Ukukhumbula izazi zengqondo, cishe zonke izingane zizalwa zithembela. Ngokweminyaka yobudala bancike ngokuphelele kumama. Uyakhathalela ingane, ukudla, ama shampoos futhi avikele. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, ukwethemba kuvela ngokuqondile kumama, kodwa kuphela kubaba, ugogo nomkhulu. Ubuzali buxhomeke ukuthi ngabe lesi simvelo siqala noma cha.
Izimbangela zokulahlekelwa kwethemba
Lapho ingane iqala ukukhula, abadala ngokuvamile abanaso isikhathi esanele sokuxhumana. Futhi, ukukhohlisa okuqhubekayo kwabazali akubi kakhulu. Ungathembisi ukuthi awukwazi ukufeza. Ukukhohliswa okuvamile kaningi kuyoholela kancane ekulahlekelweni kokuzethemba.
Noma yiluphi uhlobo lokujeziswa ngokomzimba luholela emiphumeleni engathandeki. Inkulumo kanye nezinsongo eziqhubekayo zibhubhisa kakhulu igunya lomuntu omdala. Ingane izoqala ukuhlukaniswa ngokwayo. Futhi, izingane ezijeziswa kaningi ziqala ukuqamba amanga ukuzigwema. Izingxoxo eziqotho kuphela ezingagcina ingane engesabi.
U-Nestoit ucabanga ukuthi ngosizo lweminikelo yezipho unomphela, ungakwazi ukusekela ukwethemba. Lokhu akulungile neze.
Uma ingane ingalahleki emndenini wayo, lokhu kuholela ekusongeni kwakhe, isizungu kanye nokungavikeleki. Izingane ezinjalo zikhulela ngokuphelele ekuphileni. Abazi ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nezimo ezinzima. Ngakho-ke, ukuthembela nobuhlobo obuhle kuyisihluthulelo sokuthuthukiswa kwengane kanye nokuphila okujabulisayo nokuhlala njalo.
Indlela yokugcina nokubuyisela ukwethenjwa kwengane
Yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yokulondolozwa kwethemba ithembela emahlombe abazali. Ngakho-ke, banesibopho sokubonisa isinyathelo. Abantu abadala kufanele baqale ukulawula imizwa yabo nemizwelo yabo. Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukuvimbela futhi ungamemeza ingane. Uma abazali bezivumelekile ukuba babe nobuqili, khona-ke umuntu kufanele akwazi ukuzibona emaphutha abo. Ngaphambi kwengane kudingekile ukuxolisa bese ucela intethelelo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu futhi kusiza ukugcina ukwethemba. Ingane izwa amanga futhi inkohliso.
Ukuze ulungise noma ubuyisele ukuthembela kwengane, abantu abadala kufanele baqale ngokwabo, ngisho nalapho kudingeka bazame ukushintsha. Abazali akufanele banikele isibonelo esibi.
Kubalulekile ukukhombisa uthando lwakho nomzwelo ngesikhathi sokungalindelekile. Ingane encane ilindele, nakakhulu uyojabula.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlonipha imizwa nemibono yengane. Akumelwe neze utshele izingane inhlamba. Ngisho nesidlaliso sokuzilibazisa singamcasula futhi simcasule. Okhulile ingane iba, uyayibona ebuhlungu kakhulu. Ungamfaki ingane yakho ngendlela engafaneleki. Ngokwezigaba akunakwenzeka ukuba enze amanothi kubantu abadala, ikakhulukazi ontanga. Kulimaza izingane kakhulu kabi.
Abazali kufanele baxoxisane ngokuziphatha nezici ezimbi zomntwana nabangaphandle, ikakhulukazi ebusweni bakhe. Zibeke endaweni yakhe bese ugwinya ukuthi akujabulisi kangakanani.
