Kungani, kusukela ekubelethweni , izimpawu zobulili zisatshalaliswa ngokucophelela. Amantombazane adlala izidoli nezitsha zezingane, abafana, emishini yokubhala futhi empini ngezibhamu. Lokhu kwenzeka ngokufaka abantu abadala. Phela, uma sikhetha amathoyizi kubantwana bethu, nathi siqondiswa ubulili bomntwana. Amantombazane athenge amadonki, isitsha, umshini wokuthunga umshini, umgibeli. Futhi abafana, izimoto, izibhamu, abaklami. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi izingane ezineminyaka encane kunazo zonke zizinqumela ezithombeni, ngokukhanya kwethu. Intombazane ethatha umshini wokubhala noma ibhakede emdlalweni wakhe - leli qiniso lidala isiphepho semizwelo. Futhi abantu abadala bathi njalo "uyintombazane, thatha idonsa!". Isimo esifanayo nabafana.
Lapho ingane iya ekilasini lokuqala , inombuthano omusha wabangani, ukukhulumisana nezingane sekuvele ezingeni elihlukile. Njengoba izingane zizwa zinezibopho eziningi, zikhula. Kukhona izimfihlo. Isibonelo, lapho indodakazi ibuya esikoleni bese ihlanganyela imfihlo yakhe nonina, "Umama uyayithanda i-Vitya esikoleni, wangidonsa nge-pigtail".
Lapho esekhulile , izingane ziba yimfihlo. Uma abazali benobungane bokuthembela, bangabelana ngemfihlo ethile, kodwa zonke izimfihlo ngeke zivezwe. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthembela ingane, nokuzethemba ezinganeni zabo kungenziwa ngenxa yokukhuliswa okufanele. Uma uqinisekile ukuthi indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho ngeke ibe yinkampani embi, ngeke isetshenziswe utshwala, izidakamizwa noma umusi, ngakho-ke uthole indlela efanele yokukhulisa izingane.
Manje basuke bephikisana kakhulu ngokusungulwa kwemfundo yezocansi esikoleni. Abazali abaningi baphambene nale ndlela. Ngokombono wabo, izinkinga ezinjalo zidinga ukuxoxwa ekhaya. Ngifuna ukuqaphela ukuthi abazali abaningi abafuni ukukhuluma ngalesi sihloko. Kunezizathu eziningi, zihlazekile, azikho isikhathi sezinto ezinjalo, noma zivele zithenge i-encyclopedia bese zivumela ingane ukuba iqonde. Kodwa ungakwazi ukunikeza izimpikiswano eziningi ukuze uthole amakilasi anjalo esikoleni. Okokuqala, wonke umsebenzi ochazayo wenziwa ngumchwepheshe ozoletha kahle ulwazi lonke, futhi angaphendula ngokufanele yonke imibuzo. Okwesibili, izingane zizofunda konke kusukela "ezandleni zokuqala", hhayi ezivela emgwaqweni. Okubaluleke kakhulu. Ngempela, zingaki izimo zokukhulelwa kwabafundi besikole, izifo zezitho zangasese, ukungazi lutho kokukhulelwa kwengane. Konke okudingayo, abafana bayothola kusuka ochwepheshe.
Uma abazali bengathandi izinkinga ngokuthuthukiswa ngokocansi kwengane yabo, khona-ke kudingekile ukuba ukhulume naye ngale ndaba. Khuluma ngezinyathelo zokuvimbela, ukukhulelwa ngokweqile, izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi, imiphumela yokulala ngokocansi (ukukhulelwa). Futhi-ke ungakwazi ukugwema izinkinga ngemfundo yezocansi.
ESoviet Union, kwakungekho ucansi . Futhi isibambiso esinjalo sisekhona kuze kube manje, abazali abakwazi ukuphakamisa izihloko ezinjalo, ngoba nabo abazange bakhulume ngaloluhlelo. Masiphule imigomo yasendulo. Ngamahloni, lokhu akuwona umuzwa wokuthi abazali kufanele bayeke. Ukukhuluma nezingane kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuvimbela izinkinga zezingane, zomzimba nezokuziphatha. Yiba ngumfana noma intombazane, bayokwazi yonke imiphumela, okusho ukuthi kunomthwalo wemfanelo wokufinyelela kulo magazini.