Ukubusiswa komama kuyisimangaliso esinamandla kunayo yonke ingane. Lesi sivikelo samandla esingabonakali sihlala nomuntu konke ukuphila kwakhe. Uhlale naye, ngisho nalapho umama esivele kude noma engasaphila. Ukudala uhlobo lwe-capsule evikelayo, isibusiso sikamama sivikela ezinkingeni, ukwehluleka, iso elibi noma iziqalekiso. Kulo, umuntu angathola amandla, ugqozi kanye nenhlalakahle. Ngokokuqala ngqá umama unikeza isibusiso ingane yakhe ebuntwaneni, bese ngaphambi kwayo yonke into ebalulekile empilweni yakhe. Indlela yokubusisa izingane ngokufanele? Ngabe ngiyiphi iminyaka yokuqala, futhi yimiphi imithandazo okufanele uhambe nayo?
I-Sacrament of the Child's Blessing
Isibusiso sokuqala kufanele senzeke eminyakeni yobudala yengane. Esikhathini samasiko aseSlavic sasendulo kwakukholelwa ukuthi ukuqwashisa kuza eminyakeni engu-7-8. Umuntu omncane ucabanga ngenjongo yokuphila, uzikhomba yena futhi ufunde ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo. Ngalesi sikhathi, umama unikeza ingane yonke amandla okuphila ayilondolozwe. Kukhona isiko sesibusiso. Kungukuthi, njengokwenhlanganyelo wokuqala, iholidi lomndeni wonke. Kulolu suku, ingane ihanjiswa ngezipho futhi itafula lokugcoba libekiwe. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba umama alungiselele isibusiso - uthenga isithombe seMariya, ufundisa imithandazo, ucabanga ngamazwi ahlukanisayo. ISigrament of Blessing yenzeka ngaphandle kofakazi. Umama uthatha isithonjana ezandleni zakhe futhi, emi phambi komntwana, athi "Umama umama ngomntanakhe," emva kwalokho ukhuluma nomntanakho ngesifiso esiqotho, evela enhliziyweni: "Ngikunika indodana yami / indodakazi yami (igama) isibusiso sami somama ngokuphila futhi ngifisa wena ... ". Ukuhlakanipha kufanele kucatshangwe kahle, ukwamukele izithakazelo zomntanakho, ukuqondisa indlela enhle nothando, kodwa akufanele ukukhawulela inkululeko yakhe yokuzikhethela. Ekupheleni kwesakramente, umama uyamanga umntwana futhi amnike isithonjana seNdodanakazi emcela ukuba ayigcine futhi ayiphendule ngomthandazo ngezikhathi ezinzima. Kusukela ngalesi sikhathi ingane ivikelwe nguMama kaNkulunkulu noMbusiso KaMama.
Ngemuva kwesakramente sesibusiso, umama ekuseni nakusihlwa izinsuku eziyisikhombisa ufunde umthandazo okhethekile: "Nkosi EnguPhezukonke Nomama KaNkulunkulu! Ngifake emfanekisweni we-Heavenly Motherhood. Yazisa Uthando lwangempela, umusa, ukubekezela ekukhulisweni kwezingane, engiziphathela eNgcwelengcwele kunazo zonke futhi nginikeze ukugcina kwakho. Vumela isibusiso sikaMama wami ngokuPhila, ukuchichima nokuchuma kufana neyakho. Umama kaNkulunkulu obusisiwe, Umama we-Renaissance entsha Engokomoya, uphulukise amanxeba wezingane zakho Ngothando Lwakho Lomama. Bavumele baphulukiswe futhi baphuthukiswe eNkosini. Iningi loMhloniphe weZulwini, uMama kaNkulunkulu, e-altare loLuthando olungcwele. Nginika indodana yami ngaphandle kwensali (indodakazi yami) (igama). O, konke-okuhle, usize ukubona ukukhanya ekuhluphekeni, ngcwelise umhlatshelo bese ubusisa iNdlela. Amen. "
Izibusiso zengane emva kweminyaka engu-14 nomuntu omdala
Kuze kube neminyaka engu-14 ingane ifunda ukusebenzisa amandla okuphila adluliselwe ngumama. Emva kweminyaka engu-14, kuphindaphindiwe, futhi manje yisibusiso esibhaliwe. Ngaphambi kokubhala ukuhlaselwa okubusisiwe, umama ufunda "Umthandazo kaMama wengane yakhe". Le ncwadi ingabhalwa nganoma yiluphi uhlobo, kodwa ekugcineni libizwa ngokuthi: "Egameni likaYise neNdodana noMoya oNgcwele. Amen. " Incwadi ebhaliwe ishiswa ngumama futhi ngemuva kwezinsuku eziyisikhombisa ubukela impumelelo yengane. Uma inhliziyo yomama ingaboni ukuthi izinguquko zibe ngcono ekuphileni komntwana, udinga ukubhala le ncwadi futhi. Unganika isibusiso esibhaliwe uze uqale ukusebenza. Ingane engenawo umama nomuntu omdala ongazange athole isibusiso somama njengengane noma engakwazi ukubusiswa ngesikhathi sangempela angabuza umama isibusiso futhi ngokubhala. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele uthathe umhlalaphansi endaweni enokuthula, ukhanyise ikhandlela, ufake isithombe somama wakho (uma unayo) futhi ufunde "Ukwelashwa komthandazo." Lapho kufika ukuthula nomphefumulo uhambisana nezidakamizwa zomthandazo, sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukubhala incwadi. Encwadini, ungakwazi ukubeka konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho noma izikhalazo ezihlobene nobuntwana, cela umama wakho ukuba athethelelwe futhi uthethelele zonke amaphutha akhe. Kuhle kakhulu uma umphefumulo uhlanza ngezinyembezi. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ubuhlungu obunqwabelene kuwo kufanele buphume. Uma imicabango iphela, le ncwadi ingagcwaliswa. Vumela ukuphela kwayo kube yisicelo somama ukubusisa. Ukwelashwa okunjalo akukona nje amandla aqinisa amashaneli kagesi omama nengane, kodwa futhi unomthelela osebenzayo wokwelapha. Ekuphetheni kwesivumo, le ncwadi ishiswa. Izinsuku eziyisikhombisa emva kwesicelo sesibusiso, ushintsho olulinde isikhathi eside luya empilweni yomuntu, okukhombisa "ukuhlelwa kabusha" kokuphela kwesikhathi.