Ngokuvamile ukulahlekelwa yithemba kubangelwa ngenxa yezidingo ezidlulile, abazali abazenzayo ezinganeni zabo. Bayafuna ingane ukuthi iphumelele esikoleni noma ezemidlalo. Kodwa zonke izingane zihluke ngokuphelele. Abanye baze bazama kakhulu, abakwazi ukuletha okuyisihlanu. Futhi, isigaba esikhethiwe angeke sithande ingane futhi siyivakashele kuphela ngoba abazali bafuna kanjalo. Kulesi simo, ubudlelwane bungaba nzima. Ngakho-ke, akufanele ubeke phambi kwezidingo ezithandwayo. Kubalulekile ukuthola ukuthi yini ethakazelisayo nokuthi yini ofuna ukuyenza ngesikhathi sakho sokuphumula.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubandakanya ingane kusukela eminyakeni encane kakhulu ukuba iqhaza emidlalweni yasekhaya kanye nezingxoxo. Kubalulekile ukuba abe nomuzwa wokuthi uthembekile. Ungalokothi uhlasele izingane uma zingaphumeleli. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukudumisa nokusekela ingane kuyo yonke imizamo yakhe. Ukukhangiswa kwengane kuya ebhizinisini kuyayivumela ukuba asebenze, ngesikhathi esifanayo, esondelene kakhulu nabazali bakhe. Futhi, izingane ezinjalo zihlonipha kakhulu unina nobaba. Yonke imisebenzi yezingane kufanele iphephe futhi ihambisane.
Inani elikhulu lokuthuthukiswa okulungile kwengane ukwaneliseka kwesidingo sokuphindiswa kabusha kontanga. Abazali kumele bamsize ukuba bahlele futhi bafundise indlela yokwenza abangane. Ingane kufanele ihlale iqiniseka ukuthi umama nobaba bangamvikela futhi bamtshele. Ingane akufanele ihlale yodwa ngezinkinga zayo. Ngakho-ke, ngisho nabazali abamatasa kufanele bathole isikhathi sokuxhumana nengane yabo.
Uthando nokwethemba
Ukubaluleka okukhulu kokudala ubuhlobo obethembayo budlalwa ngothando kanye nesimo esihle somzwelo emndenini. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthuthukisa amakhono abantwana babo kusukela esemncane. Ungakwazi ukuveza umuzwa wothando nomthwalo wemfanelo wengane. Ukuze wenze lokhu, izazi eziningi zengqondo zincoma ukuthi zibe nesilwane esifuywayo. Lesi sinqumo kufanele sithathwe kanye nomntwana futhi sinakekele isilwane ukuze sibeke kuso. Abantu abadala kufanele bafundise ingane ukuthi imnake kahle ngokufanele. Kufanele iqonde ukuthi izenzo ezingenandaba nokungalungi zingabangela ubuhlungu obukhulu kanye nokulimala okungaka kwengane. Ingane enesilwane sinomzwa wesizungu, kubalulekile futhi kubalulekile kumuntu. Uzobukeka ubuhlobo obuhlukile emndenini wakhe.
Indima ebaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabantu abadala nezingane idlalwa imidlalo ehlangene. Bakuvumela ukuba usondele kumntwana, futhi nakanjani uyoletha injabulo enkulu. Ingane iqala phakathi nemidlalo enjalo futhi ifunde ukuthembela kunina. Ungakwazi ukuhamba ngezinyawo zakho ekuhambeni okuhambayo kanye nemidlalo. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuphumula komndeni noma ukuhamba ngebhayisikili.
Ubuhlobo bomfihlo phakathi kwabazali kanye nentsha
Iningi lentsha inenkinga yabazali bayo. Kubonakala kubo ukuthi inkululeko yabo ivinjelwe njalo. Ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele baqinisekise abazali babo ukuthi abasekho abantwana. Ngakho-ke, kunzima kakhulu ngalesi sikhathi ukuba nobuhlobo obuthembekile nokufudumele.
Abazali kufanele bashintshe kakhulu ukuziphatha kwabo kubantwana babo. Kubalulekile ukwazi izici zokuthuthukiswa ekukhuleni. Ungazwakali njalo ukunganeliseki ngezenzo nokuziphatha kwengane. Sekuvele kunzima kakhulu. Kulo nyaka ubudala ukuthi unothando lokuqala oluqinile, kancane kancane uqala ukujwayela indima yomuntu omdala.
Ngakho-ke, abazali kufanele banikeze ukusekelwa kwengqondo kwengane yabo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukholelwa nokumthanda. Ungamgwebi futhi konke wenqabe. Kumele ukuba abe mahhala ekukhethweni kwabangane, izithakazelo, ukuthandwa nokungathandwa. Ungafaki imibono yakho. Ukulawula kufanele kube okungabonakali. Kodwa abazali kudingeka bazi ukuthi kuphi futhi ngubani umntwana. Kubalulekile ukugwema ukuphenywa. Akuvumelekile ukuba ufunde idayari, izincwadi kanye nemilayezo.