Umsebenzi ngaphezu kwakho konke
Abesifazane abaningi bayeka ukuphupha ngomndeni nabantwana, futhi bagxila emisebenzini yabo. Futhi izivolonti zibonisa ukuthi umndeni awubonakali kakhulu kubo. Bafuna ukuyidala, kepha abakwazi njalo, ngoba manje umndeni usuhlelekile ukudala ngebhajethi ehlukene noma ngegalelo elikhulu lomfazi ekuchumeni kwakhe. Yingakho abamama abaningi bekusasa bechitha iminyaka engcono kakhulu yokuphila kwabo ekuthuthukeni komsebenzi. Uthando phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane lwaba yinto yokuzikhethela yowesifazane ophumelelayo. Futhi uma owesifazane enomndeni nengane, ngokuvamile uvame ukusebenza ukumfundisa, kodwa ukuyihlinzeka ngezezimali, enikezela ingane kumakhulu nogogo. Kuvela ukuthi owesifazane ebuhlotsheni nabantwana waqala ukuziphatha njengomuntu. Futhi, endleleni, lokhu kuziphatha akusoloko kuhlonishwa ngamadoda. Ngisho okuphambene nalokhu: manje imodeli enjalo yomndeni, lapho owesifazane ehola khona indoda, ibhekwa njengophumelela kakhulu.
Ukuzimela ngokwezimali
Abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ubudlelwane obunjalo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, lapho abe nokuzimela kwezezimali nokubonakalayo. Eminye imikhaya ibuye iqhube izimali ezahlukene. Ucwaningo lwamabhinqa abasebenza lubonisa ukuthi umsebenzi okwamanje awukude waba yindawo yokuqala endabeni yokubaluleka okubalulekile kubo. Ukuba khona kwabantwana, abangani, umndeni kubonakala kubaluleke kakhulu kubo kunezimfuno zomsebenzi. Futhi abesifazane abanjalo kulezi zivalo bathi bazama ukufinyelela phezulu emisebenzini yabo ngenxa yemali, ukuze bakwazi ukuzimela ngokwezimali.
Amadoda ayengadingeki njengendoda eyinhloko ye "mammoths" kulabo abathandekayo. Futhi abesifazane bakhokhela ukuzimela kwabo ngesifo senhliziyo yokuqala, ukucindezeleka nokufa kwangaphambili. Phakathi kwabesifazane abasebenzayo, baningi kulabo abahambisana nemikhuba emibi (utshwala, ukubhema, ukucindezeleka), futhi isimo sezinsikazi sishaya ngokumelene nesimo esinjalo ngokunciphisa impilo yomfazi osebenzayo.
Ibhizinisi seliba nobuntu obuningi
Ochwepheshe abacwaninga izizathu zokuqhuma okukhulu kwabesifazane ezikhundleni zebhizinisi nokuphatha bathi lokhu kuyadingeka okwamanje. Ngokuba ibhizinisi lesikhathi eside kwakungumkhakha wemisebenzi yabantu. Kodwa ekugcineni kwacaca ukuthi uma kungekho besifazane ekuphathweni kwezinkampani, inkampani enjalo kaningi iba yihlelo elizungeze umdali wesilisa futhi lifa ekushintsheni kokuqala kwemakethe. Ukuze umelane nokuhlaselwa kwabancintisana futhi usinde enkingeni, ibhizinisi lidinga idiplomacy yabesifazane kanye nekhono lokwenza uxhumano kokubili eqenjini kanye nezwe langaphandle. Ngemva kokulingwa yizo zonke izintelezi nezinzuzo zabaphathi besifazane, ibhizinisi laba nesithakazelo kulowo wesifazane ethatha ingxenye esebenzayo kuyo. Maye, nalokhu akukhuthazi ubuhlobo obunothando phakathi komuntu nowesifazane. Njengoba sesivele sikhankanywe ngenhla, abantu abazange bashintshe kakhulu emakhulwini eminyaka edlule. Kodwa-ke, abanandaba ukuthi abesifazane baye bakwenza kube lula ngabo ukuba banakekele ukugcinwa komndeni, kodwa ngeke banikeze umusa ngokufanele. Amadoda ayashesha ukuthatha izinkinga zasemakhaya. Ngokombiko, amadoda angaphezu kuka-80% abheka umsebenzi ukuba ube yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni. Ngakho kwakungekho ozosekela ikhaya elingenalutho kusukela ekunakekeleni owesifazane emsebenzini wakhe. Ngakho-ke, ubudlelwane bwanamuhla phakathi kobulili bugcwele ulwandle olunzima. Izindinganiso zomndeni eziwela phambi kwamehlo ethu kanye nenkolo yobugovu kanye nesifiso senjabulo efikile esikhundleni sabo azibandakanyi emshadweni oqinile. Kodwa uhlobo olusha lobuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane lunikeza amathuba amahle okuzithuthukisa.
Kumele kuthiwa zonke izinguquko ezisezingeni lomphakathi ezichazwe ngenhla azizange zishintshe isimo sezobulili eziningi. Amadoda asathanda ukuhlala ezweni lezinto, anesithakazelo ezindaweni zezifundo zomsebenzi. Futhi abesifazane banesithakazelo esikhulu emkhakheni wezobudlelwano. Ebhizinisi, lokhu kuhlukaniswa kwemisebenzi kanye nezithakazelo kubonakala ngokucacile. Emndenini, ngisho nakakhulu: owesifazane osebenzayo ngumthombo oyinhloko womoya omuhle noma omubi wengqondo ekhaya. Futhi lo muntu unesibopho sesevisi yokuphila nokusekelwa kwempahla yomndeni, ngoba isikhathi sibe ngaphezu kowesifazane. Ososayensi babikezela ukuthi indlela enjalo, eyakhiwa amakhulu eminyaka, izoqhubeka ikhona. Ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi abesifazane, lapho bethola ithuba namalungelo alinganayo namadoda emisebenzi yabo, bazobuyela emindenini yomndeni babuye bacabangele izimali zabo zokuphila.