Azikho izinhlaka ezicacile ngokuthuthukiswa kwengane, kunezimiso zokuzamazama nezindlela zokuthuthukiswa eziyisisekelo, yilokho kuphela. Ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo yanezingane zakuqala kuyinkimbinkimbi, kuye ngezici eziningi, kokubili izimo zofuzo nezemfundo. Uma izakhi zofuzo ezikhulunywe ekukhulumeni kokuqala kuyinto engashintshi, izimo zokuthuthukiswa nokukhulelwa zixhomeke ngokuqondile kubazali bomntwana. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngicabanga ukuthi wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi emindenini engasebenzi, izingane zilale ngemuva kokuthuthukiswa - ziqala ukukhuluma ngesikhathi esifushane, ukufunda, njll. Lokhu kuyadingeka, okokuqala, ukuthi ingane iyasetshenziswa, akekho osebenza naye , akekho ozomfundisa. Abanye abangane bami bathatha umntwana, ngakho-ke ngemva kwenyanga waqala ukukhuluma ngenkuthalo futhi esikhathini esizayo ukumangaza wonke umuntu ngamakhono akhe. Uma ingane ingakwazi ukukhuluma inkulumo yokuqala, ngakho-ke ngaphansi kwezimo ezinhle zokuthuthukiswa nokukhuliswa, waqala ukukhuluma ngenkuthalo.
Kodwa namanje, ngezindlela eziningi ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo ingane ingathonywa. Kulokhu, okokuqala, udinga ukuxhumana ngangokunokwenzeka nengane yakho. Akusizi ngalutho ukuthi baxoxe nomntwana ongakazalwa, echaza lokhu ngokuthi ingane izwa konke futhi iyaqonda ngokwanele. Lokhu kunengxenye yayo yeqiniso. Isidumbu sokuzwa kwengane sikhuliswe ngokwanele kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukukhuluma nengane kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungaboni ingane, kepha ukukhuluma ngakho konke emhlabeni, njengomuntu omdala. Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi uyamthanda kanjani, kamuva utshele okwenzayo, izwi, noma yiziphi izenzo, imizwelo. Ngakho-ke, ingane yakho ngeke izwe kuphela ukubaluleka kwayo, kodwa futhi ithole ulwazi olubalulekile nolusizo, futhi, ngokwemvelo, ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo yendoda encane kuyokwenzeka.
Ngokuvamile, zonke izingane ezisencane (kusukela ekuzalweni kuya eminyakeni emithathu ubudala) zihamba ngezigaba ezifanayo zokuthuthukiswa kwezixhobo zokukhuluma . Ngonyaka umntwana usukhulume kakade ngamagama ayishumi alula, okokuqala, njengokuthi "umama", "baba", "ubaba", "nika", njll., Njll. Mayelana neminyaka emibili, izingane eziningi zingakwazi ukukhuluma imisho encane yezimbili noma ezintathu amagama, futhi eneminyaka engu-4, izingane zingakwazi ukukhuluma ngokucacile kahle, njengabantu abadala. Kodwa, ngiyaphinda, lezi yizona zindlela eziyisisekelo zokuthuthukiswa, kanti ukunye ukuphambuka okuncane kubo akuyona inkinga.
Ngakho-ke, singakwazi ukuhlukanisa izigaba ezintathu ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo yengane encane:
· Doverbal yisikhathi sokuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo yengane yonyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Ngalesi sigaba ingane cishe ayisho lutho, kodwa inqubo yokukhulumisana iyasebenza. Ingane ingahlukanisa inkulumo phakathi kweminye imisindo eminingi, ukuthuthukiswa kobuzwe obunomqondo wenkulumo ngokwayo.
· Ukushintshela enkulumweni esebenzayo kukuthuthukiswa kwezinsiza zokukhuluma zomntwana wonyaka wesibili wokuphila. Izingane zibiza amagama okuqala nezimpawu ezilula ezimbili-ezintathu. Kule nkathi lapho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane ithole ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo nokuxhumana nabantu abadala, okokuqala, nabazali.
· Ukungapheleli kwenkulumo. Uma ingane isivele ithole amakhono athile okuxhumana, i-vocabulary yakhe ihlanganisa amagama angu-300 abalulekile, ukuxhuma okusha ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo kwenzeka. Iningi lezingane liqala ukuveza imicabango yakhe, liyaqhubeka nokwandisa amagama akhe, lithuthukise ukubiza amagama.
Inkulumo yengane ingakwazi futhi kufanele iqhutshwe, hhayi nje ngokuxhumana okusebenzayo, kodwa futhi ngokuzivocavoca okukhethekile . Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi izivivinyo zokuthuthukisa inkulumo ziyadingeka ukuze kube nezinkomba ezikhethekile, futhi kuyimpoqo yesiphakamiso sokukhuluma ukubhekana nengane enenkinga yokukhuluma. Eqinisweni, lokhu akunjalo. Izinkinga eziningi ziphakama, okokuqala, ekukhulumisaneni okungalungile phakathi kwabantu abadala kanye nezingane zabo. I-Slyukanie, ukubiza okungalungile - izimbangela zokukhuluma okungalungile kwengane yakho. Izingane ezincane, njengeponji, zithatha lonke ulwazi, okulungile nokungalungile. Izingane ezincane ziyabona kahle izingcingo zokukhuluma, ngakho-ke, kuqala, qaphela inkulumo yakho, bese usuvele ubheka iphutha enkulumweni yengane yakho.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kusukela ekuzalweni kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo inqubo ethakazelisayo. Ukuphumelela okukhulu nokuncane kwengane kuncike ekutheni "ukukhuthala" kwabantu abadala, kuyafana nokuthuthukiswa kwezinsiza zokukhuluma kwengane. Kubalulekile hhayi nje ukuxhumana nomntanakho, kodwa futhi ukugqugquzela umsebenzi wakhe wokukhuluma ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ngeke kube buhlungu ukulandela izincomo ezithile zongcweti:
Khuluma, khuluma futhi ukhulume nomntanakho futhi: yizwani izenzo zakho, imizwelo nezinhloso zakho.
• Phinda ukhulume nomntwana imisindo yakhe yokuqala yokushicilela-izilimi: "ma-ma-ma", "mu-mu-mu", njll. Ngakho-ke, uzoba nesithakazelo kumntwana futhi usekele naye "ingxoxo yokuqala".
· Kubonakala ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo kanye namakhono amakhono okusebenza kahle kuhlobene kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, vumela umntwana "azizwe" izinto ezihlukahlukene zokuthintana, izinto ezihlukahlukene nobukhulu obuhlukahlukene.
• Zama ukusabela hhayi kuphela ebusweni bomntwana, ukuveza isidingo, kodwa futhi ukumgqugquzela ukuthi akhulume lokho akufunayo, isibonelo, "ukunikeza". Vumela ingane kungekhona nje ngomunwe wayo ukuthi ibonise lokho akufunayo, kodwa futhi ibiza izinto ngamagama abo afanele.
· Uma ingane yakho inentshisekelo ezincwadini - lena indlela eqondile ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo. Thola izincwadi zesithombe futhi ufunde nomntwana umhlaba ozungezile: izinto zasendlini, izilwane, izenzo, njll.
· Uma ontanga wengane sebevele bekhuluma, kuyobe kululeka ukuvumela ingane ukuba ingene kulo mbuthano wabangane.
• Funda ezincwadini zezingane, uhlabelele izingoma futhi ungazami ukuthintana nokuxhumana okubukhoma namathoyizi akhuluma.