Ngamanye amazwi, sihlale siqiniseka ukuthi sizokwamukela impendulo engokomzwelo kunoma yiziphi izenzo zethu noma ngisho negama, elibaluleke kakhulu kithi. Ngokuvamile, ukuba khona kwenja noma ikati ekhaya kunezinzuzo eziningi. Kubonakala sengathi bayasiqonda, sizwa ukubonga kwabo nesihawu kithi, isimo sengqondo. Ngeke asisole ngecala, asamukele njengathi. Phela, inja, ngokubanzi, ayikhathazi ngempela ukuthi umuntu ungumnikazi wayo omuhle kangakanani. Kuyinto efana nalokhu ukwamukelwa okungekho emthethweni, okuzelwe ngumama kumntanakhe. Futhi emva kwakho konke, yilokho thina eswele kakhulu lapho sikhula.
Vumelanisa, akude njalo kukhululekile kakhulu futhi kuphephile ngathi ukuba senkampani yabanye abantu, ngisho nezondelene kakhulu. Phela, nazo aziqapheli, ngokuvamile amazwi nezenzo zabo zingalimaza kabi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bayasihlola, kuyilapho kungabi njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kaningi ngisho nokugxeka. Emphakathini wabantu, asivamile ukuthi sincike emizweni esiyithola ekukhulumeni nenja yakho noma intando yakho. Kulokhu, akusiwo sonke esizoba nokuphikisana okunamandla empikiswaneni nombhali we-aphorism evelele: "Uma ngibona abantu, ngiyakuthanda kakhulu izinja." Futhi-ke, kuphela izilwane ezifuywayo esizizwa sinamandla futhi zinamandla. Ngempela, impilo yabo, inhlalakahle kanye nenjabulo ithembele ngokuqondile kithi nezinqumo zethu. Futhi izinzwa ezithinta inhliziyo esibhekana nazo, ngokucindezela isilwane, zisinika induduzo, ziyaduduzeka. Futhi impendulo yombuzo, kungani izilwane ezincelisayo ezinomsoco ezishisayo ziba yizilwane zethu ezifuywayo, kubonakala sengathi zicacile. Nokho, akuzona zonke izinto ezilula. Sitshala imali kakhulu ezifuyweni zethu hhayi kuphela ngenxa yokuthi siyi-whim yethu futhi sifuna kanjalo.
Sinika izilwane zethu izizwa zabantu, izenzo, imizwelo kanye nemicabango. Akumangalisi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi sicabanga ukuthi kancane kancane - futhi uzoqala ukukhuluma, futhi abe umuntu ogcwele. Lesi simo sibizwa ngokuthi i-anthropomorphism. Kungenxa yokuthi isilwane esinobuciko obuvame ukuphenduka sibe yilungu eliphelele lomndeni kithi. Kufakiwe emkhayeni wethu womndeni. Akuyona into yokuthi abanye ababili abaneminyaka yobudala, abangenazo izingane noma izingane, sebekhulile futhi bashiye ikhaya labazali babo, babhekisela enja yabo noma ekati njengengane yabo. Ngokuvamile bayavuma ngisho ukuthi abazwa imizwa enjalo eqinile ezinganeni zabo.
Izixhumanisi ezine ezinemilenze
Ucwaningo lwamuva aluqinisekisi iziphetho mayelana nendima enhle yeja noma ikati ekuthuthukiseni umndeni. Iqiniso lokuthi thina, singazi ngalokhu, sebenzisa izifuyo zethu njengabaxhumanisi ebuhlotsheni namanye amalungu. Ngokuvamile ukuba khona komngane omine onamaqabunga emndenini kakade kuyisibonakaliso sokuntuleka kokuxhumene ngokomzwelo kohlobo oluthile kuye. Ngamanye amazwi, isilwane singanciphisa inkinga, noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, singayithuthukisa. Kodwa ngeke neze azixazulule. Kuhlale kuyingxenye yesigamu. Kuyaziwa ukuthi isilwane esifuywayo singase "sisekele" umndeni ngezigaba ezahlukene zokuthuthukiswa kwawo, umjikelezo wokuphila. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubonakala kwakhe emndenini akukaze kwenzeke ngengozi. Isinqumo sokuqala inja noma ikati ngokuvamile sivela emzuzwana obonakala ubonakala kakhulu - uma umndeni ushintsha izinguquko (ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa komkami, ngokushesha ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane noma lapho ephendukela ku-3, noma 13-15). Kungenxa yokuthi amalungu omndeni azama ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka kwengqondo, ukukhathazeka okubangelwa lezi zinguquko ngosizo lwesilwane. Futhi, esikhundleni sokusinda kubo, umndeni awungakulungeli kubo, awukwazi ukubhekana nawo. Khona-ke isilwane esinemilenze emine siba yi-wand-whip. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngezikhathi ezinjalo akunakwenzeka ukukholisa umndeni ukuba ungaqali isilwane.
