Ukungaziqondi kahle ngezingane, ukuxilongwa kanye nokwelapha

Izingane ezilalelayo nezilalelayo zihlale zilindile. Bazokuthi bahlezi, badlale ukudlala - ukudlala, njengokungathi akunjalo. Ukuqaphela ukuziphatha okunjalo okungokwemvelo, kancane kancane uqala ukunqoba umcabango: "Kukhona okungalungile kuye." Abazali balo mntwana akunakwenzeka ukuba baqonde labo abafanele bakhulise i-fidget yangempela. Yiqiniso, lokhu okuphambene nakho akuyona into engcono. Isiphepho sezingane sishaya yonke into endleleni yaso eminzini yamaminithi. Akuyona into eyodwa ebalekela esweni lakhe elibukhali. Izandla zakhe ezincane ziphonsa futhi ziphula yonke into, kubonakala sengathi zinenani ezine. Ukungaqondakali kwengane kuyisivivinyo sangempela kubazali bakhe. Indlela yokunquma umugqa phakathi kwesimiso nesifo? Cabanga ngokungahloniphi kahle ukukhathazeka ezinganeni, ukuxilongwa nokwelashwa okudinga ukubekezela.

Isizathu sokuzindla

Umsebenzi ubelokhu ukhona futhi uhlala uphawu lwezingane enempilo, ogcwele amandla namandla. Noma kunjalo, ukuhamba ngokweqile kufanele kuxwayise abazali. Uma ingane ingakwazi ukuma emgqeni omude, ihamba ngezinyawo ezikhuni, lokhu akusona isizathu sokukhuluma ngokungahambi kahle. Kudingekile ukuhlukanisa ukwedlulela ngokweqile, lapho ingane yonke ilanga lonke, kungakhathaliseki isimo nesimo, igijima, iqhuma futhi ihamba ngokungahambi kahle. Futhi akukho ukukholisa, noma ukujeziswa ngenxa yalo akusebenzi.

Kuzokwelapha, kukhona into enjengokukhathazeka ngokweqile ukucindezeleka kokugula. Le syndrome ibangelwa ukuphulwa kwesistimu yenzwa yomphakathi. Kubonakala ekuhlulekeni kwengane ukugxila futhi kugxile kokuthile isikhathi eside. Izingane ezinenkinga yokukhathazeka ngokweqile ziyingozi kakhulu, zingenasiphelo, zingenakulinganiswa, zisebenza ngokungahambisani nemoto. Lezi zingane zinenkinga ngenkumbulo futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ngokuqeqeshwa. I-syndrome yokwehluleka kokungacabangi ukuphazamisa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kubangelwa ukuvumelanisa kwengane yomphakathi. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi izingane ezibhekene nale syndrome zisengozini yokuphuza utshwala nokusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubafana lesi sifo sithatha izikhathi ezine ngokuphindaphindiwe kunamantombazane. Ukubonakaliswa kokunakekelwa kokungaboni kahle kwengqondo kungabonwa ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane. Ama-signal alamu kufanele abizwe ngokuthi:

• ukukhala okukhulu;

• ukuzwela ngokweqile kwengane ekukhulekeleni - ukukhanya, umsindo, ukuguqula, njalonjalo;

• inamba enkulu yokunyakaza kwengane, okuthiwa ukukhathazeka kwamandla;

• ukulala ukuphazamiseka: ingane ivukile futhi ilele.

Ngezinye izikhathi izingane ezinenkinga yokukhathazeka ngokweqile ziqala ngemuva kokuthuthukiswa kwemoto. Bafunda ukuphendulela bese bedla izinyanga ezingu-1-2 ngemuva kokunye. Kungase kube nokubambezeleka kancane ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo. Kwenzeka ukuthi abazali abakuboni lutho olungavamile ekuziphatheni kwengane yabo baze bafike enkulisa. Kodwa uma i-karapuz iya esikoleni sasenkulisa, izimpawu zokungabi nandaba nokungazinaki zizenza zizizwe. Ukwandiswa kwemithwalo yengqondo nengokwenyama kwembula ukuthi ingane ayikwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo ezintsha. Isibonakaliso kubazali kufanele sibe izikhalo zothisha mayelana nokungalawulwa, ukungazithembi ngesikhathi samakilasi futhi bengakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi odingekayo.

Eminyakeni engu-5-6, inkinga yesifo ibuhlungu. Ingane iba yinto engalingani, ephuthumayo, ukuzethemba kwayo kuphazamiseka. Naphezu kokuhlakanipha okukhulu, ingane ayifundi kahle esikoleni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngenxa yokuzijabulisa nokubekezela, ukuphikisana noontanga nabantu abadala kuvela. Abazali bezingane abanenkinga yokukhathazeka ngokweqile kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi akaqapheli iziphathimandla futhi akakwazi ukubonela phambili imiphumela yokuziphatha kwakhe.

Ukuxilongwa kokunakekelwa kokunakekelwa kokungaboni kahle

Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho ayilungile, qiniseka ukuthi uthintana ne-neurologist. Futhi ungazitholi ukubonisana njalo. Kungcono ukuhlolwa okuphelele. Ukuxilongwa kokunakekelwa kokulahlekelwa kwesifo nokukhathazeka kokungabi naso kuhlanganisa izigaba eziningana.

