Okwamanje, lo mshado usuhle kakhulu. Ngesikhathi somshado, lo mbhangqwana othandweni uhlala njalo washada neNkosi, ubusisiwe impilo ende, ejabulisayo ndawonye kanye nokuzalwa kwezingane. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi abashadile bashadile futhi emva kweminyaka embalwa yokuphila komndeni.
Ukuqhuba lo mcimbi omuhle, labo abasanda kushada kufanele bazinze ngokucophelela. Ngokuvamile abazali, ngisho nogogo nomkhulu bangakwazi ukweluleka noma yini. Ngesikhathi sabo, kwakungavunyelwe ukushada, ngoba ungakhokhela i-career noma ithikithi leqembu.
Ngokusho kwemithetho yesonto, umakoti nomkhwenyana kufanele bagcinwe okungenani kwezinsuku ezintathu zokuzila, bese-ke kumele avume futhi athathe isidlo. Ukuzila ukudla kumakholwa ukuzila ukudla hhayi kuphela ekudleni, kodwa nasebudlelweni bobulili. Kunconywa ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuzila ukudla, umuntu ophila ngendlela enesizungu, evinjelwe emisebenzini enesivunguvungu nomsindo, asebenzise isikhathi esiningi sokufunda imithandazo.
Ngesicelo sabo, umbhangqwana oshadile uya engxoxweni nompristi ukubuza ngokuningiliziwe mayelana nencazelo nokubaluleka kwesonto lesonto elizayo, ukuthola isibusiso sokuthatha isithombe somshado, nokuthola ukuthi yini okufanele ithathwe esontweni.
Okudingayo ukuthatha emshadweni
- Isitifiketi esisemthethweni somshado, esikhishwe yihhovisi lokubhalisa. Nakuba, njengoba wazi, imishado yenziwa ezulwini futhi abefundisi bangabantu abaqotho. Ezimweni eziningi, isonto alidingi intshumayelo yalo, lithembele ekuthandweni kwabathandi abashadile. Esikhathini sethu kuyisiko ukuthi ngaphambi komshado umshado wabashadayo usubhalisiwe ngokomthetho. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlela ukwenza izenzakalo ezimbili ngosuku olulodwa, abashadayo kumele bahambe ehhovisi lokubhalisa, bese beya esontweni lomshado.
- Izindandatho zomshado, ezazisanda kushada zangaphambili ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Lezi zindandatho zizosetshenziselwa umkhosi womshado. Ebandleni umpristi uzophinde abeke, kodwa kakade ungcwelisiwe, eminwe yabashadayo.
- Izithombe ezimbili. Umkhwenyana, ngokuqondene nekhanda elizayo lomndeni - isithonjana sikaKristu uMsindisi, somlobokazi, ngokuqondene nomgcini wesikhathi esizayo somndeni - isithonjana sikaMama kaNkulunkulu.
- Amakhandlela omshado (isibonakaliso sothando oluhlanzekile nobumsulwa nomusa kaNkulunkulu) angathengwa ngqo esitolo noma esitolo sesithonjana. Zihluke ngokuphawulekayo kwamakhandlela esonto avamile. Ekubukeni, amakhandlela omshado akhulu kakhulu, futhi angahlotshiswe ahlotshiswe ngama-curls, izimbali nezifanekiselo. Amakhandlela akhethwe ngabashadayo ngokwabo, kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi bangcweliswe. Kungcono ukuthatha amakhandlela ngamashekhethi akhethekile ukuze i-wax ingaboni ekugqokeni komakoti nesambatho somkhwenyana.
- Ithawula elimhlophe noma ithawula nelineni elilodwa lelineni lesayizi elincane. Esikhathini ithawula (uphawu lokuhlanzeka komshado), umakoti womshado nomkhwenyana umzuzwana othile womshado, futhi umpristi ubopha izandla zalabo abashadile othandweni, ngokufanisa ukuhlanganisa lezi zinhlawulo zibe yinye. Amacwecwe amabili enelineni ahlanganisa amakhandlela amabili omshado, kanye namashekhi amabili asele, ofakazi bomshado babamba imiqhele yesonto phezu kwalabo abasanda kushada.
- Iziphambano ze-neckeck , okwathi ngesikhathi esisodwa zibhalela umakoti nomkhwenyana. Bobabili abasanda kushada kanye nofakazi bomshado kufanele babhapathizwe futhi kumele baphishe ukholo lobuKristu lobuKristu, uma umshado kwenzeka eSontweni Lama-Orthodox. Iziphambano kufanele zibe entanyeni, akudingeki zisuswe futhi zinikezwe kunoma ubani. Uma abazali bengakubhapathizi, khona-ke ngaphambi komshado kuzodingeka ukuthi udlule umhlangano wobhapathizo kuqala.