Okwesithathu wena?
Emtholampilo wohlelo lomndeni, kubhekwa ukuthi lo triad uzinzile kakhulu kune-dyad. Ngamanye amazwi, umndeni wabantu abathathu uzinzile kakhulu kunombhangqwana. Owesithathu uvumela amanye amalungu omndeni amabili ukwehlisa ukukhathazeka. Ngokwesiko, owesithathu uba ingane. Lesi yisiteshi esiphezulu kakhulu sokuveza imizwelo yabantu abadala: lapho bekhuluma ngosana, abazali abakwazi ngisho nokuthinta izinkinga ezibucayi phakathi kwabo. Emndenini omncane ongenawo abantwana, noma emibhangqwaneni lapho izingane ezikhulile zivele zihlukanisile nabazali bazo, i-puppy noma inkathazi ishintsha ngokwengqondo ... ingane. Futhi kumbhangqwana osemusha, kanye nesilwane esilukhulile esibhedlela esivuthiwe singadlala indima "yengane efanelekile". Kulesi simo, akabavumeli ukuba bafunde ukuxazulula ngokunamandla izingxabano ezivela. Futhi akavumeli umndeni ukuba uthuthele esigabeni esilandelayo somjikelezo wokuphila - ukuba nomntwana noma uvumele izingane ezikhulile zihambe.
Indawo engafanele
Ngezinye izikhathi umngane onemilenze emine angayithatha indawo kuphela ingane, kodwa futhi elinye ilunga lomndeni. Yithi, uma kunesahlukaniso kumyeni ohlukumezayo ongavumela ukuhlaselwa, owesifazane uqala inja enesabekayo, ehlabayo. Naphezu kwemizamo yomqeqeshi, lo wesifazane oshayisana naye unxusa inja ukuthi ibonise ukuziphatha okubi. Kuleso simo, owesifazane uphinde abuyele esimweni sokujwayela "esisisulu-hangman", esabhekana naye emshadweni. Kulokhu, indima yezilwane zasemakhaya ayikho kahle. Kwesinye isimo, i-puppy noma i-kitten ingasiza ukusinda ekucindezelekeni okuhlobene nokufa kwelungu elibalulekile lomndeni. Lapha indima yesilwane inhle.
I-Agent Separation Secret
Ngokuvamile, izilwane ezifuywayo ziyisikhubekiso ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabantu abasha. Basebenzisa lesi simiso - uma ungayithandi ikati / inja yami, awusithandi. Ngakho-ke, ngisho nokufihla ngokwabo ukwesaba, ukungabaza nokukhathazeka okuhlobene nomlingani. Yisho, intombazane ihlangana nendoda encane, futhi inayo ikati ekhaya. Ngesinye isikhathi, intombazane kwakudingeka inqume ukuthi ingaya kubo noma cha? Intombazane yayihlushwa umbuzo othi: insizwa iyinhlanhla yezinwele zezilwane, ngakho ayiyithandi ngempela ikati lakhe, kanjani? Ngenxa yalokho, intombazane yanquma ukuhlukanisa nendoda. Kulesi simo, ikati, ngaphandle kokwazi, yaba i-agent ehlukanisayo. Le ntombazane yazibuza yona kanye nemizwa yalomfana. Ukukhathazeka kwakhe kutholakale indlela yokuphuma, kushintshe konke ukunaka. Phela, uma le ntombazane iqiniseka ngokuthi lo muntu uzohlala impilo yakhe, abelethe izingane, njll, isilwane sakhe singabheka ezinye amakhosi. Uma kungenjalo, izilwane ezinemilenze ezine zingabamba iqhaza elihle, zisiza intsha ukuthi ihlukaniswe nabazali abalawulayo njalo.