Isigaba 1 sikhuluma nodokotela. Kubalulekile ukutshela udokotela ngokuningiliziwe ngokuziphatha kwengane, ngazo zonke izifo eziye zahlupheka, mayelana nokukhulelwa nokubeletha.

Isigaba sesi-2 - ukusebenza komntwana kwezivivinyo ezikhethekile. Ngokwenani lamaphutha nesikhathi ingane esichitha kulo msebenzi, udokotela uzokwazi ukuhlola isimo.

Isigaba sesi-3 - isifundo se-brain brain, okuyinto ezovumela udokotela ukuba ahlaziye ekugcineni.

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi, kuye ngezibonakaliso ezikhona, odokotela bahlukanisa izinhlobo ezintathu zezifundo zesifo:

1. Ukunakekelwa Kokulahlekelwa Kokukhubazeka Kwesifo (okuvamile).

2. I-Syndrome yokunakekelwa kokunakekelwa ngaphandle kokungabi namandla (okujwayelekile kumantombazane, njalo "ukuhamba emafwini").

3. Syndrome of hyperactivity ngaphandle kokunganaki ukunakwa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, isimo esilula nesinkimbinkimbi sesifo sisodwa. Uma kulesi simo sokuqala kukhona ukungabi nabulungisa nokuhlukunyezwa kwengane. Khona-ke okwesibini - izimpawu ezinjengokuphazamiseka kokulala, ikhanda, ama-tics, ukuthungatha okungeziwe.

Ukwelashwa kokunakekelwa kokulahlekelwa kwengqondo ezinganeni

Ukwelashwa kwalesi sifo kufanele kube okuphelele. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kumele kufake kokubili ukwelashwa kwemithi nokulungiswa kwengqondo. Ukuhluka okuhle, lapho ingane ingabonwa kuphela kwi-neurologist, kodwa nakumqondo wezokwelapha. Futhi-ke, awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokusekelwa ngumama nobaba - kuphela ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukuhlanganisa amakhono atholakale ngesikhathi sokwelashwa. Ukusheshisa ukuphola, abazali bangancoma lokhu okulandelayo:

1. Khumbula ukuthi ingane yakho ayitholakali ukujeziswa futhi igxeke, kodwa ibucayi kakhulu ekudumiseni. Nika ingane ithuba lokuhlola okuhle, futhi elibi - ezenzweni zakhe: "Ungumfana omuhle, kodwa manje wenza okubi."

2. Zama ukuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuvuza kanye nokujeziswa kanye nengane. Uma udinga ukujezisa ingane, yenze ngokushesha ngemuva kwecala.

3. Yenza izidingo zakho ngokucacile nangendlela efanele. Ungamniki ingane imisebenzi eminingi ngesikhathi esisodwa.

4. Lawula imodi yosuku lomntwana. Konke kufanele kube ngesimiso nasesikhathini esimisiwe: ukuphakamisa, ukudla kwasekuseni, ukudla kwasemini, isidlo sakusihlwa, umsebenzi wesikole, ukuhamba, ukulala.

5. Qaphela ukuthi ingane ingasebenzi ngokweqile lapho yenza noma yimuphi umsebenzi. Uma kungenjalo, ukucindezeleka kuyokwanda.

6. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane yakho idinga ukuqeqeshwa kahle kombuso. Ukucindezeleka ngokweqile kuyoholela ekukhathaleni. Uma wenza izidingo eziphakeme, ingane izoba nokuphazamiseka kokufunda.

7. Zama ukukhipha ukubamba iqhaza kwengane emisebenzini ehambisana nenani elikhulu labantu.

8. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho inabangane abalinganiselayo nabazolile.

9. Gwema ukuqhathaniswa okungafanele nezinye izingane: "Petya ungumfana omuhle, futhi ungumfana omubi."

10. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane ichitha isikhathi esincane kukhompyutha nasesikrinini se-TV.

Kubalulekile ukwazi

Ngokweqile ukukhathazeka ezinganeni, ukuxilongwa kanye nokwelapha kufanele kwenziwe. Izimbangela zokunakekelwa kokunakekelwa kwemvelo ukuxilongwa kwegazi zibandakanya ukungasebenzi noma ukuphazamiseka kwesistimu ethile yobuchopho. Kanti futhi, ukungahloniphi kahle nokulahlekelwa okungaluthola kungabizwa njengefa. Kodwa-ke, kumacala angu-60-70%, ukubonakala kokukhathazeka kokulahlekelwa nokugula okubangelwa ukuhlaselwa komzimba kubangelwa ukuvezwa kwezici ezingalungile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Lezi zici zihlanganisa: ukubhema, ukungondleki okungalungile, ukucindezeleka ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ukusongelwa kwesisu, ukungena kwe-intrauterine (ukungabi ne-oksijeni), umsebenzi ongakabi isikhathi eside, owedlule noma ohlala isikhathi eside, ukukhuthazwa kwemisebenzi. Izingxabano ezihlala njalo emndenini kanye nokucindezela ngokweqile kwengane nazo zingaholela ekunakekelweni kokungaboni kahle kwengqondo. Ikakhulukazi uma umntwana enesimo esinqunyiwe kuso.