Isambatho somshado nesigqoko somshado, njengoba besho e-Odessa, kukhona umehluko omkhulu omkhulu. Njengokungathi ungathandi ukubuka imfashini, ingubo yomshado akufanele ibe yinto evusa inkanuko futhi ingacacile - imibala ekhanyayo (isibonelo, obomvu), ubude obujulile, ubude obunesibindi kanye nokucubungula okuphezulu esontweni akumukeleki. Into engcono kakhulu ukulandela isitayela sobuciko nombala omhlophe. Lesi yisiqinisekiso sokuthi umpristi uzokuyisa emshadweni nokuthi abafundisi besonto lendawo ngeke bakulahle. Uma ngabe ingxenye yengubo ayihambisani nemithetho yesonto, kungcono ukumboza ngesikhafu esincane sokufanisa umbala wesigqoko noma ukuphonsa i-bolero.
Kuboya bomakoti, kunezinye izidingo: kungcono ukuba nesitayela se-classic ngaphandle kwe "frills" kanye nemigqongo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kuyinto efiselekayo ukuqinisa iveli. Uma izinwele zinganikeli iveli, khona-ke kudingeka uthathe nawe emshadweni isikhafu esincane, ongasifaka ikhanda lakho phakathi nomkhosi.
Kuyinto evamile ukuba nofakazi emshadweni, futhi kuthiwa ungumngani nomngani, futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi umfana angashadile futhi intombazane engashadile. Uma wenza umkhosi womshado wofakazi kufanele kube khona ababili, bazobe bethemba phezu kwamakhanda abosha abasanda kushada ukugcina imiqhele. Ubulili, iminyaka yobudala, isimo somshado kuleso simo asihlali indima.
Ngokuvamile, uzodinga umkhosi ukuthatha izithombe namavidiyo. Ukudubula ngamathempeli kuvunyelwe kuvunyelwe. Kodwa kungcono ukuxoxisana nayo yonke imibuzo nompristi ngaphambili ukuze ugweme izinkumanga ezingathandeki. Ethempelini, ukukhanyisa okukhethekile nezithombe eziphakeme nezamavidiyo kufanele kuphathwe abantu abanolwazi.
Inqubo yomshado
Umkhosi womshado uyenzeka ngezigaba ezimbili - ukubandakanyeka nomshado. Umpristi uphatha izindandatho ezisegayini. Ubavakashela, ukhanyisa amakhandlela, ubapha ezandleni zalabo abasanda kushada. Ngemva kwalokho, umakoti nomkhwenyana bahamba ngokushintshanisa kathathu. Abantu abasanda kushada badlulisela izindandatho kathathu emgodini bese bezembathisa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi labo abasanda kushada bayazinikezana ngokuphila.
Ngesikhathi somshado, umpristi uyabanakekela ngomqhele futhi abusise. Bese ufunda amaVangeli, khona-ke kuletwa isitsha sewayini, lapho umkhwenyana nomakoti kudingeka baphuze ama-sips amathathu. Iwayini yi-sherry yesonto noma i-Cahors. Ngemva kwalokho, lo mbhangqwana osemusha uba owodwa.
Umpristi uphinde uxhumane ngezandla ezifanele zabashadisi abesesandleni sakhe bese ebahambisa ngokuphindwe kathathu. Kuyinto ephawulekayo ukuthi umshado wabasha uzoba ubunye obungunaphakade bemiphefumulo nezinhliziyo.
Emva kwalokho, labo abasanda kushada balethwa emasangweni obukhosi. Isithombe esilandelayo soMsindisi siyamanga umyeni, futhi isithombe sikaMama kaNkulunkulu sibanga umakoti. Bese bashintsha izindawo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umpristi onesiPhambano ubavumela ukuba bamanga. Ngemuva komshado, lezi zithombe zizoxonywa abashadayo endlini yabo ekamelweni eliphezulu ngaphezu kombhede.
Izimpawu ezihlobene nenqubo yomshado
Ngaphambi komshado ekuseni kufanele ubeke ilokhi ngaphansi kombundu, ngokushesha nje lapho osanda kushada bewela emngceleni, udinga ukukhiya ukhiye ngesikhiye, uphonsa ukhiye, bese ulondoloza ukukhiya kwempilo yomndeni ende!
Uma amakhandlela ashisa ngokushelela futhi ngokushelela ngesikhathi somshado, kusho ukuthi impilo ejabulisayo nejabulisayo ilinde abasha, kodwa uma amakhandlela ephikisana, ukuphila kuyobe kungenasiphelo.
Amakhandlela omshado emva komkhosi kumele agcinwe ekhaya ukuze aphile.
Amathawula amhlophe lapho abashadayo abemi khona, akukho muntu okufanele anikezwe ngesandla futhi kubalulekile ukugcina izindlu zijabule.
Ngesikhathi somshado, labo abasanda kushada ngamehlo akufanele babheke, lokhu kungaholela ekuhlaselweni.
Ekupheleni komshado we-sakramente ephelele, abantu abasha bayabonga isonto ngesinkwa esisha, okumelwe siboshwe ngendwangu yelineni.